if you play stepfather to another mans kid(s).......

[CapitalB]

Wat does that have to do wit dealing wit a girl having kid?

she basically sayin u watch too many disney movies. hahahaha

 

[Shuffington]

[video=youtube;iOLD3t5Ff0w]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOLD3t5Ff0w[/video]

..... Good song

 

[CapitalB]

Yo cap 35?? U think u gon be able to handle the stress at such an older age? I still wanna be able to hoop and be sorta hip so I dont embarress my child.

stress?? nature vs nuture..
that day to day shit is the woman's job..

and i say 35 cause i should be finically secure to have a kid and provide er'thing for the brat.. nanny included..

i dont hoop and shit now.. aint go do it then... send that nigga to camp and some shit. lol

 

[CapitalB]

O na I dont give a fuck bout all that lol, as long as the rep is good and u aint been a slide , and u show me wifey qualities u alright wit me lol

then u shouldnt give a fuck about her havin a kid if she meets the prerequisites...

Lol I figured u factored in the finacial aspect , which is major .

only reason i aint have one by now. lol

 

[ms.jones]

O na I dont give a fuck bout all that lol, as long as the rep is good and u aint been a slide , and u show me wifey qualities u alright wit me lol

Your baby might not be the first baby to bless her womb...how would you feel about that? Abortion, miscarriage...anything could have happened.

 

[7figz]

It makes you a man to the highest degree. It takes a man with a heart of gold to raise and treat a child not from him, like it is from his loins. Sure it is not ideal, but a real man doesn't give a fuck about what anybody thinks. He just does what is right. There is nothing simp about being a responsible stand up dude.

Weak niggas seek validation from other weak niggas.

Na, not really.

Been there before. This is one of those cliche "real man" definitions that really amount to some niggas do and some niggas don't.

It has nothing to do with being a man, some niggas don't mind doing this shit. Some niggas do this shit because they heard it's the "right" thing to do. Some niggas is like hell no, that's not my kid.

 

[CMac]

Anit nothing wrong with that as long as you love the women and you cool with the kid and have a real father son/daughter relationship. I also thought taking care of another mans kid is whack, but as I got older I realize it doesn't matter.

Ideally I wouldn't ask or want to but if the women is really the love of my life and I'm really cool with that kid, I don't see the problem. It would be just like adopting a child.

 

[IamtheVILLE]

@capital-aye b i heard you some sort of pimp. can you help a brother out with getting women?

 

[I Self Lord & Master]

this has a potentially disastrous side as well

nothing good about too much traffic w/ a role in a kid's life

I sit back and observe how people (from all walks and shades of life) just play musical chairs w/ spouses and parents of their children

thats the most reprehensible shit ever..shit makes me angry as a spectator

People are people though....

 

[CapitalB]

Wheres the logic in that ? Im not at an age where I feel I need to settle with a girl who already has a child. Tried it , didnt like it . Hey u cant prevent who u fall in love with but at the same time theres too many kid less fish in the sea to be out here lookin for single mothers. Im not knocking it , just not for me .

but say u find that woman "for" u.. u mean to tell me u cant do it because she had a baby??
because u dealt with a bitch prior with a baby and that didnt work out??

well im sure uv dealt with bitches without kids prior that didnt work out.. so why try dating motherless bitches in the future??
and if u aint at the age to settle with a woman with kids u aint at an age to settle PERIOD..

cause aint that what u do when u settle?? have kids??

 

[CapitalB]

@capital-aye b i heard you some sort of pimp. can you help a brother out with getting women?

no.........

 

[IamtheVILLE]

this has a potentially disastrous side as well

nothing good about too much traffic w/ a role in a kid's life

I sit back and observe how people (from all walks and shades of life) just play musical chairs w/ spouses and parents of their children

thats the most reprehensible shit ever..shit makes me angry as a spectator

People are people though....

the bolded is real. that will fuck a child up in the mind seeing different niggaZ fuckin they momma

 

[IamtheVILLE]

no.........

why not my nig. i thought you where for the uplifitng of people.

 

[CapitalB]

why not my nig. i thought you where for the uplifitng of people.

is ur intent to "uplift" these women u plan on gettin??

 

[bmoreeast]

but say u find that woman "for" u.. u mean to tell me u cant do it because she had a baby??

because u dealt with a bitch prior with a baby and that didnt work out??

well im sure uv dealt with bitches without kids prior that didnt work out.. so why try dating motherless bitches in the future??

and if u aint at the age to settle with a woman with kids u aint at an age to settle PERIOD..

cause aint that what u do when u settle?? have kids??

This the first time ive saw you make multiple post without putting a Hahahahah behind every sentence.

 

[IamtheVILLE]

is ur intent to "uplift" these women u plan on gettin??

man i just want a women in my life. i aint tryin to pimp, or be a playa. just trying to get a decent looking women and be happy. and it seems like youre the man with the plan. thats all

 

[NELLY'S BAND-AID]

ok, shit happens and i hear u, but u tryin to dig too deep.

naw dirty you said something that hit home and now her responses are emotional. She just mad cause most young men aint checking for no baby mamas. How you gone be mad cause a dude want to start his own family and not take in or adopt a child? Dats dat bird logic dirty.

 

[CapitalB]

This the first time ive saw you make multiple post without putting a Hahahahah behind every sentence.

aye.. im a happy person.. what can i say. "hahahahaha"

but real shit.. when the topic is real im more serious..
but if im clownin.. im laughin..

jus sayin..

 

[CapitalB]

man i just want a women in my life. i aint tryin to pimp, or be a playa. just trying to get a decent looking women and be happy. and it seems like youre the man with the plan. thats all

well first u need to change ur attitude and perspective of life and how u live it..
ur OP shows u aint ready for a woman..

 

[NELLY'S BAND-AID]

well first u need to change ur attitude and perspective of life and how u live it..
Ur op shows u aint ready for a woman with kids..

fixed it dirty