I lost count on how many times i cheated (((lmaooo))))

[EmM HoLLa.]

And I agree with everything @Kai wrote except the part about him loving her cause I dont think it was that deep for him, but who cares. These were kids in college. Who has time to sit up and confront their college boyfriend about cheating? Like really? A 20 year old cheated on his girlfriend. Who would've thunk it. They could both go sit down somewhere

So let me ask you this. If you agree. Do you expect your S/O to cheat.. And if you caught him. What would be your recourse. Or do have a if I don't know it won't hurt me disposition toward cheating? Just curious.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.

 

[deadeye]

goin out and cheating is one thing.........but bringing it to the home he ain't even respect her

nh

 

[desertrain10]

If you dont belive nor want to be in an monogamous relationship dont get into one.

I am in total agreement with you there, my point was more about society making it seem like 1. That's the only way to be in a committed relationship and that 2. Being a male who is fulfilling your biological imperatives makes you a bad person

am with you to a certain extent when it comes to monogamy, but then again why is it then ok to police a woman's sexuality which I've seen you do?

that said, i think monogamy is unnatural for both genders and takes work... so stepping on alone, doesn't automatically make one this irredeemable, evil person

what gets me is the dishonesty

 

[Copper]

But OB cool with her geriatric pastor being a dirt bag

 

[Kat]

If you dont belive nor want to be in an monogamous relationship dont get into one.

I am in total agreement with you there, my point was more about society making it seem like 1. That's the only way to be in a committed relationship and that 2. Being a male who is fulfilling your biological imperatives makes you a bad person

am with you to a certain extent when it comes to monogamy, but then again why is it then ok to police a woman's sexuality which I've seen you do?

that said, i think monogamy is unnatural for both genders and takes work... so stepping on alone, doesn't automatically make one this irredeemable, evil person

what gets me is the dishonesty

This right here.

 

[deadeye]

@kai

What happened here is two people that want different things trying to force their wants on each other rather then finding someone who would agree with their wants and be cool with it.

Im just saying though, homie shouldnt be given a pass cause hes a man. Hes not even wrong for cheating or fucking other women, he just wrong for getting with a woman who expects him to be faithfull when hes not willing to be faithfull

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.

what? u can have all that and some chick throws it at you.....sometimes its that simple

 

[AP21]

But OB cool with her geriatric pastor being a dirt bag

bruh...LMAO

had to be one of the longest capes i've seen on here in a long ass time

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

And I agree with everything @Kai wrote except the part about him loving her cause I dont think it was that deep for him, but who cares. These were kids in college. Who has time to sit up and confront their college boyfriend about cheating? Like really? A 20 year old cheated on his girlfriend. Who would've thunk it. They could both go sit down somewhere

So let me ask you this. If you agree. Do you expect your S/O to cheat.. And if you caught him. What would be your recourse. Or do have a if I don't know it won't hurt me disposition toward cheating? Just curious.

Well I'm not in college.. lol

so it's a little different. But as a general rule, people in college are too young to be trippin off somebody cheating. Thats just my opinion.

But for an old hen like myself, it's one and done. I dont have time to be lowjacking no man or wondering what he on when I'm not around. I don't expect my guy to cheat but I dont nothin past no man. All I do is trust him and observe if his actions are in line with his words. The benefit of the doubt must always be granted and it remains in tact until it's broken. If there are no signs of him cheating, there is no need for me to assume that he is.

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.

Everybody is different.. I think if men reeeaaally wanted to they could be faithful.. I just think most of them who cheat don't want to be faithful. It's that simple. Being capable is not really what's in question..

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.

Everybody is different.. I think if men reeeaaally wanted to they could be faithful.. I just think most of them who cheat don't want to. It's that simple. Being capable is not really what's in question..

i so confused

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

But OB cool with her geriatric pastor being a dirt bag

OB is cool with minding her own business. That's really all it is

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

And I agree with everything @Kai wrote except the part about him loving her cause I dont think it was that deep for him, but who cares. These were kids in college. Who has time to sit up and confront their college boyfriend about cheating? Like really? A 20 year old cheated on his girlfriend. Who would've thunk it. They could both go sit down somewhere

So let me ask you this. If you agree. Do you expect your S/O to cheat.. And if you caught him. What would be your recourse. Or do have a if I don't know it won't hurt me disposition toward cheating? Just curious.

Well I'm not in college.. lol

so it's a little different. But as a general rule, people in college are too young to be trippin off somebody cheating. Thats just my opinion.

But for an old hen like myself, it's one and done. I dont have time to be lowjacking no man or wondering what he on when I'm not around. I don't expect my guy to cheat but I dont nothin past no man. All I do is trust him and observe if his actions are in line with his words. The benefit of the doubt must always be granted and it remains in tact until it's broken. If there are no signs of him cheating, there is no need for me to assume that he is.

Got ya..

How do you feel about having to start all over? Knowing that there is no guarantee that the new guy you run into won't turn around and do the same shit? The other ladies can chime in as well?

 

[The Lonious Monk]

This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.

Everybody is different.. I think if men reeeaaally wanted to they could be faithful.. I just think most of them who cheat don't want to. It's that simple. Being capable is not really what's in question..

Yeah, that's kinda my point. They aren't ready. My personal opinion is that almost every dude gets to a stage where he's ready for a committed relationship, but it's different for everyone. I will admit though that I do think that it's true that men are only as faithful as their options. That seems contradictory, but I think there are limits to that too. Basically human relationships are a lot more complex than people believe.

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.

Everybody is different.. I think if men reeeaaally wanted to they could be faithful.. I just think most of them who cheat don't want to. It's that simple. Being capable is not really what's in question..

i so confused

My bad.. Fixed that...

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

This idea that men can't avoid cheating is pretty crazy though. It's easy not to cheat as long as you're actually ready to be monogamous and found a chick that's worth being committed to. Most dudes that cheat fail in one of those areas. I think the percentage of dudes that are incapable of being faithful is pretty small.

Everybody is different.. I think if men reeeaaally wanted to they could be faithful.. I just think most of them who cheat don't want to. It's that simple. Being capable is not really what's in question..

Yeah, that's kinda my point. They aren't ready. My personal opinion is that almost every dude gets to a stage where he's ready for a committed relationship, but it's different for everyone. I will admit though that I do think that it's true that men are only as faithful as their options. That seems contradictory, but I think there are limits to that too. Basically human relationships are a lot more complex than people believe.

Got ya.. I think we can agree there.. Finding that perfect mate is difficult.. On top of that people change over time.. So staying in that space is also difficult.. But it can be done.. Human relationships are very complex..

 

[deadeye]

"Crazy pussy is the best pussy...............and new pussy>>>>>>>>>>>old pussy" - @Cain

 

[Max.]

https://twitter.com/ojtheking/status/831703154806968324

 

[i ro ny]

"Crazy pussy is the best pussy...............and new pussy>>>>>>>>>>>old pussy" - @Cain

Eh.