I lost count on how many times i cheated (((lmaooo))))

[The Lonious Monk]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

I agree with your sentiment, but come on, dude did look a little satisfied with himself.

 

[i ro ny]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

I agree with your sentiment, but come on, dude did look a little satisfied with himself.

he didnt seem "satisfied". he had that same look that white people have when they've already called the cops and you trying to reason with em.

 

[AP21]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

I agree with your sentiment, but come on, dude did look a little satisfied with himself.

i watched the same video that you did, and didnt get that

but i ask, did people expect him to shed tears in order to prove he was sincere?

I mean, it had to be awkward af for both of them to be up there in the first place. Why would he be smiling at something like that? I just dont get how ya'll can even come to that conclusion...

 

[AP21]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

I agree with your sentiment, but come on, dude did look a little satisfied with himself.

he didnt seem "satisfied". he had that same look that white people have when they've already called the cops and you trying to reason with em.

acceptable answer

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

I agree with your sentiment, but come on, dude did look a little satisfied with himself.

he didnt seem "satisfied". he had that same look that white people have when they've already called the cops and you trying to reason with em.

Yeah, you're absolutely right. It's more like a "I'm going to say this to you because I think it's the right thing to say, but honestly I don't give a shit."

 

[SolemnSauce]

Nigga straight pulled a Jigga, "I see the tears as she busted in"....lol

Weak ass bitch, why should anyone feel bad for her

"I walked in his room while he had another girl...he told me to get out....i went to my room and cried"

Nigga acted like he was talkin to his lil sister. I could be takin a shit and my wife buss in the bathroom and I'd be like, what the fuck yo, get out

She'd be like..nigga who the fuck is u talking to?

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

Ok fine. Maybe inside his head, he's balled up in the fetal position. I still wouldn't be sitting in his face crying over some old shit. Especially no light skin with curly hair, probably thinking he's God's gift. I wouldnt give his bright ass the satisfaction.

 

[Kai]

If you dont belive nor want to be in an monogamous relationship dont get into one.

I am in total agreement with you there, my point was more about society making it seem like 1. That's the only way to be in a committed relationship and that 2. Being a male who is fulfilling your biological imperatives makes you a bad person

 

[SolemnSauce]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

Ok fine. Maybe inside his head, he's balled up in the fetal position. I still wouldn't be sitting in his face crying over some old shit. Especially no light skin with curly hair, probably thinking he's God's gift. I wouldnt give his bright ass the satisfaction.

Thats right OB, get you a dark, nappy hair, outta shape nigga like me. Who know u out of his league, and will do anything for you...

Till I start feeling myself cause i pulled you and cheat anyway cause niggaz ain't shit

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

I agree with your sentiment, but come on, dude did look a little satisfied with himself.

i watched the same video that you did, and didnt get that

but i ask, did people expect him to shed tears in order to prove he was sincere?

I mean, it had to be awkward af for both of them to be up there in the first place. Why would he be smiling at something like that? I just dont get how ya'll can even come to that conclusion...

To me, it wasn't just his look. It was the combination of his demeanor and the things he said. I don't know the dude so I could be completely wrong. It just seemed to me to be fake, especially him pouring it on in the end about wanting to see her grow and all that shit. I just don't buy it. But that's really just speculation based on perception and nothing else.

 

[Trillfate]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

Ok fine. Maybe inside his head, he's balled up in the fetal position. I still wouldn't be sitting in his face crying over some old shit. Especially no light skin with curly hair, probably thinking he's God's gift. I wouldnt give his bright ass the satisfaction.

Lmao feelings like whoa

 

[blacktux]

Imo this is the disastrous outcome of trying to make men, especially young men deny their biological nature and urges. It's like if everything in your body is screaming for water, but then society wants to deem you some kind of scumbag when you actually take the drink every fiber of your being is screaming for

It's like with forcing unnatural monogamy on young men you are almost setting them up for failure and leading to them labeling themselves and being labeled by others as dogs. They could very easily be very caring, loving, thoughtful in all other aspects of what it means to be a nurturing boyfriend/partner, but if they can't live up to an impossible task, they ain't shit, it's fucked up

What I saw in that video was a young man who clearly loved that girl, but could not deny his biological nature. And what I saw with her was a beautiful young lady who let society define for her what a good relationship should be. So all of the good, the fact that he was her best friend, it should be disregarded because he needed to sow his wild oats a bit? If she could understand that his love for her had nothing to do with his biological urges, who knows, maybe these two would still be together

@Kai

Bruh what is the name of the factory that made you?

