I tend to observe instead of (pre) judging someone...been around the world and people keep me amazed...you could be a piece of shit and I'll still see the light in you. Don't get me wrong, all call you a fuck boy if you're one but it ain't ever that serious simply because I'm indifferent to whatever you do and I'm to old to fall back to petty absolute judgement.
Which also means I don't care if people pre judge me. For some reason people tend to mistake my indifference for warmth. Wherever I go people feel comfortable around me and tell me their life stories. Mofos opening up during business deals n shit and I have to pretend to give a fuck. I could have been a brilliant psychologist, lobbiest or politician.
It's all about appearance though. I rock suits casually. Keep my beard neat...and people think positive cause I'm handsome af n charismatic...sometimes I rock football(soccer for you muricans) tracksuits and people fall back to fear or treat me like a coffeeshop (drugs) tourist lmao.
Shits all in the eye of the beholder.