UinitiatedMgt
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Great form of relationship for raising family, if you want kids.
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How do you truly feel about monogamy? Is it your true preference?
mryounggun
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Ideally, I'd be able to go out and fuck someone else and women would understand that men fucking someone else rarely means they don't love or care about you. But at this point in my life, I don't have a problem controlling myself and not fucking other women so monogamy works out fine for me.
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it just takes discipline...
just like you can control you rage, you can control your lust....
one could argue that murder is natural....it certainly takes place normally in the animal kingdom....but part of conforming to society is to resit your urge to rage out violently anytime you feel like it...
and while most people chose to resist that urge, most of us personally know a few folk who chose not to.....some walking the streets, some not
only difference is violence is punishable by law...which is why we find shit like boxing, and mma, and other forms of controlled violence almost as appealing as we find watching shit like porn......
something about those extreme urges that peaks our interest.....
while there are many people argue that monogamy isn't natural it's still a choice.....and people make choices on the most favorable outcome.....people who choose to be monogamous do so because they feel that is the best way to accomplish their desired goals in a relatinoship
just like you can control you rage, you can control your lust....
one could argue that murder is natural....it certainly takes place normally in the animal kingdom....but part of conforming to society is to resit your urge to rage out violently anytime you feel like it...
and while most people chose to resist that urge, most of us personally know a few folk who chose not to.....some walking the streets, some not
only difference is violence is punishable by law...which is why we find shit like boxing, and mma, and other forms of controlled violence almost as appealing as we find watching shit like porn......
something about those extreme urges that peaks our interest.....
while there are many people argue that monogamy isn't natural it's still a choice.....and people make choices on the most favorable outcome.....people who choose to be monogamous do so because they feel that is the best way to accomplish their desired goals in a relatinoship
mryounggun
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DWO;7250360 said:it just takes discipline...
just like you can control you rage, you can control your lust....
one could argue that murder is natural....it certainly takes place normally in the animal kingdom....but part of conforming to society is to resit your urge to rage out violently anytime you feel like it...
and while most people chose to resist that urge, most of us personally know a few folk who chose not to.....some walking the streets, some not
only difference is violence is punishable by law...which is why we find shit like boxing, and mma, and other forms of controlled violence almost as appealing as we find watching shit like porn......
something about those extreme urges that peaks our interest.....
while there are many people argue that monogamy isn't natural it's still a choice.....and people make choices on the most favorable outcome.....people who choose to be monogamous do so because they feel that is the best way to accomplish their desired goals in a relatinoship
This is what I never bought about the 'monogamy ain't natural' argument. We don't make that same argument about any other thing that isn't natural.
StoneColdMikey
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If you can have self control then it's easy
The_Jackal
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I'm not fucking with it.
The Iconoclast
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MikeydaGawd;7250377 said:If you can have self control then it's easy
Word.
Yeah, for me the way I conceptualize ‘love’ fits in the parameters of monogamy. Admittedly the reason I feel this is because of conditioning from society and they fact I grew up with married parents (who are still married). I'd like to think that I have good self-control.
However I can't lie the thought of lifelong monogamy is intimidating and there’s a likely chance that the psychological concept known as ‘reactance’ may kick in - which essentially means people want what they can’t have or desire to do a forbidden thing/action that is taken away from them and off-limits. It's one of the primary causes of marriage ‘itches’.
Avenue Crazy
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It ain't natural for a man. Monogamy make me miserable
Will Munny
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This girl I've been seeing told me to go out and get a blowjob if I want one.
I feel like it was a trap.
I feel like it was a trap.
UinitiatedMgt
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and to answer OP's second question, LOLno.
In an ideal world with no 'checks and balances', I would smash one on the way to smashing another and smash both when we get there.
In an ideal world with no 'checks and balances', I would smash one on the way to smashing another and smash both when we get there.
IgnorantSole
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Absolutely nothing wrong with monogamy. Only time I REALLY see niggas pressed by it, either cause the never really found love or just really enthused with the thrill of shit he's "not supposed to be doing"/thrill of the chase.
If you fucking just to fuck then that's one thing. Niggas scared to admit that good pussy is the same no matter what, the only dynamic that changes is the woman that possesses it. You rarely meet that select group of the opposite sex that compliments you in a way that's inexplicable to others. Like you literally explain what's different in that one particular person.
Now add greed to the equation aka the fine bitch that you cheated with, and the only thing you can form from that situation is regret, IF everything was right with the aforementioned chick. Both got good pussy, both beautiful, except the mistress doesn't have that "it" factor. So while niggas taking loss after loss, they really just looking for what's at home.
If you fucking just to fuck then that's one thing. Niggas scared to admit that good pussy is the same no matter what, the only dynamic that changes is the woman that possesses it. You rarely meet that select group of the opposite sex that compliments you in a way that's inexplicable to others. Like you literally explain what's different in that one particular person.
Now add greed to the equation aka the fine bitch that you cheated with, and the only thing you can form from that situation is regret, IF everything was right with the aforementioned chick. Both got good pussy, both beautiful, except the mistress doesn't have that "it" factor. So while niggas taking loss after loss, they really just looking for what's at home.
count remy
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depends on the person as usual... I for one don't have it in me to deal with the shit that comes from talking to different people. Throw 2 or more females in that mix that's fuckin 2 or more other dudes with who knows what aliment and shit just gets stupid. So I got no beef with monogamy. For me, the alternative falls under the law of diminishing returns. I crave a large chunk of my time. Adding more broads to my life would just complicate my life. My ideal situation is being monogamous with a chick that got her own house that she can go to that's away from me.
obnoxiouslyfresh
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Just do what works for you. Sure, it's not natural, which is why it's considered a virtue in the first place. If it were easy, there would be no reason to commend the efforts of DoYouWanttoGotoHeaven as some praiseworthy feat. It's difficult and not natural, but the human story is one in which we have risen above our animal instincts, learned to control our more basal desires in order to have the mindspace for higher concepts. Like flying without wings....
obnoxiouslyfresh;7250470 said:Just do what works for you. Sure, it's not natural, which is why it's considered a virtue in the first place. If it were easy, there would be no reason to commend the efforts of DoYouWanttoGotoHeaven as some praiseworthy feat. It's difficult and not natural, but the human story is one in which we have risen above our animal instincts, learned to control our more basal desires in order to have the mindspace for higher concepts. Like flying without wings....
We generally seem to fail miserably at doing that
Trillfate;7250404 said:"love is cursed by monogamy" - Yeezus
you ain't got the answers sway
