I need some advice, real shit

[Jeezyfan4ever]

ight

 

@Plap Star

T/S are you actually going to take the advice we gave you? You only got one month.

have to got no other choise , will keep ya updated and see what gonna go down,,, question? what if this chick and some changed of heart and actually comes out it be good, still go to court....

Love, if you two cannot come to a mutual understanding and agreement, your best bet would be to keep all receipts and while you don't necessarily have to take it to court as a trial, involving a legal mediator would be wise. With a mediator at least you are more in control of the outcome where as in front of a judge the evidence and findings which you present in your favor or against her will be determined by that one judge.

In your best interest document everything, ask for a paternity test and don't allow any female to be an excuse not to be there for your child.

how much you hit ole boy up a month?

@a.mann

Negative my dear. I don't personally believe in taking any brother to court for child support or involving/putting him in the system regardless of our personal relationship, nor have I needed to. However that's my personal belief for myself, what others do is their choice.

 

[shit happens]

Your dealing with emotions only bitches feel

Save ya money get a lawyer but shame on you for lettin a dope fiend dictate your actions and have you in your feelings

Baby showers are for women g

When she get ret ta shit that baby out she'll call you she feels she has the upper hand threatening you with cs and other fuckery she knows your weak

 

[deadeye]

Does your girl have a job?

she was working, with her moms. Only reason she was working other then that she wouldnt be working

What's her job that she had with her mom?

some bullshit job cleaning

Are you in Virginia?

 

[a.mann]

@Plap Star

T/S are you actually going to take the advice we gave you? You only got one month.

have to got no other choise , will keep ya updated and see what gonna go down,,, question? what if this chick and some changed of heart and actually comes out it be good, still go to court....

Love, if you two cannot come to a mutual understanding and agreement, your best bet would be to keep all receipts and while you don't necessarily have to take it to court as a trial, involving a legal mediator would be wise. With a mediator at least you are more in control of the outcome where as in front of a judge the evidence and findings which you present in your favor or against her will be determined by that one judge.

In your best interest document everything, ask for a paternity test and don't allow any female to be an excuse not to be there for your child.

how much you hit ole boy up a month?

@a.mann

Negative my dear. I don't personally believe in taking any brother to court for child support or involving/putting him in the system regardless of our personal relationship, nor have I needed to. However that's my personal belief for myself, what others do is their choice.

I don't personally don't believe in paying taxes

but I do it anyway

:|

 

[aka_OG]

Chicks get emotional when they pregnant but your girl sound like she on some other shit.

You need to be preemptive and file for joint custody as soon as the baby is born why she still laid up recovering and visitation rights. Put yourself on child support if you have to and when she in labor you need to go to the hospital on your own even if its just to give the nurse your name so its on the birth certificate.

Do not sign the birth certificate until you get a DNA test. SERIOUSLY. Also get your money right to get a good lawyer. You don't want to end up like Nas.

no diss, but your girl sounds like a real chickenhead

only ain't shit broads think it's cool to use a baby as a pawn. but it seems like this bitch has your number, she runs your ass it seems. and def doesn't respect you. women know the type of man they can pull this type of behaviour on, even the crazy ones know the one not to fuck with, you obviously aren't the one

fuck all that other shit she talking, fuck a baby shower, fuck trying to be with her, fuck doing shit for her. and even if she doesn't let you go to the birth, she can't put your name on the birth certificate without your permission, but make sure you get a dna test first. once you are established as the bio dad, there isn't shit she can do to stop you from your rights as a father

take that bitch to court and get it in writing. and stay diligent. if she's not adhering to the agreement, keep taking her back to court. even if courts are biased to the mother usually, even they won't stand for a bitch habitually breaking the rules they put in place

@Jeezyfan4ever

Here are the coles notes bruh

 

[G Mack]

@Plap Star

T/S are you actually going to take the advice we gave you? You only got one month.

have to got no other choise , will keep ya updated and see what gonna go down,,, question? what if this chick and some changed of heart and actually comes out it be good, still go to court....

Love, if you two cannot come to a mutual understanding and agreement, your best bet would be to keep all receipts and while you don't necessarily have to take it to court as a trial, involving a legal mediator would be wise. With a mediator at least you are more in control of the outcome where as in front of a judge the evidence and findings which you present in your favor or against her will be determined by that one judge.

In your best interest document everything, ask for a paternity test and don't allow any female to be an excuse not to be there for your child.

how much you hit ole boy up a month?

@a.mann

Negative my dear. I don't personally believe in taking any brother to court for child support or involving/putting him in the system regardless of our personal relationship, nor have I needed to. However that's my personal belief for myself, what others do is their choice.

 

@Plap Star

T/S are you actually going to take the advice we gave you? You only got one month.

have to got no other choise , will keep ya updated and see what gonna go down,,, question? what if this chick and some changed of heart and actually comes out it be good, still go to court....

Love, if you two cannot come to a mutual understanding and agreement, your best bet would be to keep all receipts and while you don't necessarily have to take it to court as a trial, involving a legal mediator would be wise. With a mediator at least you are more in control of the outcome where as in front of a judge the evidence and findings which you present in your favor or against her will be determined by that one judge.

In your best interest document everything, ask for a paternity test and don't allow any female to be an excuse not to be there for your child.

how much you hit ole boy up a month?

@a.mann

Negative my dear. I don't personally believe in taking any brother to court for child support or involving/putting him in the system regardless of our personal relationship, nor have I needed to. However that's my personal belief for myself, what others do is their choice.

Funny.

Not sure what is so hard to believe about a woman who doesn't believe in involving the government in personal/family affairs. Brother could've did me grimey and I'm still not bringing that mess into my home. Back in the day women weren't running to the courts, many just handled their own.

The way I see it is a brother doesn't wish to be involved in a child's life then so be it. I personally am not forcing any man to do something he should already be doing on his own, naturally. Just the thought of putting a brother that I once shared my life with in the system would not sit right with me, couldn't do it. Not a difficult concept, just a different more traditional/old school perspective.

This has been a "bun Babylon" public service announcement.

 

[Mdizzle9000]

you got the wrong bitch pregnant, time to run

 

[Ajackson17]

Life is WOAT for you. I'm getting my cut soon,so no worries here.

 

[Jeezyfan4ever]

my shit is, this bitch knows i used to hustle but got no prove whats so ever, and her moms snitched on my ass to her moms..... my thing is will she need to have prove of what i used to do?

 

[T. Sanford]

Im glad I dont have kids

"NoKidsMovement" still in progress

 

[bobbydrake2006]

DNA TEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[BarryHalls]

I have the answer to all your concerns.

 

[Jeezyfan4ever]

can so9meone lock this up and deleted please