Im in a situation and needs others' thoughts

[kat2180]

gotcha, but once again if they are ur ex, why keep them on ur page in the first place?

There are different reasons.

For me, my ex was my friend. I don't want to talk to him or contact him cause I already know he'd try to smash and it would annoy me, but I can't lie and say I'm not curious about how he's doing, I cared about him for a long time.

 

[ImSoReal]

There are different reasons.

For me, my ex was my friend. I don't want to talk to him or contact him cause I already know he'd try to smash and it would annoy me, but I can't lie and say I'm not curious about how he's doing, I cared about him for a long time.

ding ding ding....so my girl probably feels this way about her ex....like I said she was crazy about this guy and says he is one of the best men she has ever met....and everyone called her a fool for not marrying him and to see that she keeps him around I cant get with that. Id rather not go down that aisle again where I give the woman the benefit of the doubt

 

[bignorm73]

ding ding ding....so my girl probably feels this way about her ex....like I said she was crazy about this guy and says he is one of the best men she has ever met....and everyone called her a fool for not marrying him and to see that she keeps him around I cant get with that. Id rather not go down that aisle again where I give the woman the benefit of the doubt

agreed. confront her.

 

[atribecalledgabi]

Keeping an ex on your page, keeps the option open of contact, etc.

Its why i dont have Facebook. Cuz if i stay in contact with an ex, ima smash.
Its probably why you dont have a facebook too.

Women keep exes on facebook for two reasons, to son him, or to be with him again.imo.

or they could just forget/not think about it. i don't have fb but there's a few numbers in my phone i have yet to delete simply because i never give any thought to it.

 

[LurkdogAchilles]

y'all really serious about this facebook shit out'chea??
idk if this will make you feel any better, but i got prolly at least 500 FB friends and i MIGHT talk to about 15 of 'em.
FB aint the problem. if you don't trust her, keep ya eyes open or confront her about it, but don't let it be because she has her ex as a FB friend, you're gonna look silly, B

 

[Nobodyz Shadow]

Endure Mr. ImSoReal, endure. If she's contacting/creeping now and then that may be beyond your control. When its all said & done if she stay with you then overall you won, right?

 

[Disciplined InSight]

you share that girl

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[bignorm73]

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or they could just forget/not think about it. i don't have fb but there's a few numbers in my phone i have yet to delete simply because i never give any thought to it.

But this thread has reminded you.

Come back and tell us when you have deleted them.

Thanks.

 

[CJTR]

focus on what you can control, if you dont believe her or think the contact is unacceptable you need to ask yourself if you are willing to tolerate it, if so then stay if not then you know its time to move on but snooping is never the answer, you will find everything you are looking for while simultaneously finding reasons to doubt it all, spare yourself the torture and focus on the things you can control

 

[imnotyourbabydaddy]

make your jawn your side girl and def listen to CJTR "focus on what you can control, if you dont believe her or think the contact is unacceptable you need to ask yourself if you are willing to tolerate it, if so then stay if not then you know its time to move on but snooping is never the answer, you will find everything you are looking for while simultaneously finding reasons to doubt it all, spare yourself the torture and focus on the things you can control"

 

[CokeWaveyEther]

you stressing yourself out my nigga and more than likely for nothing. if you keep prying she gon eventually say fuck it and leave. if you find some hardcore shit (ex. sexual text messages) then you can confront her and all dat, but for right now, relax. everything works itself out in the end, good or bad.

 

[LurkdogAchilles]

niggas really be trippin on facebook.

how maniy friends she got on there? you think she talk to all of them on the regular? stop bein so insecure, bitches hate that...

 

[Peezy_Jenkins]

is that darkcrusader bruh?

 

[needmorecash]

man. you got this instinct and i aint gone tell you to ignore it. .

got a question though. . do yall live together