Is it ok for another woman to cook for YOUR man ??

[Blue Virgo]

lol @ looking 40

Werd, she looks at least 50.
Bitch being too generous.

 

[UPTOWN]

i dont even know why you'd have to be told some shit like this...it's common sense really...just think how you'd feel if some other nigga was trying to buy your woman a gift or some shit

Yes but your post reads as if a female wrote it. Lemme find out bird and dee are ghostwriting your responses SMH

I never said I needed to be told anything. I just never realized it before. I've never even lived with a S/O before.

If anyone is gonna speak to me like that in here it will be a female. I expect from them Smh

 

[junegemini]

Werd, she looks at least 50.
Bitch being too generous.

lol a.mann added that, not her

 

[Blue Virgo]

lol a.mann added that, not her

Eh, post still stands.

 

[a.mann]

Eh, post still stands.

thank God you have knees and lips

 

[Blue Virgo]

thank God you have knees and lips

And a face that a man is willing to wake up to.
Cosign.

 

[blackrain]

Yes but your post reads as if a female wrote it. Lemme find out bird and dee are ghostwriting your responses SMH

I never said I needed to be told anything. I just never realized it before. I've never even lived with a S/O before.

If anyone is gonna speak to me like that in here it will be a female. I expect from them Smh

it comes off as feminine because I said not having another woman make your plate when you have a woman is common sense? that's retarted

 

[a.mann]

And a face that a man is willing to wake up to.

Cosign.

nobody's perfect

 

[UPTOWN]

it comes off as feminine because I said not having another woman make your plate when you have a woman is common sense? that's retarted

No it was the diva style delivery of such words. Furthermore, this topic is not about making plates. Its about a man accepting prepared food from a woman other than his own. Not being at a cook out and some floozie making you a plate of BBQ chicken, greens, and potato salad. The girl could be someone you've known since 2nd grade technically

If I've known a girl for a long ass time and we were always friends, and she makes me a plate a fair amount of the times when she's making a big meal, I could LOGICALLY argue that its no big deal. We don't have to be fucking for her to consider me as someone who would want some of the food. She could send out a mass text to her brothers etc and think of ne also being that we grew up together and we are friends. So it depends on the situation really, of course its a no no if its a girl who you just met or is trying to meet you

Now one of the women in this room will prolly quote what I just typed and cuss me the hell out because I had to explain shit to you SMH. Now I'm gettin cussed out on FB and the powder room

 

[babafryo]

if the food is good, you are in trouble

 

[blackrain]

No it was the diva style delivery of such words. Furthermore, this topic is not about making plates. Its about a man accepting prepared food from a woman other than his own. Not being at a cook out and some floozie making you a plate of BBQ chicken, greens, and potato salad. The girl could be someone you've known since 2nd grade technically

If I've known a girl for a long ass time and we were always friends, and she makes me a plate a fair amount of the times when she's making a big meal, I could LOGICALLY argue that its no big deal. We don't have to be fucking for her to consider me as someone who would want some of the food. She could send out a mass text to her brothers etc and think of ne also being that we grew up together and we are friends. So it depends on the situation really, of course its a no no if its a girl who you just met or is trying to meet you

Now one of the women in this room will prolly quote what I just typed and cuss me the hell out because I had to explain shit to you SMH. Now I'm gettin cussed out on FB and the powder room

the diva style delivery of "it's common sense"...ok you're just trying to find something about this to try and make yourself feel better after realizing you had no idea this shit was common knowledge...my best friend is someone i've known since the 3rd grade...that's my homegirl, grown up from children to adults together and she'd wouldn't do this because she knows if I have a woman i'm eating... feeding me isn't on her list of things to consider, this is common knowledge...does it cover every single situation, no it doesn't but don't try and resort to some immature ass response about me being feminine to try and cover up your lack of knowledge about how a good portion of women feel about a topic

 

[UPTOWN]

the diva style delivery of "it's common sense"...ok you're just trying to find something about this to try and make yourself feel better after realizing you had no idea this shit was common knowledge...my best friend is someone i've known since the 3rd grade...that's my homegirl, grown up from children to adults together and she'd wouldn't do this because she knows if I have a woman i'm eating... feeding me isn't on her list of things to consider, this is common knowledge...does it cover every single situation, no it doesn't but don't try and resort to some immature ass response about me being feminine to try and cover up your lack of knowledge about how a good portion of women feel about a topic

can you read cuzzin??? LOL

how about we leave at this ... shut up dummy, you remind me of that gay ass nigga who always hangin around the girl im tryin to hollar at ..... feel me???

look how emotional your getting because i didnt know. thats just what a couple females did too ... see the femininity in your ways???

p.s. your the only male who quoted me and came at me on this shit (no homo) i made this in the powder room for a reason.......

