How Many of Y'all Have Taken Care of Someone Elses Child, Because of a Relationship?

[MrMinimalist]

Next time ya'll about to smash a new chick for the 1st time, try to stick it in raw and see how she reacts. I bet 9 times outta 10 they'll let you do it!

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

the same cats in here on that "you a sucka for taking care of a kid that aint yours" be the main ones in illpix hollering "EBRC"...ummm...what do you think happens when you do the "RC"?

When I "RC" chicks, birth control was used, unlike a lot of dumb people who didn't think of using it or couldn't afford it.

I know it sounds crazy and it seems prideful

But I

Couldn't shake the feelin' that I was lied to

She ran out the room with mad tears in her eyes

Left her pills on the dresser right next to my copy of Get Back

I put 'em in my hand

Then put one in my mouth

Sure enough, all this time she been poppin' Tic Tac's

-Phonte, Close Call

Takes a whole lot of trust to believe random chicks are takin BC just bc they tell you son...

It also take a dumb nigga to nut up in a random chick just because she tells him she's taking BC.

I dont know fam... Its a lot of "random chicks" out there that would probably have you saying fuck a condom... especially if they told you they was on BC.

#KeepinitReal

I can introduce you to this wonderful forum call the Ill Pix Community which contains more than a few such specimens.

Before you browse, peep exhibit A

No...there really aren't any. A woman being fine as hell ain't enough for me to say "fuck my future let me risk it all for this one nut". Truth be told, I'm simply too selfish and enjoy my life the way it is to have put myself at risk like that. Those moments of pleasure ain't worth the lifetime of dealing with somebody that i don't even know for sure if I even want to see the next damn day let alone the next 18+ years of my life co-parenting a child. I'm not about to put my own future in the hands of somebody else just because she got a nice ass and some nice titties. That's why I'm about to turn 30 w/ no kids, no angry ex baby mommas, and no dumb ass stories about chicks trying to trap me or set me up.

You'd think this was common sense. For the life of me, I will never understand niggas who nut in bitches KNOWING they gonna have to deal with her crazy ass for the next 2 decades. Shit is mind boggling to me.

 

[Sexy26]

Truth b told if u cant except me n my children then aint the one a Real Man would step up yours or not enough said Im raising a stepson he calls me mama made me cry growup Now a days u aint gone meet nobodi that got a child in still with the father shit happens

 

[Peace_79]

the same cats in here on that "you a sucka for taking care of a kid that aint yours" be the main ones in illpix hollering "EBRC"...ummm...what do you think happens when you do the "RC"?

When I "RC" chicks, birth control was used, unlike a lot of dumb people who didn't think of using it or couldn't afford it.

I know it sounds crazy and it seems prideful

But I

Couldn't shake the feelin' that I was lied to

She ran out the room with mad tears in her eyes

Left her pills on the dresser right next to my copy of Get Back

I put 'em in my hand

Then put one in my mouth

Sure enough, all this time she been poppin' Tic Tac's

-Phonte, Close Call

Takes a whole lot of trust to believe random chicks are takin BC just bc they tell you son...

It also take a dumb nigga to nut up in a random chick just because she tells him she's taking BC.

I dont know fam... Its a lot of "random chicks" out there that would probably have you saying fuck a condom... especially if they told you they was on BC.

#KeepinitReal

I can introduce you to this wonderful forum call the Ill Pix Community which contains more than a few such specimens.

Before you browse, peep exhibit A

No...there really aren't any. A woman being fine as hell ain't enough for me to say "fuck my future let me risk it all for this one nut". Truth be told, I'm simply too selfish and enjoy my life the way it is to have put myself at risk like that. Those moments of pleasure ain't worth the lifetime of dealing with somebody that i don't even know for sure if I even want to see the next damn day let alone the next 18+ years of my life co-parenting a child. I'm not about to put my own future in the hands of somebody else just because she got a nice ass and some nice titties. That's why I'm about to turn 30 w/ no kids, no angry ex baby mommas, and no dumb ass stories about chicks trying to trap me or set me up.

