Is it ok for another woman to cook for YOUR man ??

[UPTOWN]

Wait hold up....I know u ain't just call him Black Raina....He's the only nigga who posts in here and makes sense.

You sir, don't make sense. I dont care if that bitch was in the crib next to you in the nursery when you were born and yall been inseparable ever since. If she cooks you a plate of food, there will be PROBLEMS. And ain't no "lets talk it out" type quick ass problem solving gonna help it either. You clearly don't understand the principle because as you said, you haven't had that type of relationship with a woman. But from FB to the IC...the females are telling you YES it is just THAT serious. So, now that you're equipped with this knowledge, don't try to justify why you think it shouldn't be a problem. Understand that it IS a problem and when you do get with a lady deserving of your love and commitment, you will keep this in mind and not let it go down if a female tries to pull this stunt.

LOL ... this is the last time i go down this road LOL ... you right tho luv ... i honestly didnt know

funny thing is i told myself not to argue it with my logic ... then this nigga just had to come with the BS

Now one of the women in this room will prolly quote what I just typed and cuss me the hell out because I had to explain shit to you SMH. Now I'm gettin cussed out on FB and the powder room

got damn blackrain man ill tell yah SMMFH

 

[UPTOWN]

He can still be friends with her. He just cant eat her cooking. Fuck that.

Said it before, I was raised old school deep southern style. And that is jsut a no no. You cook for a man to show him you can be a good nurturer, mother, mate. If a bitch cooks for my man knowing he has a woman who is more than capable and willing to do so, then that bitch might as well have spit in my face and told me she means to make my man stray. She's sending him a message that she wants to take care of him.

I know alot of ya'll dont understand it, but around here thats just how it is.

see i can respect this .... its just one of those things. its not about the specifics .. its just the principle of it. i didnt know tho LOL ..... went back and forth for like 3 or 4 posts with the girl on FB LOL ... she was duck tho anyway, she didnt even have a man .... but damn ... she was right LOL smh

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[DEE-LICIOUS]

hey, u predicted ur own future lmao

But HB it isn't a southern thing. idk for some reason southern people think we have been raised SOOOOO differently in the north. That's an annoying ass assumption by the way. Yall niggas ain't invent cooking and doin shit for your man. Wait...thats a whole nother rant for a whole nother thread though. But that's the impression yall leave w/me when talking about niggas and cooking smmfh.

 

[UPTOWN]

Hold up- why the hell is some chick cooking for MY MAN?! NO that's NEVER acceptable! The bitch betta be cooking for a damn dinner party where we ALL eating....that's the only time it's acceptable. I'll go the hell off....the fuck u cookin for MY man for hoe?

LOL now i seen the pms thread you made, dont know how long ago that was but if it already past, you still got that rah rah in you LOL

i could imagine dee taking the plate out of her mans hands, going back to the girl with the plate still in hand for the confrontation LOL

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[UPTOWN]

only if it's family or WE are at a gathering together. Other than that why the hell is some woman cooking for my man ???

Anywho....

either way I'll be fixing his plate ...

im not arguing but how the hell you gonna pop shit with a sig like that?? LOL

 

[UPTOWN]

hey, u predicted ur own future lmao

LOL ... i swear im going on an arguing fast LOL 40 days and 40 nights like jesus LOL

 

[UPTOWN]

No. Unless its his mom or his famiy member or something. Other than that, it's my job to feed him. And if another bitch tried to, I would know something is up b/c you don't randomly cook for a nigga unless you tryin to fuck or steal him from his girl. Cuz the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. So f that lol. He wouldn't want no one else's cooking anyway tho

no diss .. but latina women are hella crazy ... i wouldnt even go to mcdonalds drive thru if a known slut was working the window if i was with a latina S/O LOL. my first love was puerto rican ... best believe i failed the shit outta spanish class after we broke up smh

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

LOL now i seen the pms thread you made, dont know how long ago that was but if it already past, you still got that rah rah in you LOL

i could imagine dee taking the plate out of her mans hands, going back to the girl with the plate still in hand for the confrontation LOL

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lmao nah I actually have too much class for that. I can get rachet as hell though if need be. But I would handle the situation publicly- with more tact than that. She damn sure would get the food back though. And behind closed doors He gone get cursed out for accepting that shit.

