I need help putting a word to a personality.

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Kinda sounds like me. I don't mind bein' in charge but I dislike responsibility. I don't mind followin' another if there's a need for it, it makes things easier or if they're better for the job than me. I find myself the leader of small social groups because I can talk well to strangers, I'm easy to get along with and I'm a clear thinker so like whenever there's a de facto leader (smoking group at work, my radio team, when we go clubbin' etc)

The dominant thing I dunno it's not something I ever concern myself with. I'd say can be rather dominant in a reserved way. Kinda subtle. Like with a girlfriend I wouldn't argue about small crap and I'd probably almost always let her have her way but she and I would both kno' that we're doin' what she wants coz it's what I want.
 
CeLLaR-DooR;8735535 said:
Kinda sounds like me. I don't mind bein' in charge but I dislike responsibility. I don't mind followin' another if there's a need for it, it makes things easier or if they're better for the job than me. I find myself the leader of small social groups because I can talk well to strangers, I'm easy to get along with and I'm a clear thinker so like whenever there's a de facto leader (smoking group at work, my radio team, when we go clubbin' etc)

The dominant thing I dunno it's not something I ever concern myself with. I'd say can be rather dominant in a reserved way. Kinda subtle. Like with a girlfriend I wouldn't argue about small crap and I'd probably almost always let her have her way but she and I would both kno' that we're doin' what she wants coz it's what I want.

thats some goat playa jedi shit
 
_Lefty;8735494 said:
The type of personality you're looking for is Omega, by the way. Look it up.

alpha: you are confident and your own man. you do your own thing and have complete confidence in everything you do. you have your self doubts, but you don't let it cloud your judgment and logic. you are well liked by almost everyone, and you just have an easy charm and swagger about your presence. women are drawn to your charisma and presence. you enjoy being social and having lots of people around. you are a natural leader

beta: you are kind of shy and introverted and not very confident in yourself. you are constantly plagued by insecurities and self-doubts and you can never commit to anything in the fear that you will fail in it. you are somewhat liked by people but they tend to look at you rather condescendingly and woman tend to friendzone you. you are nervous around other people and social situations because you're always afraid that people are judging you. you are a born follower

omega: you are the polar opposite of the alpha male, but in a good way. like the alpha male you are confident, intelligent and have a sense of charisma about you, but unlike the alpha male, you are completely your own person. you do not need anyone, and you can even be emotionally distant due to your complete self-possession. you trust few people and foster even fewer intimate relationships. omegas do not care for leadership by others as they are perfectly capable of leading themselves

gamma male: you are sort of the "invisible" guy. there is nothing really spectacular about you. you are not a beta, but neither are you an alpha. your personality and presence usually blends in with the rest of the room and you're just sort of...there. people like you just fine and you usually don't have too much trouble with girls, but all the same, there is nothing particularly memorable or remarkable about you. you are not a born leader nor a inherent follower, although you can take on those tasks depending on the situation

sigma male: you are a manipulative mastermind. you are a spider waiting to lay your trap. you possess a cunning, intuitive mind and can sway people to your will. you don't have the casual swagger of the alpha or the omega but you do have a clever presence about you and people tend to be both wary and respect you for that. you can often be even more powerful than the alpha or the omega male in social situations due to your ability to persuade and manipulate them. you are neither a follower or a leader but rather a wild card

very interesting..

i think you may have hit the nail on the head.

the sigma thing is interesting tho
 
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2stepz_ahead;8735440 said:
The_Jackal;8735417 said:
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The_Jackal;8735180 said:
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The_Jackal;8735097 said:
You can't want to not lead and can't not to want follow. By default you are following in a situation that calls for either of them

so if a teacher can be taught something, does that make them only a student by default

But the assumption with that is that the teacher ultimately only wants to teach and expects to learn nothing from their student. Not to mention teaching and leading are two different concepts.

If you defer leadership then you are a follower. If you accept responsibility and want to plan your/others course then you are a leader

not true,

i can be a great basketball player and not want to lead a basketball camp. but just because the other players on my team give me the ball in the clutch doesnt mean i am leading my team.they are defaulting to the better player for the situation.

But you just made my point homie. You are the best shooter on the team but not the leader. So when crunch time comes the leader delegates the duties, executes the play and gets you the ball. You may or may not hit the shoot but the game play that the leader chose was to it the ball to you. Was that clear? Feel like I'm being kinda unclear here

whos the leader of the cavs....the coach or lebron

LeBron was the leader. Lue is now
 
I have a question now....

With those definitions that were posted and their relation to the Greek alphabet...

Are these character traits that are pushed by black fraternities in college? I never understood why they adopted the Greek theme anyway when everything it stood for was a carbon copy of "black" culture anyway, but that's besides the point.
 
n Animals:

Two Rams are butting heads while the female watches. The winner who mates is the stongest and therefore the Alpha Male.

Wait...A third ram runs out of the woods and mates with the female while the two males are fighting. THAT is the omega male.

In Humans:

Alpha Male: John Stewart

Omega Male: Steven Colbert

Alpha Male: Team Sport Captain

Omega Male: Dedicated student/master of martial arts.

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Aryeh_Tsaddiq;8735762 said:
I have a question now....

With those definitions that were posted and their relation to the Greek alphabet...

Are these character traits that are pushed by black fraternities in college? I never understood why they adopted the Greek theme anyway when everything it stood for was a carbon copy of "black" culture anyway, but that's besides the point.

That's actually a great question my nigga.
 
Aryeh_Tsaddiq;8735762 said:
I have a question now....

With those definitions that were posted and their relation to the Greek alphabet...

Are these character traits that are pushed by black fraternities in college? I never understood why they adopted the Greek theme anyway when everything it stood for was a carbon copy of "black" culture anyway, but that's besides the point.

i always do shit like this and ask questions like you just asked.....then i revisit other shit.

you would surprised how many people think they are alpha males without knowing what an alpha male truly is. some women dont know either. both genders often mix insecure nigga traits as alpha traits. but then again...can an alpha be alpha without his followers. an betas need an alpha to feel needed and lead. they both often look at the others like they are somehow not cool or apart of whats popping. ii

i guess its a loose symbiotic relationship.

but to answer your question... it boils down to feeling needed and wanting to be apart o something bigger than themselves i guess.kinda like borrowing a dollar from a nigga that borrow a dollar from the nigga you just gave a dollar to.
 
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2stepz_ahead;542210 said:
a person that is not dominate nor submissive. Not an alpha nor a beta.

the person wont be dominated or walked over.but knows when to be humble and ask questions.

They dont want to lead but also dont want to follow. but will do what the situation asks for.

a person who subconsciously steps up to the plate when need be,but is not always trying to dominate.

and knows when to step back and allow someone smarter or more experienced to step forward, but is not being submissive. they look at it like they are gathering information.

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