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im disturbed by the rather common notion on here that u can get a chick preggo
American.Loo;3984012 said:Is the bolded true?
Most married men would rather be single?
It must be, because every married dude I know or talk to tell me to stay single!! I know they're not just saying that shit for no reason.
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kataklysm;3984025 said:I think Norm is just trying to make himself feel better.
Alot of men can't even handle being single. They NEED a woman in their life.
That doesnt mean they fiending for MARRIAGE smh
Get the fuck outta here
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kai_valya;3984076 said:@ bignorm, what if by marrying someone for the kids made you miss out on being with your dream woman. is that really worth it? it def wouldn't be worth it to me
Well, by making the life choice to get a woman pregnant, i chose to pass up on the dream woman scenario.
I was out there fucking, to get my mind off a failed relationship, and, as it usually is, in the back of my head
i knew what could happen. I still did it.
I cant leave these kids out here fucked up because i am still tryin to chase dreams.
And by fucked up i mean, the life choices she would make without me would not be the best case scenario for the kids.
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chicitylepio;3984123 said:I don't think most married men rather be single, IO think they'd rather not be married because of the freedom it gives you to up and leave if you so choose to.
I'm not getting married to my SO for that reason @ least.
So, they would rather not be married. Same thing man. For all reasons.
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bignorm73;3984031 said:I dont feel bad, why do i need to feel better?
And how you figure a man NEEDS a woman in his life? lol.
I think that is backwards honestly.
I know women the same way, I wasn't excluding them.
Maybe ya'll are a bit young, but men get needy with age too. They get used to a woman taking care of them. You see newly divorced or newly widowed men jumping straight back in it all the time.
I can see married men not wanting to be MARRIED, but as for being single...nah, I'm not buying that. That's exactly why they got married in the first place. Marry it or lose it.
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kai_valya;3984195 said:you don't have to be with her to be a great father tho. using that line of thought, all children of divorced parents are doomed? i don't think that's so. you can be a part of your children's lives w/o marrying her just like divorced parents can be good parents even after the divorce.
it's like you think the only two options are marry her or have nothing to do with the kids.
You act as if all men who try to be a good father when not with the mother are allowed to do so by the mother.
My choice dealt with the irrationality of some women.
I could not guarantee that she wasnt an irrational one.
I mean, getting pregnant ( i think on purpose) and keeping the kid to me was irrational.
So how can i act like its not a good chance she would not trip when i moved on?
This woman was in love with me.
People act like i am supposed to take chances with my kids life.
Yeah, it can turn out bad now, but the chances are much greater apart.
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kataklysm;3984250 said:I know women the same way, I wasn't excluding them.
Maybe ya'll are a bit young, but men get needy with age too. They get used to a woman taking care of them. You see newly divorced or newly widowed men jumping straight back in it all the time.
I can see married men not wanting to be MARRIED, but as for being single...nah, I'm not buying that. That's exactly why they got married in the first place. Marry it or lose it.
LOL. We are both older than you kat.
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kai_valya;3984195 said:you don't have to be with her to be a great father tho. using that line of thought, all children of divorced parents are doomed? i don't think that's so. you can be a part of your children's lives w/o marrying her just like divorced parents can be good parents even after the divorce.
it's like you think the only two options are marry her or have nothing to do with the kids.
Props on this well-stated, non-debatable, open-minded post... and from a female.
Didn't even read the post you were responding to but these statements make total sense.
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-Vincenzo-
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kataklysm;3984025 said:I think Norm is just trying to make himself feel better.
Alot of men can't even handle being single. They NEED a woman in their life.
whuuut? *lil jon voice*
the only men i ever seen who are like that are a few mommy's boys.
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kai_valya;3984301 said:if she's not willing to let you be a father unless you are with her, sounds to me like she's holding the kids hostage and your love/commitment is the ransom. that is really the type of woman you want to marry anyway? and legally no one can keep a father from his kids and if she tries she would've had her kids removed from her care.
you're are basically living your life out of fear on her terms. i know you mean well, but i still don't think it's anyway to live
She never told me that, but i have seen it too many times. I aint basing my kids
life on the emotional whims of a woman. No diss intended.
And legally, there are plenty of women who keep there men from there kids,
and then poison there kids about there father mentally. Happens all the time.
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bignorm73;3984283 said:LOL. We are both older than you kat.
Loo is still in his 20s..and I thought you were too. I'll add that info to my arsenal..old ass! lol
Are you disputing what I said though?
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kataklysm;3984406 said:Loo is still in his 20s..and I thought you were too. I'll add that info to my arsenal..old ass! lol
Are you disputing what I said though?
lol. your arsenal? I am less than a year older than you. She is less than a year older than me lol.
But yeah, men who have been married for a long time do need a woman in his life.
But not men who have not been married.
Many many women need men regardless of thier marriage status.
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kataklysm;3984025 said:I think Norm is just trying to make himself feel better.
Alot of men can't even handle being single. They NEED a woman in their life.
:-O Lies and feminist propaganda!!!!
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2nd chances
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smdh..
fact is u guys and girls that believe this shit have been fkked up by being raised in a selfish society and by selfish parents who feel life is all about "me me me me me"...when you have a kid in an equation life(atleast to the point of that kid reaching a critical age) is really not about you anymore..your happiness short of shooting yourself in the head is really fkking irrelevant.
but ofcourse yall are gonna justify your failure at being real parents by trying to normalize your actions with bullshit excuses
like i said it most likely starts with what you've seen at home or common place...its nothing but failure point blank..
fact is u guys and girls that believe this shit have been fkked up by being raised in a selfish society and by selfish parents who feel life is all about "me me me me me"...when you have a kid in an equation life(atleast to the point of that kid reaching a critical age) is really not about you anymore..your happiness short of shooting yourself in the head is really fkking irrelevant.
but ofcourse yall are gonna justify your failure at being real parents by trying to normalize your actions with bullshit excuses
like i said it most likely starts with what you've seen at home or common place...its nothing but failure point blank..
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mryounggun
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I'm disturbed by the fact that you think that you have to marry a woman in order to raise a child with her.
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ShencotheMC
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*Happy 2 parent household kid post*
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Knives Amilli
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damn i applaud big norm for putting the kids first.
Cuz on principle he's right to an extent....kids that grow up in broken households are far more likely to grow up on some bullshit. Even if they're raised by well meaning people. If statisically speaking I know that JUST by not marrying the mother of my child Im increasing the chance my kid becomes a criminal, alcoholic or whatever, why take the risk? Kid didn't ask to be here.
Cuz on principle he's right to an extent....kids that grow up in broken households are far more likely to grow up on some bullshit. Even if they're raised by well meaning people. If statisically speaking I know that JUST by not marrying the mother of my child Im increasing the chance my kid becomes a criminal, alcoholic or whatever, why take the risk? Kid didn't ask to be here.
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