Is it ok for another woman to cook for YOUR man ??

[Mastery]

You cook for a man to show him you can be a good nurturer, mother, mate. If a bitch cooks for my man knowing he has a woman who is more than capable and willing to do so, then that bitch might as well have spit in my face and told me she means to make my man stray. She's sending him a message that she wants to take care of him.

I know alot of ya'll dont understand it, but around here thats just how it is.

Lol I understand completely. Niggas have no clue how many of these broads being offering to cook and feed me and shit. Meet a broad and not too long later she asking a nigga what kinds of food he like eating 'cause she 'likes to cook' haha

 

[Mr. Terrific]

He can still be friends with her. He just cant eat her cooking. Fuck that.

Said it before, I was raised old school deep southern style. And that is jsut a no no. You cook for a man to show him you can be a good nurturer, mother, mate. If a bitch cooks for my man knowing he has a woman who is more than capable and willing to do so, then that bitch might as well have spit in my face and told me she means to make my man stray. She's sending him a message that she wants to take care of him.

I know alot of ya'll dont understand it, but around here thats just how it is.

lol, I understand where you are coming from. cooking=way to man heart.

damn though there are a lot of prin-ci-pal-ties involved with the women of the IC. By the way if a dude done shoveled out your drive way you owe him some head with your titties out at a minimum

 

[Blue Virgo]

Your husband is gay...you don't have to worry about a woman trying to take him from you.
He found a good fool in you.

 

[Dupac]

famous last words...

"baby..u know nicki next door?....she sure can make some good mashed potatoes.......she left the skin on them n everything...genious"

 

[MsSouthern]

play nice in here Blue

 

[junegemini]

my gawd lol

smh

 

[Blue Virgo]

play nice in here Blue

I always play nice.

 

[akforty7]

No. Unless its his mom or his famiy member or something. Other than that, it's my job to feed him. And if another bitch tried to, I would know something is up b/c you don't randomly cook for a nigga unless you tryin to fuck or steal him from his girl. Cuz the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. So f that lol. He wouldn't want no one else's cooking anyway tho

 

[MsSouthern]

famous last words...

"baby..u know nicki next door?....she sure can make some good mashed potatoes.......she left the skin on them n everything...genious"

I don't think my man would even be able to finish that sentence

either cause the expression on my face would tell him to shut it or something might accidently fly out of my hand and hit him upside the head

 

[junegemini]

I always play nice.

in your head, cuz you sho aint nice on these boards

 

[MsSouthern]

Hilarious!!! Now what I have done was bring new neighbors cookies and brownies and if the Wife wasn't home to introduce herself I would leave them with the Hubby or whoever was there, but that's a Military spouse thing so it's standard.

are you joking ? that is the same thing

smh

 

[Blue Virgo]

are you joking ? that is the same thing

smh

man, too easy.
i'll leave it alone.

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

are you joking ? that is the same thing

smh

look who you're talking to -_- she's an idiot.

I agree w/AK....bish tryna steal ya man. Even if I was a horrible cook, he betta eat wtf I'm cookin unless he wants to get his head cracked down to the white meat.

 

[Blue Virgo]

in your head, cuz you sho aint nice on these boards

I'm nice to plenty of people.
Can't please everyone and I don't intend on trying.
=~)*

 

[HustleThaDon]

Damn yall aint playing about these plates lol

 

[junegemini]

cooking FOR HIM and cooking FOR US are completely different

 

[akforty7]

cooking FOR HIM and cooking FOR US are completely different

Agree lol.

I remember with my ex. He told me this bitch at his job made him a sandwich for lunch one day, brought it into work and shit to surprise him randomly. I was like oh hell no. I packed his lunch almost every day, so bitch he don't need your sandwich. He was like no it's not like that, she's just a nice white lady, I was like IDGAF I'm a nice mixed lady and I don't fucking make sandwiches for random men at my job just because. -_- He like you're overreacting. I was like ok what if a nigga made me a sandwich. He like I'll kill him LOL.

 

[MsSouthern]

No it''s not. When you and your spouse move into a new area it's a custom thing to bring something. You and your Husband go over and introduce yourselves and bring a gift. It's common for a persons Husband or Wife to be deployed away so you leave it with whoever is home at the time. Like I said, it's just something Military spouses do to welcome a family to a new neighborhood, it's to make them feel welcome since we move around so often. Its a traditional act of kindness

I'm all for kindness but it's contradicting to what you said earlier in the thread

 

[akforty7]

lmao............how old was the lady AK?

She was younger, maybe in her mid to late 20's. I knew what the hell she was up to. And she started cheating on her husband with this Dominican guy at their job later on so then I *KNEW* she wanted a piece of him when she did that. Bitches are sneaky. See if it was an older woman then MAYBE I'd understand, but a bitch close to our age and she just randomly brought u a sandwich she made at home... UMMM no. I see right thru it. My sis works there too so I had her check the girl LOL. HO I'M ON TO YOU lol.

 

[DarcSkies]

June posted for me ^^^ lol.

Barring blood relatives of his and a few of mine (momma, madea, and my aunties and 2 of my sisters), he better not dare even sniff the plate let alone eat any of it.

lmao! @ sniff the plate.