Is It Okay for your girl to sit on another dudes lap?

[yellowtapesport]

I was talking to someone about this today..she had a good point. If y'all confident in ur relationship and these are real friends. A woman ain't gone care, plus you don't even have to worry about her reaction. It's the peanut gallery that's gone put a battery in her back.

Most niggaz who get shot over words, don't get shot cause they offended the nigga they said it to. They get shot cause they offended the niggaz who heard it and questioned if you were gone do somthin about it.

Lol u right I done got into so much fuckery behind peer pressure and not wanting to look like a bitch ass nigga in my patnas eyes

Unfortunately, this makes you a bitch ass nigga

 

[TayGettem]

I was talking to someone about this today..she had a good point. If y'all confident in ur relationship and these are real friends. A woman ain't gone care, plus you don't even have to worry about her reaction. It's the peanut gallery that's gone put a battery in her back.

Most niggaz who get shot over words, don't get shot cause they offended the nigga they said it to. They get shot cause they offended the niggaz who heard it and questioned if you were gone do somthin about it.

Lol u right I done got into so much fuckery behind peer pressure and not wanting to look like a bitch ass nigga in my patnas eyes

Unfortunately, this makes you a bitch ass nigga

Well clearly I was speaking in past tense. Now that I'm older and have two kids and a fiance I can look back knowing the things ik now and admit the things I did as a younger me were dumb. But can't no one ever say they punked me as a youngin either. I was just a young ghetto nigga from the hood who got mixed up in gang life. It is what it is but when u grow up in those situations shit can happen. I can't speak for niggas who from the suburbs or didn't grow up in America. I can only speak from my perspective and when your a young male u think ur invincible. When u and all ya homies was raised up with attitudes....etc then ya u fight and feel u gotta prove yaself. Now that I'm older niggas could talk shit to me and I wouldn't care cuz Ik better and have shit to lose now. But when I was like 15,16,17,18 ud get ya nose busted talkin outche neck. That's just life b

 

[blackrain]

I've lurked and watched many'a "platonic friends" threads unfold on the IC and seen many'a cats proclaim how "secure" they are in their relationships and how much they "trust" they ole lady........

I hope even they got a limit...

Trusting somebody and being secure don't mean be a blind idiot or that you don't have boundaries.

 

[R0mp]

I'm not a cuck, TS.

 

[godoffun]

Hell no and your girl shouldnt have male friends either.

 

[BiblicalAtheist]

Hell no and your girl shouldnt have male friends either.

I think it can work. I've seen many couples who maintain opposite sex friendships for long periods of time and it's completely platonic. And I've seen it happen where males and females can't just be friends because they end up fuckin, so I mean it's one of those mysteries of life why does that happen like that?

 

[goldenja]

"My girl?" No.

"Your girl?" Yes

 

[NoCompetition]

In a way, yeah. I'd rather know what she's about than not. That would be like an "oh ok I see..." type thing. Thanks for revealing yourself and being honest. Thats all you can ask of her really. Now of course I am going to view that how I view it and have my cool response.

 

[Lurkristocrat]

In a way, yeah. I'd rather know what she's about than not. That would be like an "oh ok I see..." type thing. Thanks for revealing yourself and being honest. Thats all you can ask of her really. Now of course I am going to view that how I view it and have my cool response.

Yea....u aint never been in a real relationship....

 

[DR. JEK]

My boy's girl does this shit man smh its so wack. We were all friends before they got together and she's real touchy feely as a person. Like, niggas meet her and always come up to me tellin' me they think they can bone.

So we're at a lil thing and they walk in, bitch comes and sits on my lap smh I can see dude isn't pleased but what can I do. Luckily, I'm kinda known for dislikin' PDA so I styled it and she got up and moved to another friend's lap. Brudda lookin' at me like 'what do I do' cah her man is there screwin' but can't really say shit coz she's just like that and has done this sorta thing nuff times before

Crazy man the other girls come up to me askin' wtf is wrong with her and I always just say 'that's the way she is man'

Fuck that "Dats the way she is" shit. She's a Straight up thot, I mean giving people u know hugs and blushing and low key being a little suggestive is one thing....sitting on niggas laps and seeing if they can get the wood to throb type shit and be smiling in they face is another! (word to Faith Evans and 2 Pac)

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

She is not your girl.

 

[deadeye]

@Kat

Sit on my lap Kathryn.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

When your so called girl sits on another mans lap she's no longer your girl

If your so-called girl even wants to sit on another man's lap, she's no longer your girl.