Is this the problem with black nerds?

[allreasoned_out]

But why is it not a good thing? By whose guidelines? Successful black men are going where they are accepted for who they are, not for what some rudimentary skanks think they should be. Foolish is the man that dumbs himself down for any race or women just to gain "acceptance"..................

I'm not saying a man shouldn't go where he is accepted (that is also my policy). But it would be better if black women accepted these so-called lames. Why? One reason is that having these men marry and have children with non-black women positions their children to be elites, and it's not a good thing for the black elite to be dominated by bi-racial people.

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

I'm not saying a man shouldn't go where he is accepted (that is also my policy). But it would be better if black women accepted these so-called lames. Why? One reason is that having these men marry and have children with non-black women positions their children to be elites, and it's not a good thing for the black elite to be dominated by bi-racial people.

But if the overwhelming majority of black women aren't accepting "lames", what else can a man do but evolve? And if these black women's mentalities aren't on the same wavelengths, how can they expect to produce an abundant relationship? Elite is a state of mind. Who has the racial authority anyway to deem the "black elite"? My children will be black regardless, because I'm black...............................

 

[longmeat]

I'm not saying a man shouldn't go where he is accepted (that is also my policy). But it would be better if black women accepted these so-called lames. Why? One reason is that having these men marry and have children with non-black women positions their children to be elites, and it's not a good thing for the black elite to be dominated by bi-racial people.

If i'm retarded enough to ever engage in an endevour that has a 50% failure rate, it's gonna be with someone I gel with. Not with someone who happens to be the same color as me. Give me an fly ass brazillian bitch with some good head over a a black bitch with an entitlement mentality any day.

 

[young al]

black dudes need to stop trying to be loyal to these hoes. Other races of women have pussies too. Black women aren't loyal to black men, they just don't get approached by many white dudes.

 

[Yung_Souf_Money]

it's like this ...every man and woman deserves a chance no matter how they look ,cause theres so many black women out here making excuses to continue fucking with these thugs and having bastard kids.

the so called nerds be the fortune 500 niggaz making that bread then when these brawds are fucked up and used up,they want to finally give a good man a chance i think it's a slap in the face of all good men who end up getting left over garbage.

why would any woman want to give a good man to useless years of her life but will give a thug or playa the best of her years

the thugs and playas get the women with the phattest asses and cute faces etc....

the good niggaz get the beach wells and backtracking hoes who will treat him bad cause of what tyrone did to her throughout the relationship.

i dont understand women

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

it's like this ...every man and woman deserves a chance no matter how they look ,cause theres so many black women out here making excuses to continue fucking with these thugs and having bastard kids.

the so called nerds be the fortune 500 niggaz making that bread then when these brawds are fucked up and used up,they want to finally give a good man a chance i think it's a slap in the face of all good men who end up getting left over garbage.

why would any woman want to give a good man to useless years of her life but will give a thug or playa the best of her years

the thugs and playas get the women with the phattest asses and cute faces etc....

the good niggaz get the beach wells and backtracking hoes who will treat him bad cause of what tyrone did to her throughout the relationship.

i dont understand women

Women don't understand each other, so how can they ever expect men to understand them? It baffles me how those types of women always want you to "accept" their baggage and flaws, but yet and still they judge you on everything from A-Z.............................

 

[Yung_Souf_Money]

Women don't understand each other, so how can they ever expect men to understand them? It baffles me how those types of women always want you to "accept" their baggage and flaws, but yet and still they judge you on everything from A-Z.............................

you said a mouth full right there,close the thread,he said it all

they want us to accept their flaws and baggage but they expect us to be this ideal nigga they see on tv

 

[jay83]

Isnt a geek different from a nerd?

i think geeks are the ones who are lame and play Warcraft all day.

I think nerds are just different.

I just think we categorize all those terms together.

Nerds get play.

Geeks get no play.

Lames every now and then get play.

Weirdos either get alot of play or none at all.

Alphas males get alot of play.

Beta males get the leftovers.

All of this info is 100% accurate. by the way. lol

 

[Bodhi]

I'm a black nerd.. only I'm pleasant to be around. I mean, look at me

 

[Rozetta5tone]

In the end..It all boils down to compatibility.

If a male spends enough time around a female & they're compatible, they will hook up. Whether he's a nerd and she is a prom queen or he is a jock and she is a book worm, that shit really wouldnt matter.

imo...it's all about time and opportunity.

 

[NothingButTheTruth]

Define nerd...

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

Isnt a geek different from a nerd?

i think geeks are the ones who are lame and play Warcraft all day.

I think nerds are just different.

I just think we categorize all those terms together.

Nerds get play.

Geeks get no play.

Lames every now and then get play.

Weirdos either get alot of play or none at all.

Alphas males get alot of play.

Beta males get the leftovers.

All of this info is 100% accurate. by the way. lol

But as a grown man, why do these titles apply? Simply because a person likes Warcraft or any other form of alternative media doesn't mean they are a nerd or a geek, it just means that that's their area of interest. There are certain things a grown man shouldn't do, and adhere to titles applied by surface level thinkers is one of them.........................

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

In the end..It all boils down to compatibility.

If a male spends enough time around a female & they're compatible, they will hook up. Whether he's a nerd and she is a prom queen or he is a jock and she is a book worm, that shit really wouldnt matter.

imo...it's all about time and opportunity.