You'd think this was common sense. For the life of me, I will never understand niggas who nut in bitches KNOWING they gonna have to deal with her crazy ass for the next 2 decades. Shit is mind boggling to me.

I feel you and I think the exact same way.

But life isnt always logical. People dont always do want makes the most sense and unfortunate shit can happen, especially if you are leading a lifestyle conducive to that.

I am just pointing out that if you are leading that type lifestyle, luck has a role to play in you coming out of those situations scott free. Condoms burst, pulling out fails, birds lie, mistakes happen, BC fails, fine women can get you caught in the moment. Its like walking across a highway blind folded without getting hurt, and claiming that other cats just ainit doing it right

Look at the analogy of finances. For the most part, everyone basically knows how to ensure long term financial success - but how many people are still behind the eight ball later in life?

Its easy to point the finger.

Just my take.

 

[BangEm_Bart]

Truth b told if u cant except me n my children then aint the one a Real Man would step up yours or not enough said Im raising a stepson he calls me mama made me cry growup Now a days u aint gone meet nobodi that got a child in still with the father shit happens

Wuh!

 

[BEAM]

.. a Real Man would step up yours or not enough said ..

 

[MrMinimalist]

Truth b told if u cant except me n my children then aint the one a Real Man would step up yours or not enough said Im raising a stepson he calls me mama made me cry growup Now a days u aint gone meet nobodi that got a child in still with the father shit happens

1 . I'll be a real man, step up to smash you as much as I can then I'm out

2. I'm over 28 w/o child so if I keep meeting women with kids and they not with the father, then that's a problem I'm never going to deal with. People making that seem normal, it's just that people are fuck ups.

3. Dudes it's fine women over 25 without kids. They can be dumb too but they're out here.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Truth b told if u cant except me n my children then aint the one a Real Man would step up yours or not enough said Im raising a stepson he calls me mama made me cry growup Now a days u aint gone meet nobodi that got a child in still with the father shit happens

^^^^^ isn't this the chick who was friends w the girl who married herself?

 

[damobb2deep]

Truth b told if u cant except me n my children then aint the one a Real Man would step up yours or not enough said Im raising a stepson he calls me mama made me cry growup Now a days u aint gone meet nobodi that got a child in still with the father shit happens

1 . I'll be a real man, step up to smash you as much as I can then I'm out

2. I'm over 28 w/o child so if I keep meeting women with kids and they not with the father, then that's a problem I'm never going to deal with. People making that seem normal, it's just that people are fuck ups.

3. Dudes it's fine women over 25 without kids. They can be dumb too but they're out here.

you are just perpetuating the stereotypical shyt.... i would understand if you didn't even smash a chick with kids.. but 2 be okay doing that but not be okay being in a relationship with them is very immature...

 

[BEAM]

you are just perpetuating the stereotypical shyt.... i would understand if you didn't even smash a chick with kids.. but 2 be okay doing that but not be okay being in a relationship with them is very immature...

Hol up, fam.

Since when does smashing off an a single Mother include having to be in a relationship with her?

There're single Mothers out here still giving up the panties for the low.

You know why? Because the one thing femmes love more than relationships, is dick. Believe that.

 

[damobb2deep]

you are just perpetuating the stereotypical shyt.... i would understand if you didn't even smash a chick with kids.. but 2 be okay doing that but not be okay being in a relationship with them is very immature...

Hol up, fam.

Since when does smashing off an a single Mother include having to be in a relationship with her?

There're single Mothers out here still giving up the panties for the low.

