How Tinder is changing the mating game (long read)

[A Talented One]

Niggas just ain't got no game or even know how to talk to women

Huh? Are you inferring that cause they are using Tinder?

 

[king hassan]

Niggas just ain't got no game or even know how to talk to women

Huh? Are you inferring that cause they are using Tinder?

 

[BamBamMr7Gram]

MySpace changed the game.

How?

That's when getting pussy thru social media became mainstream.

I got more broads off MySpace than a ton of these other social networks combined

My new bitch off tinder and she fine so idk ::shrugs::

 

[Like Water]

Niggas just ain't got no game or even know how to talk to women

Hell yeah. You don't have the same filter when you communicate via text. Hell, you really have no filter. The most square muthafuckas can present themselves as Rico Suavé over a phone/device. You have time to process what a person says and respond accordingly, whether it be a few minutes or an hour. Less chance of saying something to fuck it up, and a higher chance of success.

The problem is that it has taken most of these e-players and made them socially awkward as fuck. I have a few single women associates and they are always saying that men, younger and even slightly older, that have adapted this new way to pick up broads are completely inept when it comes to actually communicating with them in person. They don't know what to say, how to read body language, nothin'.

But the fucked up thing is, from a man's perspective, it doesn't even matter. Why spend time on someone you actually hafta communicate with when you can get on Tindr and get the buns elsewhere?

I actually had to put in work to get all the buns I got as a youth. You new niggas got it too easy. Glad I ain't single now though. Y'all can have that shit.

 

[S2J]

MySpace changed the game.

How?

That's when getting pussy thru social media became mainstream.

I got more broads off MySpace than a ton of these other social networks combined

My new bitch off tinder and she fine so idk ::shrugs::

Pics or she's Precious

 

[AfrikQueen]

MySpace changed the game.

Nah. AOL profiles, and chatrooms is what changed the game. All myspace did was create a paradigm where people who didn't have AOL could now all connect under one platform and connect. It all starts back with AOL. Niggas was getting pussy off the net in the 90's and early 00's through AOL way before....

 

[jetlifebih]

MySpace changed the game.

Nah. AOL profiles, and chatrooms is what changed the game. All myspace did was create a paradigm where people who didn't have AOL could now all connect under one platform and connect. It all starts back with AOL. Niggas was getting pussy off the net in the 90's and early 00's through AOL way before....

what platform did you decide to divide that pwussy on?

 

[phukkyou2]

So we just gonna forget about Tagged? Foh

 

[Fosheezy]

I always found it way easier to pull women in real life at a bar than on any date app

 

[king hassan]

I always found it way easier to pull women in real life at a bar than on any date app

Ive picked up women in grocery stores and house parties. Ive copped some just walking down the block, riding my bike on the bike path,, simple

 

[kingofkingz]

Foh wit tagged that shit is trash

 

[phukkyou2]

Foh wit tagged that shit is trash

Shiet. Back in the day, everyone was gettin fucked on Tagged. MySpace was cool but MySpace had people on there for more than just Hookin Up.

And all Tagged was good for was Hooking Up. The freakiest bitches was on Tagged too. I'm talkin German Bitch nasty

 

[phukkyou2]

I always found it way easier to pull women in real life at a bar than on any date app

Bars, Pubs, and Clubs are too easy. Not every club is created equal and not every night you smashin atleast a 7 but that shit is a walk in the park for pussy. Shit's like a Super Market Sweep of Pussy

 

[Laverne9x7]

Meh, that's the women's fault for being so easy.

Grindr has been a challenge since day one.

 

[S2J]

I always found it way easier to pull women in real life at a bar than on any date app

Ive picked up women in grocery stores and house parties. Ive copped some just walking down the block, riding my bike on the bike path,, simple

And I've pulled women whilst sitting at work, literally getting paid while hollerin at bitches. Messaging numerous women at 1 time and have numerous dates set up before I get off ...THEN do everything u just said, too

My efficiency >>>yours

So what's your point again ?

 

[Will Munny]

Niggas just ain't got no game or even know how to talk to women

Hell yeah. You don't have the same filter when you communicate via text. Hell, you really have no filter. The most square muthafuckas can present themselves as Rico Suavé over a phone/device. You have time to process what a person says and respond accordingly, whether it be a few minutes or an hour. Less chance of saying something to fuck it up, and a higher chance of success.

The problem is that it has taken most of these e-players and made them socially awkward as fuck. I have a few single women associates and they are always saying that men, younger and even slightly older, that have adapted this new way to pick up broads are completely inept when it comes to actually communicating with them in person. They don't know what to say, how to read body language, nothin'.

But the fucked up thing is, from a man's perspective, it doesn't even matter. Why spend time on someone you actually hafta communicate with when you can get on Tindr and get the buns elsewhere?

I actually had to put in work to get all the buns I got as a youth. You new niggas got it too easy. Glad I ain't single now though. Y'all can have that shit.

I kind of agree and kind of disagree.

yes, it is easier from the standpoint you can think out what you're going to say, BUT when it comes to an actual conversation... if its a dumbass broad on other end, it doesn't matter if you're thinking shit out or not, you're wasting your time trying to fuck a broad you could have known was a bird in a matter of minutes instead of a day or two of texting.

Like you would not believe the amount of girls that can go on and on and on and on as long as you keep the convo going but the second you put the onus on them to come with a question to ask you or think of something smart to say, the convo dies instantly cause their soooooo stupid.

 

[kingofkingz]

Meh, that's the women's fault for being so easy.

Grindr has been a challenge since day one.

Isn't grindr for homosexuals?

 

[Will Munny]

Meh, that's the women's fault for being so easy.

Grindr has been a challenge since day one.

Isn't grindr for homosexuals?

no, its a new TV show with Rob Lowe

 

[king hassan]

I always found it way easier to pull women in real life at a bar than on any date app

Ive picked up women in grocery stores and house parties. Ive copped some just walking down the block, riding my bike on the bike path,, simple

And I've pulled women whilst sitting at work, literally getting paid while hollerin at bitches. Messaging numerous women at 1 time and have numerous dates set up before I get off ...THEN do everything u just said, too

My efficiency >>>yours

So what's your point again ?

Nigga I work in a hospital, nothing but broads all day so what was that response about

 

[A Talented One]

The thing that you have to remember is that the trend, at least in big cities, is moving against random approaches at the mall, on the street and whatnot -- women are increasingly less receptive to it. Remember that video about street harassment and the whole discussion surrounding that? Also, picking up at bars is getting harder too.

Plus, like S2J said, you can't beat the efficiency of online.