I've been seeing a girl for the past 2 months. She is very good-looking, nice to talk to, seemingly loyal and trustworthy.
We have a good connection, she looks out for me even though she lives hours away, she calls me and we talk for many hours every day. I haven't noticed anything shady about her apart from many questionable red flags from her social media which i'll comment on later.
What i picked up about her is that she is very very shy and careful with guys. I liked that a lot to be honest, it meant to me that after all she, sorry to say it, is not a hoe like most girls. She is a virgin after all, very rare right? At the age of 18.
She has barely kissed me except for a couple of times and she told me she doesn't know what to do with guys. At this point i felt like she seems like quite a good girl. She never goes club-hopping and goes to bed early even on weekends.She is supposed to stay over and she even wants me to wear long underwear. So i thought this girl must be something special to look this good and stay this unexperienced. She even said she never had a relationship.
So far so good. She has an ask.fm, i went on it and found a lot of suspicious shit about her seeing guys left and right these past years. So i asked her a bit about her past, she said she only kissed 5 guys. That's nothing yet.
I thought she was the type to never anything intimate with guys unless they were serious together(not counting small kisses ofc). I still have quite a great impression of her.
The real red flags was her activities on social media. Lots of guys commenting her pics and she keeps replying back, only befriends new guys and likes their pictures. She told me she used to hang out with some quite slutty girls back then, the girl i met her through was quite a hoe herself.
Today i got her to open up real good. Turns out she slept together with some dude she only met a couple of times. She gave a handjob to some guy when she was only 13. She said she has kissed at least under 10 guys, she doesn't really know exactly. She used to see a new guy every month last year, sometimes nothing happened between her and them, other times not. I felt like this isn't what i expected of her, she lied about a lot of these things before.
So my problem is that she turned out to be completely different from what i thought, my view of her has changed irreparably and i was thinking about something serious from the start but i can't take her for that type anymore because i simply don't like her that way anymore. But i am at least trying to take her virginity and i dont really have any other hoes so my summer is going to be pretty shit otherwise in case something doesn't show up.
Should i dump her and stop plaguing myself by acting fake or try to put up for a week or two in case she puts out? Which brings me to the next important question, how do i get her to put out anytime soon?