 

[UPTOWN]

lmao nah I actually have too much class for that. I can get rachet as hell though if need be. But I would handle the situation publicly- with more tact than that. She damn sure would get the food back though. And behind closed doors He gone get cursed out for accepting that shit.

LOL wow ..............

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

LOL wow ..............

A message needs to be conveyed. That's MY MAN. He'll be the one giving it back too. Rejection needs to come straight from him.

 

[1of1]

Insecurity is hilarious sometimes.

She's saving you time and money.

Your man will come back with the proper energy to blow your back out after he eats the meal.

What if she offers you some too, you still gon' be mad?

I understand having an issue with him sitting down and eating it with her (if it's not a business meeting).

 

[MsSouthern]

im not arguing but how the hell you gonna pop shit with a sig like that?? LOL

lol

apples to oranges boo

 

[MsSouthern]

Insecurity is hilarious sometimes.

She's saving you time and money.

Your man will come back with the proper energy to blow your back out after he eats the meal.

What if she offers you some too, you still gon' be mad?

I understand having an issue with him sitting down and eating it with her (if it's not a business meeting).

would you feel the same way if some man bought your girl a bottle of perfume or a coach bag ?

 

[1of1]

Women can be bought and the guy is clearly trying to do so, so that scenario isn't equal. If a guy is hungry he just wants some good food. I'm not fuckin' with a chick on the strength of her cooking skills that ain't got shit to do with shit really. I may use her for a good meal here and there but that's it.

To be honest I understand why this would make a woman uneasy. I can't act like I don't see where you're coming from.

 

[UPTOWN]

Insecurity is hilarious sometimes.

She's saving you time and money.

Your man will come back with the proper energy to blow your back out after he eats the meal.

What if she offers you some too, you still gon' be mad?

I understand having an issue with him sitting down and eating it with her (if it's not a business meeting).

dont do it man !!!!! LOL

 

[UPTOWN]

lol

apples to oranges boo

LOL u r terrible LOL

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

the bolded is the main reason it doesn't bother me. i know he's not goin anywhere, no matter who fixes him a plate. one of his good friends (a chick) is a cook, so if i'm not home to fix him something he'll stop by her restaurant and get a (free) plate once in a while, not a big deal to me.

That's completely different. She has a restaurant lol wtf. it aint like she went home, took an hour to cook a meal specifically for your husband. Brought it to his job and gave it to him like hey i cooked YOU a meal. I wouldnt care if my man went to a damn restaurant and got food for free. Or paying. I mean its a restaurant. Bring me a plate while ur at it lol

 

[UPTOWN]

the bolded is the main reason it doesn't bother me. i know he's not goin anywhere, no matter who fixes him a plate. one of his good friends (a chick) is a cook, so if i'm not home to fix him something he'll stop by her restaurant and get a (free) plate once in a while, not a big deal to me.

DEE, june, and blue are gonna come in here and say

"you share that man" LOL

i have no idea what bird would say to this .... prolly involves a pistol tho LOL

*** waits for it ***

 

[UPTOWN]

That's completely different. She has a restaurant lol wtf. it aint like she went home, took an hour to cook a meal specifically for your husband. Brought it to his job and gave it to him like hey i cooked YOU a meal. I wouldnt care if my man went to a damn restaurant and got food for free. Or paying. I mean its a restaurant. Bring me a plate while ur at it lol

wth !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[1of1]

dont do it man !!!!! LOL

Haha why not I just wanted to rep that side of the argument. I didn't read the thread.