IS IT FOOLISH OF YOU TO STAY WITH THE PERSON WHO CHEATED ON YOU?

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I don't know, it's like this...I can invest in a man for years and years and leave him over being a human and fucking up only to start over with the next man and chance him doing the same damn thing.

When you invest in someone long term it's possible that they're going to screw up.

People were married for LIFE back in the day..you think no forgiving was going on?

A lifetime is a long time to be perfect.
 
Roster Player #99;5687961 said:
you cant kill a nigga then ask forgiveness after the fact.

lmao..well that escalated quickly.

Cheating is equivalent to killing a man? It's sex..calm down.
 
I was thinkin the same thing @Kat..it all depends for me the timing of the person cheated how much I've invested into the relationship....and the circumstances of them going out and cheating..was it a one-night occurrence..or was it some shit that was going on for "a while"..did I play a role in pushing her to cheat..(I mean ngas just gotta be real wit themselves)
 
Knock_Twice;5687970 said:
I was thinkin the same thing @Kat..it all depends for me the timing of the person cheated how much I've invested into the relationship....and the circumstances of them going out and cheating..was it a one-night occurrence..or was it some shit that was going on for "a while"..did I play a role in pushing her to cheat..(I mean ngas just gotta be real wit themselves)

Real shit.
 
The Prodigalson;5687973 said:
Maybe some people are more Forgiving than others. I'd be willing to cut my losses than try to rehabilitate trust again.

I mean..what if you were the reason for your wife stepping out though...(not trollin) and she done expressed to you, you're not there for her..some shit women like to say..

 
I know a chick (my homeboy's ex-wife actually...everybody's still cool though) that got cheated on once by her husband and she stayed with him after the whole drama. They've been married now for like 13 years or something like that. Maybe 15.

But they are the exception to the rule. Generally if you stay with someone who showed you who they were and you didn't believe them it's eventually going to burn your ass in the future. And they next time they do something it becomes exclusively your fault. There's a difference between being forgiving and being a fucking idiot.

Going back to somebody who has proven their unworthiness isnt being a good person. It's being a dumb/weak person.
 
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Wow..that's rather selfish.

So you can see where you might fuck up and need (and want) her forgiveness, but it's impossible to believe she might fuck up and be worthy of your forgiveness after all these years of being a good woman to you?

I just don't think I buy that. I think most dudes would be more forgiving than they think if actually in the moment.

 
Cheating to me means that she's had moved on; she has connected with someone else and has drawn distant from me.

There's more to it than just "cheating", there's an emotion with that, both physical and mental.

That's what would be my thoughts on the cheating and that's why I would end it.
 
Only a dumbass keeps a cheater. I dont give a fuck if we have been with each other for ten years. It is over
 

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