Exactly. That's why you shouldn't act a a certain way just to attract hoes because phoniness only attracts phony people. And if a person is genuinely interested in you, it doesn't matter what other folks say, they'll find you out for themselves. Females these days are wired to be superficial these days though, moreso than men. For example, just look at a list of requirements that females on this very sight put up for as prerequisites for a mate........................

 

[jay83]

But as a grown man, why do these titles apply? Simply because a person likes Warcraft or any other form of alternative media doesn't mean they are a nerd or a geek, it just means that that's their area of interest. There are certain things a grown man shouldn't do, and adhere to titles applied by surface level thinkers is one of them.........................

i said this info was 100% accurate. lol I usually dont generalize, but have you ever met anyone who plays Warcraft all day that wasnt over 300 pounds. Im just sayin.

Not defending the groupie who made the blog, but there are dudes out there that are just lame.

My coworker sits at home all day and plays xbox (which many of us do) but he does it all day and complains women aint shit. Even when he is set up on dates, he complains that her ass isnt big enough and goes back to his basement to play games online. All he does is play games and complain about women aint shit. We're like "man, you got to at least try to improve yourself and quit waiting on the world to drop a dime through your roof". I would label him lame because he just complains and plays xbox all day. Nothing productive. Hes not a lame because he plays xbox, hes a lame because thats all he does, and complains and basiclly anything less than melyssa ford isnt good enough for him. Hes wants a whole lot, but gives nothing in return.

 

[Yung_Souf_Money]

cause if a dude has to stop being himself to get any woman then she aint the one for him

i be damned if i stop being Malik Jones to please any chick out here cause alot of niggaz out here acting fake to get a brawd,nigga be yourself

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

i said this info was 100% accurate. lol I usually dont generalize, but have you ever met anyone who plays Warcraft all day that wasnt over 300 pounds. Im just sayin.

Not defending the groupie who made the blog, but there are dudes out there that are just lame.

My coworker sits at home all day and plays xbox (which many of us do) but he does it all day and complains women aint shit. Even when he is set up on dates, he complains that her ass isnt big enough and goes back to his basement to play games online. All he does is play games and complain about women aint shit. We're like "man, you got to at least try to improve yourself and quit waiting on the world to drop a dime through your roof". I would label him lame because he just complains and plays xbox all day. Nothing productive. Hes not a lame because he plays xbox, hes a lame because thats all he does, and complains and basiclly anything less than melyssa ford isnt good enough for him. Hes wants a whole lot, but gives nothing in return.

I agree that both sides have screwed up this little thing that we call relationships, but the groupie that wrote this is gearing it more towards positive, productive black men, which on a larger scale, society tends to shun. I dunno, for a chick to come out of her mouth and label guys "nerds" and "lames" is immature and socially deficient to me and says a lot about her character. It'll be funny when the very black men that she targeted with this piece are living their prosperous lives while she's alone with her cats..............

 

[jay83]

I agree that both sides have screwed up this little thing that we call relationships, but the groupie that wrote this is gearing it more towards positive, productive black men, which on a larger scale, society tends to shun. I dunno, for a chick to come out of her mouth and label guys "nerds" and "lames" is immature and socially deficient to me and says a lot about her character. It'll be funny when the very black men that she targeted with this piece are living their prosperous lives while she's alone with her cats..............

Yea now that im older, I realize many young women like status and attention. They want to be with men who can bring them status and attention. Which is why athletes, frats, and others of the like are so popular. Women really dont think about a family and all that until they get older. But most want a man they can show off to their friends, and be the center of attention. Many "nerds" cant bring that to them I guess. Dating a nerd would mean being with a guy who might not give them that status or attention. Especially if hes the quiet type. But its not just black women though. But I feel both parties have the blame to share as well.

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

Yea now that im older, I realize many young women like status and attention. They want to be with men who can bring them status and attention. Which is why athletes, frats, and others of the like are so popular. Women really dont think about a family and all that until they get older. But most want a man they can show off to their friends, and be the center of attention. Many "nerds" cant bring that to them I guess. Dating a nerd would mean being with a guy who might not give them that status or attention. Especially if hes the quiet type. But its not just black women though. But I feel both parties have the blame to share as well.

Yeah homie, I was like that coming up. Not to say that I was awkward, but I was just quiet around chicks all the time. Their biggest complaint was "That they couldn't figure me out." I was shy, i just never found anything worthwhile to discuss. Now that I'm a bit older, I'm able to see a lot of it for what it is. High school was nothing more than a four year, socialist herding/breeding factory that determined status by the ability to score on a standardized, culturally biased test. All I can say is thank God sometimes that I found my dime at an early age who accepts my comic book reading, Star Wars loving, Simpsons watching self................................

 

[loch121]

I don't think she wants that lame dude,it's the coool ones they always wanted who get with white girls who piss them off.no black women are whining bout Tiger.....cuz he's lame[/QUOTE]

What defines "lame"? Anybody can say what they want about Tiger, but he's still the world's wealthiest and top golfer. Smh, some folks will never get ahead in life cuz they spend too much time labeling others..............

I'm already ahead in life.lame meaning awkward,no style,stiff,just not cool.if you gotta ask.....you might be lame LOL

 

[sdrawkcabseh]

I'm already ahead in life.lame meaning awkward,no style,stiff,just not cool.if you gotta ask.....you might be lame LOL

That all you got?