Id settle for a fuckin printout GOT DAYUM....

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

this fuck shit got motherfuckers scheduling meeting with me to " talk"....

 

[AP21]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

I agree with your sentiment, but come on, dude did look a little satisfied with himself.

i watched the same video that you did, and didnt get that

but i ask, did people expect him to shed tears in order to prove he was sincere?

I mean, it had to be awkward af for both of them to be up there in the first place. Why would he be smiling at something like that? I just dont get how ya'll can even come to that conclusion...

To me, it wasn't just his look. It was the combination of his demeanor and the things he said. I don't know the dude so I could be completely wrong. It just seemed to me to be fake, especially him pouring it on in the end about wanting to see her grow and all that shit. I just don't buy it. But that's really just speculation based on perception and nothing else.

i can agree with this

 

[i ro ny]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

Ok fine. Maybe inside his head, he's balled up in the fetal position. I still wouldn't be sitting in his face crying over some old shit. Especially no light skin with curly hair, probably thinking he's God's gift. I wouldnt give his bright ass the satisfaction.

yes.

let that anger/hurt/hate out.

 

[AP21]

Aint no way I'd be sitting there asking him about this bullshit years later with tears in my eyes. I wouldnt give that muthafucka the satisfaction. Look how pleased he looks with himself.

thats not whats going on, but ok

@AP21 Well go ahead and tell me whats going on since you know so much.

so he supposed to be in tears in order for you to believe he is sincere in his contrition?

MEN ARE NOT WOMEN...the sooner ya'll realize this and stop trying to make them process shit like you all, the better most of ya'll will be. Stop trying to domesticate and emasculate men!!

Ok fine. Maybe inside his head, he's balled up in the fetal position. I still wouldn't be sitting in his face crying over some old shit. Especially no light skin with curly hair, probably thinking he's God's gift. I wouldnt give his bright ass the satisfaction.

obviously, she never got closure from it

could've possible impacted relationships she had after him

forgiveness is more about you moving forward and less about the person you feel has offended you

stop trying to make mountains out of mole hills love

 

[EmM HoLLa.]

I don't understand the purpose of this.. Telling her everything you did.. And then recording it for the world to see on some social experiment tip.. Whatever..

Ultimately, homegirls final straw should have been when she caught him red handed and instead of telling the other girl to leave he made her leave. Now i don't know all the details but if that was what happened.. Not only should she have stopped dealing with him.. She should have never spoken to dude ever again in life.. That type of disrespect should not be tolerated by anyone. Man or Woman.

As an aside. Love her smile. She'll be all right.. Life goes on.

 

[deadeye]

lol@ the background music.

 

[Kai]

Imo this is the disastrous outcome of trying to make men, especially young men deny their biological nature and urges. It's like if everything in your body is screaming for water, but then society wants to deem you some kind of scumbag when you actually take the drink every fiber of your being is screaming for

It's like with forcing unnatural monogamy on young men you are almost setting them up for failure and leading to them labeling themselves and being labeled by others as dogs. They could very easily be very caring, loving, thoughtful in all other aspects of what it means to be a nurturing boyfriend/partner, but if they can't live up to an impossible task, they ain't shit, it's fucked up

What I saw in that video was a young man who clearly loved that girl, but could not deny his biological nature. And what I saw with her was a beautiful young lady who let society define for her what a good relationship should be. So all of the good, the fact that he was her best friend, it should be disregarded because he needed to sow his wild oats a bit? If she could understand that his love for her had nothing to do with his biological urges, who knows, maybe these two would still be together

@Kai

Bruh what is the name of the factory that made you?

Id settle for a fuckin printout GOT DAYUM....

lol, i'm far from perfect and have my own flaws. but, i guess having spent years in clinical, scientific settings, i learned that despite how you may want things to be, if the facts, biological, evolutionary facts don't align with that thinking, clinging on to it anyway is only gonna end up with egg on your face. don't fight facts and nature, make peace with that shit then go and control/change the things you can. for example, while males have natural urges for more than one partner, they also have natural urges towards pair bonding, so they are very capable of forming meaningful relationships.

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

And I agree with everything @Kai wrote except the part about him loving her cause I dont think it was that deep for him, but who cares. These were kids in college. Who has time to sit up and confront their college boyfriend about cheating? Like really? A 20 year old cheated on his girlfriend. Who would've thunk it. They could both go sit down somewhere