How hard is it for you to say "I'm sorry" or "I was wrong" to a girl ur dating

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I'm wrong all the time....cause I am a man and if a a woman has never been with a man nor observed how a man moves then she is going to misinterpret a lot of shit....call me Snoopy cause I live on top of the dog house
 
some people just refuse to say sorry because they think it show weakness.

i have not problems saying it.

loving someone is being quick to say your sorry
 
Once I realize that I'll be the only one ever admitting fault I felt like a sucker so now im never wrong. I be on my Slim Charles shit. "don't matter who wrong or right at this point, once we start fighting we fight on the lie".
 
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http://youtu.be/oHol7WW2A8g

Niggas missed that 9/11 parable that ran through season 3 from start to finish. From the war between Marlo and Avon being started as a result of the towers being knocked down, to Slim Charles saying, 'Fact of the matter, it don't matter who did what at this point. If it's a lie, you fight on that lie. It's what war is; once you in it, you IN IT!'
 
I can't stand people who can't admit they're wrong, so I try not to be like that. If I'm legitimately wrong, I'll own up to it, no problem.

If she's just pissed off because she didn't get her way about something, she's just gonna have to deal with it.
 
If I'm wrong I got no problem admitting it. I don't have the patience to make a situation worse simply because I don't want to admit I'm wrong about something. That's a waste of time and energy I could use being right about something else
 
I have no problem with it, if im wrong and i see it ill be the first to admit it. if its pointed out to me in a logical sense ill admit it. Even if i dont believe im wrong but a sensible argument was made against me, I'll apologize for not being clear and the signals getting crossed. People that have trouble admitting wrong have insecurity issues and weak egos at minimum, usually also some psychological issues as well.

Those insecurities are usually masked behind an arrogant or egotistical front and you see it when people have clear issues with admitting wrong like its beneath them. Insecurity or weak ego swallows them in and they can only see self, their own desires, instead of recognizing the importance of an apology fron the other persons perspective. The reason they arent able to connect with that is their weak ego making them overly concerned with how people view them. They take other people's possible perceptions as personal attacks. They worried about nonsense like this when a simple apology should not be that deep and isn't to people with healthy egos. People with healthy egos dont think from that victim mindset so those thoughts about how they will look dont occur to them and if they did they still don't care about it. They are secure enough to naturally be more objective which puts them in closer contact with reality and allows them to be more considerate, they can get outside of their own experience and into the experience of the other person. I've noticed this insecure/victim mentality runs rampant in black culture for obvious reasons. But i always take note of people i have to pull any admittance of wrong out of vs those who do it entirely on their own. Easy insight into a persons character, especially women. My pops told me only bitches can't admit when they wrong and it holds true.

All that said ill never apologize just to do it or just to keep peace. The complaint has to be presented in a sensible logical manner
 

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