 

[UPTOWN]

and doesnt that mean your in touch with your feminine side?? ol i know how women feel cause its common sense to me ass nigga SMH at this guy LOL

 

[blackrain]

how about we leave at this ... shut up dummy, you remind me of that gay ass nigga who always hangin around the girl im tryin to hollar at ..... feel me???

look how emotional your getting because i didnt know. thats just what a couple females did too ... see the femininity in your ways???

p.s. your the only male who quoted me and came at me on this shit (no homo) i made this in the powder room for a reason.......

i'm getting emotional and you got offended because i called this common sense...now who's catching feelings

 

[lighthearted25]

oh, that episode was hilarious. she was about to kill his ass when she caught him eatin the salad.

lmao it wud be hard to turn down food from someone in culinary school though. smh at hiding recipes in your back pockets instead of phone numbers.

 

[gns]

dem gyal ya out here ah obeah di yout dem, smh watch who oonooh ah it from.

 

[UPTOWN]

you know what. ur right, and i have learned my lesson

i'm getting emotional and you got offended because i called this common sense...now who's catching feelings

this whole thread came to me after arguing with a woman, and yet again, in this very thread, im arguing with another woman about the same thing

ok blackraina, youre right. i didnt know man .... i did not know. how or why i didnt .... who knows .. but at least i admitted my mistake, an admission which by the way was before you quoted me. i dont consider it common sense tho, women do lots of things that arent common in the true sense of the word. if a woman caught a flat tire on a cold day and some nigga who noticed that a good looking girl was trying to change it came over to help, she wouldnt say "oh you cant change my tire, i have a man"

she'd let that man play himself thinking he has a chance, let him change the tire while she sits in the car, give him a smile, a thank you and pull off. and no nigga is gonna be mad at his girl talmbout " i cant believe you let that nigga change your tire!!!"

it is not common sense like asking a girl "is it cheating if i wear a condom??"

if you cant see that then OH well ... maybe you hang around women too much

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

Apparently the concept of “THE PRINCIPLE OF THE MATTER” is a dead one, to a lot your ladies that claim it’s cool for another NON-BLOOD related female to cook for her man.

And you all really showing your inexperience or plain lack of knowledge of the TRUE and basic essence of male/female relations.

My point is this….the most intimate and “womanly” thing a female can do for her man that’s equal to the first time making love.. is cook for him.

I’ll say even more so to some women out there. Meaning even if their man cheated with some random hood rat , that’ll be more forgivable then him messing 'round with some broad to the point were she not only sleeping with him, but cooking his meals.

Blasphemy and an insult beyond words….he may as well gotten the bitch pregnant. True story.

Especially is you old school or "practice" old school ways

So basically, you didn't read the thread and made this whole long ass post...actually 2 long ass posts....for no reason. when damn near every chick in here said it's completely UNACCEPTABLE.

I'll edit this tho...to say you redeemed urself with that "looking 40" joke. Pass has been granted!

 

[MsSouthern]

Wow.
Uh, initially I was going to say that it's just food.
But apparently food is a huge deal. 0.0

it's not the food hun

it's the underlining meaning of cooking for a man

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

Wait hold up....I know u ain't just call him Black Raina....He's the only nigga who posts in here and makes sense.

You sir, don't make sense. I dont care if that bitch was in the crib next to you in the nursery when you were born and yall been inseparable ever since. If she cooks you a plate of food, there will be PROBLEMS. And ain't no "lets talk it out" type quick ass problem solving gonna help it either. You clearly don't understand the principle because as you said, you haven't had that type of relationship with a woman. But from FB to the IC...the females are telling you YES it is just THAT serious. So, now that you're equipped with this knowledge, don't try to justify why you think it shouldn't be a problem. Understand that it IS a problem and when you do get with a lady deserving of your love and commitment, you will keep this in mind and not let it go down if a female tries to pull this stunt.