How would you handle someone from your exes past trying to pop up

[mindright]

in this situation this nigga would have "3" strikes.. 1st time I'd calmly tell dude "yo chill out" 2nd time " a dawg 4 real u need 2 chill" 3rd? A fights gonna happen cuz @ that point I feel disrespect and u must think ima hoe ass nigga.. So I will show u a hoes ass nigga...

If 1 of my exes did this 2 me idk what I'd do tho... Smh

Fight?? Where they do that at? Folks shoot first round these parts, no scuffles.

 

[American.Loo]

Man, he shouldn't be doing nothing..

His fiance needs to handle this situation, asap. If she told dude to stop texting her and he continues to do so than she needs to change her number if she's serious about your brother.

He shouldn't be doing nothing and he should know his lane. Folks end up dead over stupid stuff like this. If she's not willing to change her number for the sake of her relationship than your brother should keep it movin..But I reiterate the fact that he should not get involved.

And see you also make an excellent point. This shit can easily spiral into another place once these two niggas exchange words. IMO, if a chick is telling you she's about to start a family, more than anything thats your cue to move around. i think she's done her part, and due has ignored her request.

 

[TooXquisite]

She needs to tell him to kick rocks, not your bro. He already don't care what your bro thinks. Why is she leaving that door open...

 

[American.Loo]

She needs to tell him to kick rocks, not your bro. He already don't care what your bro thinks. Why is she leaving that door open...

if you scroll down the thread i mentioned that she has told him. like i said, this is my brother: my first repsonse was the same as yours. but the last time i personally heard her tell dude that its not cool to contact her anymore.

the only thing im worried about is my bro's temper to be honest. because above their relationship, i dont want him to be in a fucked up mood one day, dude randomly texts her and i get a call from the police

 

[damobb2deep]

Fight?? Where they do that at? Folks shoot first round these parts, no scuffles.

Lol I was bein pg-13 wit that answer.. it depends on the type of nigga he is.. I assume dude is not the "hood nigga" type that's why I gave him 3 strikes and said fight.. Now if he is a hood nigga he gets a " a muthafucka my ol lady aint fuckin wit u... U need 2 gone somwhere" he most likly will test me so next I'm smackin him up with the ratchet and be ready 4 beef..

 

[TooXquisite]

Did she say "don't contact me" or "leave me the fuck alone"? Cause guys usually don't linger unless they think they still got a shot or they're a stalker.

 

[American.Loo]

Did she say "don't contact me" or "leave me the fuck alone"? Cause guys usually don't linger unless they think they still got a shot or they're a stalker.

the time i was actually there she said "im trying to make it work with [my brothers name], its not cool to contact me anymore"

i was told he texted her something rude like "i dont want you anyway"

the issue now is his latest text was like "do you miss me"

 

[MsSouthern]

Did she say "don't contact me" or "leave me the fuck alone"? Cause guys usually don't linger unless they think they still got a shot or they're a stalker.

agreed

she needs to get rude with him or just completly ignore him.

I also agree your brother shouldn't get into fight mode just yet. Maybe if he was popping up at her house or job . But not over some texts

 

[King Erauno]

smh...damn niggas cant take rejection

 

[Dupac]

Real rap ...

yea, that is the mature way to handle it... but ...

i stay doing dumb shit..