Mr. Terrific;2131408 said:
T/S I'm sorry for all the trouble that you are going through but you did the right thing. If someone somewhere had a crystal ball or a flux capacitor that dude would be the king of kings, and god of gods. As we all know life doesn't work that way. Point blank you did the right thing not only as a man but as a father. As a man (black I'm assuming) you helped uplift a woman (black?) and not just any woman but the mother of your child. In all seriousness with niggas talking about dumb bitches this, worthless bitches that, you gave that woman purpose and means. Dude, you birth that chick. It is unfortunate that you can't get the same in return. As a father, your child has a mom that will always be able to provide for him if anything unfortunate happens to you. You have these niggas throwing stones at you. A. they are not fucking or B.they don't have kids, cuz it ain't shit for a rubber to break or that chick to 'forget' to take that B.C. and they find themselves in the B.M. situation. What are they going to do when a seed is involved? They'll talk about "I'll get custody, or make her abort, *insert other HoH* phrases, but we know that's not going to happen. In real life some of these niggas couldn't talk their way out of a paper bag. The violent route and no C.S. paying route is not an option. Niggas can't post on the I.C. from jail. My advice, talk to that woman with a game plan and get your lives together in the interest of the kid. You can't make another person do what they don't want to do, but you should fight so that you have a sense of peace knowing that you did all that you could.
As far as B.M. and her not showing gratitude, she a selfish bitch. She's your B.M. but she a bitch and is the epitome of what men hate and why other females get treated the way they do. If any women decide to read this then WOMAN THE FUCK UP and check yourself or bitches like this. The black community doesn't have to be perfect but we should have some sense of trying to uplift one another.