How Do You Recover From Getting Cheated On?

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Best advice I could give u is to subscribe to a 3 month supply of extenze and hopefully u wont have to make a thread like this ever again.
 
Thulsa Doom;4444944 said:
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Best advice I could give u is to subscribe to a 3 month supply of extenze and hopefully u wont have to make a thread like this ever again.

no citrus at all while using these...

Speaking from experience?

*wonders if im allowed to ether him w/o being banned*
 
most people trip like their sex game must be wack. I don't have those feelings, I just think the person is playing games with life, and usure about his desires. When you get serious with your own life thats when you will be serious about a relationship.

sometimes it's a misunderstanding that Iam cheating, so I was cheated on first, just because he thought I was cheating.

cheating isnt real, if you really wanted the other person u wouldnt cheat, you would just leave who u wit. Who really wants to deal with 2 or more relationships at once?

if the person really wanted the person they cheat with, they would leave the one they are with and not cheat. Thats why I don't cheat with people in relationships. I've done it before but it was more like a relationship break type of situation. not having 2 relationship at once, but I was rotating relationships, and got caught up. I'm still not a fan of cheating tho, because the shit is bullshit.

I'll just leave, but in a long distant relationship you can be accused of cheating when u not. right now we back, but tommorow he prolly say I'm cheating...most of the time it's just a ball of confusion.
 
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Wen it happened to me I just took da L and just charged it to the game and kept it moving. After about a month of regrouping myslf u was back in the field spitting game.
 
Really depends on what you want to do with the person afterward..

If you wanna ghost, separate from everything that would remind you of them, none of this "still friends" shit either, cut them out completely because they will eventually sneak back in. Dont look for closure or anything just dip.

If you wanna stay, yall both are going to have to open up completely and address the problems and fix them, that is the only way to heal that wound. If they cheated because of some bullshit or they won't open up completely and allow you to see the underlying issues then it will happen again, and again, etc.
 
It appears to me that sum of you rely on the replacement method or as they say in the streets "getting under a new one to get over the last one"..

Although this is a valid coping method, it rarely addresses the underlying issues of abandonment and betrayal.. The new one is often the burden bearer bcuz of your last failed union..

And for the record public enema1 is a sour apple... His blatant dissent and bitter opinion in every thread is indicative of a man that is unhappy with self and he obviously gets no pussy.. His negative online persona is merely a reflection of his wasted life and is echoed nightly wen he jerks off into a sock every night before retiring to his twin sized bed..
 
Joey Greco;4450126 said:
It appears to me that sum of you rely on the replacement method or as they say in the streets "getting under a new one to get over the last one"..

Although this is a valid coping method, it rarely addresses the underlying issues of abandonment and betrayal.. The new one is often the burden bearer bcuz of your last failed union..


True to the bolded.

Which is why I said charge it to the game.

By that I mean get yourself together, become introspective and realize that everything isn't meant to be and that there is always a silver lining in the sky. This is what I mean when I say charge it to the game.

After enough self reflection has been done usually a person is then able to venture into meeting new people, without the baggage and bitterness over the last breakup.

I may have gave the impression of getting cheated on today and fuckin somethin else tomorrow. Contrary to popular belief on making a person progress this will actually cause a person to regress more.

 
@frostyicy excellent point..

I personally find "charging it to the game" is the healthiest way to deal with infidelity.. One must realize you're gonna win some and lose some.. You can't allow your losses to affect your ability to win
 

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