How important is a Chick's past? Where do you draw the line personally?

[bbwthick23]

I'd like a woman to be disease free and have no lingering drama from the past that is affecting her current life.

Thinking you're gonna hear the whole truth is almost a joke once you get to a certain age. Chicks decide what category they're gonna put you in and they present themselves accordingly.

So true. dudes be frontin like they can't fuck with a chick with a questionable past. but how do u really know her past. she says i only been with 2 men, she could really have been with 200 and shit

 

[AliPhx11]

I use to ask every question in the book because I just had to know until thet start asking me back and even though I didn't answer I KNEW my numbers and was like damn son?? I don't even want them to know that!! So I don't even ask now

QUESTION - with the chicks that smashed 25-30 cats in their past imagine how many you have in your past and thers is some cat out there trying to hit somebody on ur list right now and asking her how many hit? u could've been # 6 or # 19 or #25...... don't matter to him, he trying to get it and move on same as we did......

 

[Huruma]

I don't see why it should be a problem.

 

[mindright]

I think it matters...alot...

I would only ask if there were warning signs that required me to ask..

if she's an expert in the bed and knows the ins and outs of things (front, back, both) then that would be the first strike

if were out and a rack of dudes comes up to her and gives her hugs and kisses and talkin bout "remember that time" and etc, etc. that's the second strike

if she were dumb enough to actually tell me the exact number and it's far too high for my liking, that's strike three and I'm done with that slore.

If she were to ask me my number, I'm lying...

not puttin on the cape for a slore. won't do it. can't do it....she may have the best ever, but the thought of how many guys she ran thru to get to that point would just kill me..

 

[desertrain10]

I think it matters...alot...

I would only ask if there were warning signs that required me to ask..

if she's an expert in the bed and knows the ins and outs of things (front, back, both) then that would be the first strike

if were out and a rack of dudes comes up to her and gives her hugs and kisses and talkin bout "remember that time" and etc, etc. that's the second strike

if she were dumb enough to actually tell me the exact number and it's far too high for my liking, that's strike three and I'm done with that slore.

If she were to ask me my number, I'm lying...

not puttin on the cape for a slore. won't do it. can't do it....she may have the best ever, but the thought of how many guys she ran thru to get to that point would just kill me..

nigga didn't you say you had to check your girl for flirting with your homie? what was her number? lol

 

[Bwoahmizzee]

stay stuck on the past and go nowhere fast

 

[D-Marco]

stay stuck on the past and go nowhere fast

True. But sometimes their past is a good indication of their mindframe at the time. If she's gullible, easily influenced, and impulsive thats not wifey material. I had a chick tell me she had 3sum with "her drug dealer"....hit a uturn, ma im droppin u back off

 

[nex gin]

on some real shit niggas pride makes us worry too much about number of partners/exploits.

The real issue is that emotional baggage. Females with broken spirits and psychological issues are worse than a chick who use to "get it in"

Truth.com 4 real

 

[brayanscholar]

Not long ago I "The Princess and the Frog" I saw and I found very inspiring. I'm used to the iPhone desktop wallpaper or a chick 20 years, thought it would be a good exercise to take.

 

[Copper]

certain things a woman has done says alot about her and yes I do judge people on thier past relationships/actions

 

[Shizlansky]

certain things a woman has done says alot about her and yes I do judge people on thier past relationships/actions

i do too, im not suppose to but i do.. i would be mad if a chick judged me on my past , cuz up until i was 21 on cheated on every girl.. and im only 23...

the last chick i dated, was the only chicked i dindt cheat on

 

[Copper]

i do too, im not suppose to but i do.. i would be mad if a chick judged me on my past , cuz up until i was 21 on cheated on every girl.. and im only 23...

the last chick i dated, was the only chicked i dindt cheat on

I know people always tell me ur not supposed to but how else are u to judge a persons character?? what someone has done in the past speaks loudly and directly about thier present