You know why? Because the one thing femmes love more than relationships, is dick. Believe that.

check one of my earlier posts... where I said

this thread just reveals that most of you kneegrows be faking the funk when it comes to all that "it takes a community" shit ya'll be talking

pro black my ass

so taking responsibility for others fuck up helps the community how, or would it make more sense to force others to take care of their responsibilities and offer help along the way

because this child would have a positive influence in their life? maybe having a structured family.... maybe the fact that it would further change stereotypes that "men ain't shyt".. you niggas are so selfish.. and you niggas keep acting like there is only one reason for a female to be a single mother... a child is not a "fuck up" or "mistake" all the time..

btw how the fuck are you going to "force" a grown person to do anything? you can't...

the funny thing is you niggas are indirectly perpetuating the stereotypical shyt of broken homes and don't even know it...

because none of you said you wouldn't fuck a woman with kids... just not date... so say you get her pregnant... are you gonna dash out on her? are you going to take care of that child... hopefully most of you would choose the latter... but apparently you still wouldn't date her... but then you would go to the next chick with a child because you have one now... you going to be around her kid now.. now depending on the situation you have a child's mother and father on the outside you have to deal with...

so in the end you have a potential to be "worse off" just smashing a chick with kids then just flat out dating one...

 

[Sexy26]

[-X

 

[9TRAY]

What's going on in this Thread. Damn

 

[riddlerap]

glad i made this shit.

 

[damobb2deep]

glad i made this shit.

It was low hanging fruit honestly but hey lol...

 

[Purr]

you are just perpetuating the stereotypical shyt.... i would understand if you didn't even smash a chick with kids.. but 2 be okay doing that but not be okay being in a relationship with them is very immature...

Hol up, fam.

Since when does smashing off an a single Mother include having to be in a relationship with her?

There're single Mothers out here still giving up the panties for the low.

You know why? Because the one thing femmes love more than relationships, is dick. Believe that.

I do loves me some dick.

 

[Purr]

Truth b told if u cant except me n my children then aint the one a Real Man would step up yours or not enough said Im raising a stepson he calls me mama made me cry growup Now a days u aint gone meet nobodi that got a child in still with the father shit happens

Speak English!

 

[Sexy26]

GOODNESS

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

Like @Pico said I try to avoid chicks that have kids. Too much drama behind it, I've learned my lesson

#NoKidsLife#

man I recently tried fuckin w/ a single mom and that shit lasted a week before I dropped her ass. I stayed the night @ her crib and her babydaddy popped up @ 6am to drop their kids off. He had to see my car parked outside, next thing I know they outside arguing/fighting. Kids crying, it was a ghetto ass mess. I hear the nigga outside talkin bout "Don't bring no niggas round my kids blah blah blah." He must have stole her phone because he start blowing up my phone from HER fuckin phone. After I left, she text me a few days later asking why I don't fuck with her anymore. I straight up told her "Yo you got too much drama in your life, I don't got time to deal w/ that shit". Aint talked to the bitch since.

SMH, chicks with kids usually just aint worth the headache, idgaf how fine she is. That situation made me remember exactly why I avoid baby mother's.

 

[CP203]

Like @Pico said I try to avoid chicks that have kids. Too much drama behind it, I've learned my lesson

#NoKidsLife#

man I recently tried fuckin w/ a single mom and that shit lasted a week before I dropped her ass. I stayed the night @ her crib and her babydaddy popped up @ 6am to drop their kids off. He had to see my car parked outside, next thing I know they outside arguing/fighting. Kids crying, it was a ghetto ass mess. I hear the nigga outside talkin bout "Don't bring no niggas round my kids blah blah blah." He must have stole her phone because he start blowing up my phone from HER fuckin phone. After I left, she text me a few days later asking why I don't fuck with her anymore. I straight up told her "Yo you got too much drama in your life, I don't got time to deal w/ that shit". Aint talked to the bitch since.

SMH, chicks with kids usually just aint worth the headache, idgaf how fine she is. That situation made me remember exactly why I avoid baby mother's.

yo lmao, i'd have picked up to ask why he was calling me