Is it ok for another woman to cook for YOUR man ??

[akforty7]

Hey kai *waves and hugs* whats up mama

 

[MsSouthern]

I don't think so, when I bring something it's intended to be for the family, but like I said it's Military families so you don't know if the persons spouse will be there, so whoever answers the door is who will get the food. I've left things with peoples kids and just tole them to have their parents over to meet me and my Husband when I got home. When my Husband is home he comes with me. That is in no way similar to cooking exclusively for someone elses spouse, or having someone cook just for mine. It's a tradition which is why I labeled it the exception to the rule.

you can spin it how you want to but it seems the same to me

not to mention from what I've seen and heard miltary folks cheat ALOT ..... so it's like an open invitation if you are bringing a cake to a woman's husband and she's not there due to deployment or whatever

 

[akforty7]

Oh hell yeah that bitch was up to no good!! When I first read it I pictured a 50y/o little White Woman wearing a cardigan and bringing him the sandwich she used to make for her kids before they moved away

LMAO @ wearing a cardigan. No girl, this little young white sneaky bish. Hell no LOL. You know I don't play that shit. I was like "dont be eating other bitches food, throw that shit away and tell them my food is better" LOL.

 

[Nthngis4vr]

I was going to say I don't care but...nah, fuck that depending on who it is.

 

[junegemini]

Well maybe you would need to be Military to understand but me and my Husband bringing a new family cookies or whatever to welcome them to the neighborhood just doesn't seem the same to me, there is nothing sinister about it, and it's made for the entire family's consumption.....but we will just agree to disagree

quit being the peacemaker all the time...say what you mean, and mean what you say...put your chest in it

no lesbo on the reference to your chest

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

quit being the peacemaker all the time...say what you mean, and mean what you say...put your chest in it

no lesbo on the reference to your chest

lol she scurred

man...if i wasnt about to leave i'd make a thread about ladies not always having to get along...an air ur grievances type thread.

 

[junegemini]

ima start writing some comebacks for Kimi and PM them to her

 

[DarcSkies]

ima start writing some comebacks for Kimi and PM them to her

That's been tried already. Didnt work out.

 

[Blue Virgo]

ima start writing some comebacks for Kimi and PM them to her

She'd find a way to fuck it up.

 

[bull6599]

Aside from family I was fuckin all the other chicks that have ever cooked for me (some GF's, some not ) so I can see why the ladies feel the way that they do

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

naw, if its not a family member, no other woman should be cooking for him

Bird gonna come in here and tear this thread apart..."Hell naw, no bitch better not be cooking for my man....And that stank bitch betta not fix his plate either" it'll be along those lines lol

*waits for it*

June posted for me ^^^ lol.

Barring blood relatives of his and a few of mine, he better not dare even sniff the plate let alone eat any of it.

.. .

 

[MsSouthern]

I said what I meant and made my point several time we just disagree, and I've beefed and argued with plenty of people here. I'm off that, the shit is childish. I come post and keep it moving now. If that makes me a coward to you guys then so be it, its a waste of time and energy poppin shit and arguing with people you will never meet. I'll be 30 y/o this year Girl, life is to short

uhhh I wasn't arguing with you ... just having a convo.

 

[UPTOWN]

ok this shit went two pages while i was away LOL

smh at me actually arguing this on FB with some gurl who has a degree in culinary arts SMH LOL

well hot damn ... looks like my valentines day is fucked LOL will any of you ladies be online on monday evening ??? LOL

i can however say i never knew of this rule ..... maybe because i havent been in but a few relationships in my life

this is the wrongest ive been in years LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL !!!!!

 

[lighthearted25]

this was on an episode of king of queens, carrie was pissed cuz some chick in culinary school was cookin for doug lol. i personally wouldn't care if his mom and grandma cooked for him but just some random female? nah im good on that.

 

[blackrain]

ok this shit went two pages while i was away LOL

smh at me actually arguing this on FB with some gurl who has a degree in culinary arts SMH LOL

well hot damn ... looks like my valentines day is fucked LOL will any of you ladies be online on monday evening ??? LOL

i can however say i never knew of this rule ..... maybe because i havent been in but a few relationships in my life

this is the wrongest ive been in years LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL !!!!!

i dont even know why you'd have to be told some shit like this...it's common sense really...just think how you'd feel if some other nigga was trying to buy your woman a gift or some shit

 

[a.mann]

Apparently the concept of “THE PRINCIPLE OF THE MATTER” is a dead one, to a lot your ladies that claim it’s cool for another NON-BLOOD related female to cook for her man.

And you all really showing your inexperience or plain lack of knowledge of the TRUE and basic essence of male/female relations.

My point is this….the most intimate and “womanly” thing a female can do for her man that’s equal to the first time making love.. is cook for him.

I’ll say even more so to some women out there. Meaning even if their man cheated with some random hood rat , that’ll be more forgivable then him messing 'round with some broad to the point were she not only sleeping with him, but cooking his meals.

Blasphemy and an insult beyond words….he may as well gotten the bitch pregnant. True story.

Especially is you old school or "practice" old school ways

 

[a.mann]

Another thing.... you “new” school broads unwittingly accept & invite disrespect ... worse yet temptation allowing another woman to handle YOUR business like that.

so even if you don't "care" and it doesn't bother you...its the principle of the matter of not tolerating certian shit.

a nigga aint shit to accept that offer...if she jump...let her play that roll and remind her of it.....we jumping off..not cooking out. My wife at home.

Last thing.....ladies keep in mind...the saying : "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach"

why?

because..... pussy is a dime a dozen.

(slow day at work)

 

[a.mann]

I said what I meant and meant what I said and my point several times was just to agree to disagree so fuck it and I've beefed and argued with plenty of jackasses here. I'm off that, the shit is childish and below me. I come post and keep it moving now. If that makes me a coward , look in got damn mirror your damn self. Plus its a waste of time and energy poppin shit and arguing with broke strugglin’ hatin’ ass motherfuckas you will never meet. I'll be 30 y/o this year Girl, looking 40 life is to short MOB

damn

still taking the high road can only take you so far tho.....even with GPS

 

[junegemini]

lol @ looking 40

 

[haute]

If a chick cooks, or even fixes my mans plate, and he accepts

There's only one way that shit can end up, blood and bruises

The bitch will get a judo chop to the neck and he will get cut the fuck up

Thats just too disrespectful