How would you handle someone from your exes past trying to pop up

  • Thread starter Thread starter New Editor
  • Start date Start date

Dupac

New member
tell him to put the nigga name out in the airwaves.. it's a small world... somebody who know somebody fuck aruond let dude know it's notta good look...
 
Last edited:
Is this the real Loo?

I need to think of something to make u answer so I know this is you...

*thinks*
 
Last edited:
tell him to text either "She good my nigga" OR to avoid confrontation "My female friend sold me this phone and number, sorry I don't miss you cuz I'm not gay, I like pussy"
 
Last edited:
something similiar happened to me back in '08..

i found out the nigga rapped... dropped his name to a few ppl i still dealt with.... next thing u know the nigga took up his rapping career in florida
 
Last edited:
ES-BEE;1897111 said:
tell him to text either "She good my nigga" OR to avoid confrontation "My female friend sold me this phone and number, sorry I don't miss you cuz I'm not gay, I like pussy"

This works for me..........
 
Last edited:
My first question is what is she doing about it, i mean ignoring it aint gone make it go away. It aint no point in yo bro jumpin out there like that if she aint really shut dude down. I dont care what she say she did, i wanna see it. When he do text she need to tell him flat out she back with yo bro. She could be going back later answering the text when he aint aroun, you never know.So first she need to really shut dude down, then if he still do that shit it may be time for yo bro to say something.
 
Last edited:
Bwoahmizzee;1897164 said:
if she has adressed the issue and dude keeps goin at her then he has to say something

c/s this...especially if she in the position of being the wife, is very calmly let the nigga know to cease contact with my chick, if he proceeds to text or start loud talkin playing telephone gangster, id have to take it further
 
Last edited:
ibedamned;1897172 said:
My first question is what is she doing about it, i mean ignoring it aint gone make it go away. It aint no point in yo bro jumpin out there like that if she aint really shut dude down. I dont care what she say she did, i wanna see it. When he do text she need to tell him flat out she back with yo bro. She could be going back later answering the text when he aint aroun, you never know.So first she need to really shut dude down, then if he still do that shit it may be time for yo bro to say something.

and that's what i was concerned about when i was in this type of situation....she was over one day, and the nigga just kept texting her, and she was texting him back on some dismissial shit, telling him that the shit was beginning to get annoying and disrespectful.... so he started texting back on some seriously angry shit, then called, and i answered and flat out told yo he ain't got no possible wins in this situation, at this point all he doing is forcing his hand unecessarily....

after the call i asked her for some information about dude.....called some friends, asked if thy heard his name around...and just was like....yea i dunno if he gonna be a problem, but somebody needa talk to him..

2 weeks later, the nigga was on myspace talking abut moving to florida....
 
Last edited:
dusouljah;1897179 said:
and that's what i was concerned about when i was in this type of situation....she was over one day, and the nigga just kept texting her, and she was texting him back on some dismissial shit, telling him that the shit was beginning to get annoying and disrespectful.... so he started texting back on some seriously angry shit, then called, and i answered and flat out told yo he ain't got no possible wins in this situation, at this point all he doing is forcing his hand unecessarily....

after the call i asked her for some information about dude.....called some friends, asked if thy heard his name around...and just was like....yea i dunno if he gonna be a problem, but somebody needa talk to him..

2 weeks later, the nigga was on myspace talking abut moving to florida....

now see thats how you handle it. You gotta see if she is REALLY trying to end it or is she just sayin that shit. Now if that shit done been shut down and dude still poppin up, then as a man you obligated to do/say something cuz at that point he basically sayin fuck you.
 
Last edited:
ibedamned;1897172 said:
My first question is what is she doing about it, i mean ignoring it aint gone make it go away. It aint no point in yo bro jumpin out there like that if she aint really shut dude down. I dont care what she say she did, i wanna see it. When he do text she need to tell him flat out she back with yo bro. She could be going back later answering the text when he aint aroun, you never know.So first she need to really shut dude down, then if he still do that shit it may be time for yo bro to say something.

that was my first question. because i was suspicious about how she was handling it until this past weekend when i literally heard her tell dude its not cool to contact anymore.

personally, i feel like dude is disrespecting majorly. it dont even be no crazy shit, just every so often the nigga be tryna see whats good. still wrong though, especially since they engaged.
 
Last edited:
American.Loo;1897209 said:
that was my first question. because i was suspicious about how she was handling it until this past weekend when i literally heard her tell dude its not cool to contact anymore.

personally, i feel like dude is disrespecting majorly. it dont even be no crazy shit, just every so often the nigga be tryna see whats good. still wrong though, especially since they engaged.

well, at that point its disrespectful to me. I would have to let dude know that shit aint cool, he keep on we got a problem. I aint trying to be on no wildin out shit, im grown now but some shit you cant let slide. then ya lady gone look at you like a straight bitch then.
 
Last edited:
American.Loo;1897209 said:
that was my first question. because i was suspicious about how she was handling it until this past weekend when i literally heard her tell dude its not cool to contact anymore.

personally, i feel like dude is disrespecting majorly. it dont even be no crazy shit, just every so often the nigga be tryna see whats good. still wrong though, especially since they engaged.

like i said earlier yo.. it's a small ass word.. thre's bound to be some mutual person they both know that knows ur brother is a hot head, and knows dude is wilding, and knows that shorty has no interest who sees that the best course of action is just to talk some sense to dude and dead the whole situation...

at this point i'd find that person...

u gotta put his bizness out there...

sometimes public embarassment is the only way some ppl can realize how foolish their actions are
 
Last edited:
American.Loo;1897098 said:
my brother is going thru this right now and im afraid it wont end well.

long story short: he was engaged but it was called off because of their constant bickering. they were apart for almost a year. they worked things out, and seem to be better than ever.

only issue now is that they both dated while apart. some dude she dated wont respect the fact that she is working on her situation. according to my bro, the dudes not a stalker, but every so often he just randomly will text on some shit like "do you miss me?" she'll ignore it. he'll lay low for like a month, then it'll start again.

my brother is a hot head. he's ready to confront dude on some "keep it moving shit" i tell him that eventually dude will move on...

thoughts?

They don't always move on

I have an ex from over 5 years ago that is even with someone now and if I see him out he tries to talk to me about working it out again. Him and his girl got into it at this club I saw him at because he's yelling I still love you to me across the room.

His friends tell me he still talks about me to them. Like I'm the one that got away kinda bs

5 YEARS LATER!!!!!!

I'm glad he doesn't have my phone number .......
 
Last edited:
in this situation this nigga would have "3" strikes.. 1st time I'd calmly tell dude "yo chill out" 2nd time " a dawg 4 real u need 2 chill" 3rd? A fights gonna happen cuz @ that point I feel disrespect and u must think ima hoe ass nigga.. So I will show u a hoes ass nigga...

If 1 of my exes did this 2 me idk what I'd do tho... Smh
 
Last edited:
Man, he shouldn't be doing nothing..

His fiance needs to handle this situation, asap. If she told dude to stop texting her and he continues to do so than she needs to change her number if she's serious about your brother.

He shouldn't be doing nothing and he should know his lane. Folks end up dead over stupid stuff like this. If she's not willing to change her number for the sake of her relationship than your brother should keep it movin..But I reiterate the fact that he should not get involved.
 
Last edited:

Members online

Trending content

Thread statistics

Created
-,
Last reply from
-,
Replies
29
Views
0
Back
Top
Menu
Your profile
Post thread…