How Tinder is changing the mating game (long read)

[phukkyou2]

The thing that you have to remember is that the trend, at least in big cities, is moving against random approaches at the mall, on the street and whatnot -- women are increasingly less receptive to it. Remember that video about street harassment and the whole discussion surrounding that? Also, picking up at bars is getting harder too.

Plus, like S2J said, you can't beat the efficiency of online.

I agree with the first part but you gotta be an ugly ass dry ass weak nobody to not know how to spot something right at the bar.

You gotta know who to look for and how to approach her/them.

But truthfully it's different strokes for different folks. It's no "One Size Fits All" type of thing.

 

[Olorun22]

Meh, that's the women's fault for being so easy.

Grindr has been a challenge since day one.

Isn't grindr for homosexuals?

no, its a new TV show with Rob Lowe

No thatime has a E in it. . Man dis nigga is gay

 

[S2J]

I always found it way easier to pull women in real life at a bar than on any date app

Ive picked up women in grocery stores and house parties. Ive copped some just walking down the block, riding my bike on the bike path,, simple

And I've pulled women whilst sitting at work, literally getting paid while hollerin at bitches. Messaging numerous women at 1 time and have numerous dates set up before I get off ...THEN do everything u just said, too

My efficiency >>>yours

So what's your point again ?

Nigga I work in a hospital, nothing but broads all day so what was that response about

I hear you OG. I worked in a very popular govt facility in downtown DC, so all due respect i seen more than you on the work tip haha Not even close.

All im sayin is for dating, can't nothing duplicate online. Don't gotta b in the mood, don't gotta be dressed nice, don't gotta have a edge up, etc. Its a supplement, not a replacement

As far as coworkers, if u go that route, its either a) a lot of lunch dates to go thru, b) if u do get it u gotta worry is she gon trip on the job, get sprung, etc

And mos ltikely, if it's a career and not a job

C) friend zone.

Bc u GOTTA see them everyday. There's accountability

 

[Will Munny]

Meh, that's the women's fault for being so easy.

Grindr has been a challenge since day one.

Isn't grindr for homosexuals?

no, its a new TV show with Rob Lowe

No thatime has a E in it. . Man dis nigga is gay

Man how the fuck should I know how they spell a gay dating site but apparently you do.

 

[DarcSkies]

MySpace changed the game.

I'll your myspace and raise u Blackplanet

BP & MiGente used to be the spots.

"You know how girls on blacklnet be when they get bubbly"

-Yeezy

 

[Trollio]

when I saw another niggas in her top 8, I knew she was fucking someone else

 

[CapitalB]

my IG pull bitches for me like none before..

i use to have to put in work on MS and FB.. but bitches cant help themselves on my IG.. be all in my inbox..

so even when im out and do get a bitch number i somehow direct them to my IG once i feel them out.. works like a charm. lol

but aint nothin wrong wit usin technological advances to get bitches.. i did things the oldschool way back in the day but i embrace todays way aswell no shade..

when i go to a town i be already havin bitches lined up.. my boy be on PoF findin all the big titty bitches... i dont know how he do it.. cause i gets no play.. but he does and it goes down.

how can one hate on that?? lol

 

[NoCompetition]

Different type of people gravitate to different types of things. Meeting people on the computer aint my thing. Im busy as fck just living life. Not to brag but attracting women just by leaving the house aint hard for me and Im patient I dont need to expend extra energy. I look at it as any broad that would be talking to me on the computer is talking to who knows else too. Linin up multiple "dates". The whole thing is unappealing to me personally just how Im built and such. I think it easily causes complications and there are better ways to spend time. But people who do tinder and whatnot is another world I dont engage in so they do their thing I do mine.

 

[Tymoney19]

Not enough ethnic chick's on tinder it's mostly white girls and Asians.

 

[A Talented One]

Not enough ethnic chick's on tinder it's mostly white girls and Asians.

Black women don't seem to use online period (not just Tinder) as much as Whites and Asians.

The thing is though I think the ones who do use online are more likely to be chasing strictly non-black men than are black women more generally.

That's why when these IC militants get on me for dating out I don't pay these fools any mind. If these chicks -- at least the ones that I am interested in -- don't show me any interest, the fuck you want me to do? I've lost count how many dates I've been on from OKC and Tinder (mostly OKC) so far this year and only 3 of them were black women (and I broke my own rules in going out with one of them). I almost never get any black chicks matching me on Tinder. To expect anyone to hold out for them is very unrealistic.

 

[S2J]

Not enough ethnic chick's on tinder it's mostly white girls and Asians.

Black women don't seem to use online period (not just Tinder) as much as Whites and Asians.

The thing is though I think the ones who do use online are more likely to be chasing strictly non-black men than are black women more generally.

That's why when these IC militants get on me for dating out I don't pay these fools any mind. If these chicks -- at least the ones that I am interested in -- don't show me any interest, the fuck you want me to do? I've lost count how many dates I've been on from OKC and Tinder (mostly OKC) so far this year and only 3 of them were black women (and I broke my own rules in going out with one of them). I almost never get any black chicks matching me on Tinder. To expect anyone to hold out for them is very unrealistic.

You're an idiot.

Perhaps the reason it seems black women don't use online dating is black folk are 13% of the population

 

[Rasta.]

Not enough ethnic chick's on tinder it's mostly white girls and Asians.

Black women don't seem to use online period (not just Tinder) as much as Whites and Asians.

The thing is though I think the ones who do use online are more likely to be chasing strictly non-black men than are black women more generally.

That's why when these IC militants get on me for dating out I don't pay these fools any mind. If these chicks -- at least the ones that I am interested in -- don't show me any interest, the fuck you want me to do? I've lost count how many dates I've been on from OKC and Tinder (mostly OKC) so far this year and only 3 of them were black women (and I broke my own rules in going out with one of them). I almost never get any black chicks matching me on Tinder. To expect anyone to hold out for them is very unrealistic.

Blackplanet

Badoo

Tagged etc are a few that negates this

 

[A Talented One]

Not enough ethnic chick's on tinder it's mostly white girls and Asians.

Black women don't seem to use online period (not just Tinder) as much as Whites and Asians.

The thing is though I think the ones who do use online are more likely to be chasing strictly non-black men than are black women more generally.

That's why when these IC militants get on me for dating out I don't pay these fools any mind. If these chicks -- at least the ones that I am interested in -- don't show me any interest, the fuck you want me to do? I've lost count how many dates I've been on from OKC and Tinder (mostly OKC) so far this year and only 3 of them were black women (and I broke my own rules in going out with one of them). I almost never get any black chicks matching me on Tinder. To expect anyone to hold out for them is very unrealistic.

Blackplanet

Badoo

Tagged etc are a few that negates this

Well, I was thinking of mainstream, popular dating sites like Pof, OKC and Tinder.

 

[A Talented One]

Not enough ethnic chick's on tinder it's mostly white girls and Asians.

Black women don't seem to use online period (not just Tinder) as much as Whites and Asians.

The thing is though I think the ones who do use online are more likely to be chasing strictly non-black men than are black women more generally.

That's why when these IC militants get on me for dating out I don't pay these fools any mind. If these chicks -- at least the ones that I am interested in -- don't show me any interest, the fuck you want me to do? I've lost count how many dates I've been on from OKC and Tinder (mostly OKC) so far this year and only 3 of them were black women (and I broke my own rules in going out with one of them). I almost never get any black chicks matching me on Tinder. To expect anyone to hold out for them is very unrealistic.

You're an idiot.

Perhaps the reason it seems black women don't use online dating is black folk are 13% of the population

I am taking the black population into account, you fucking clown.