How do we get our black women to lose weight

[1of1]

I come across enough black women of ideal shape/weight/proportion that I don't even worry about the elephant seals though.

 

[J-GUTTA]

Great Post, however....a follow-up excuse is sure to come up quickly once you make that statement.

son I have a part time gig at a 24 hr gym and I hear them all and no bullshit 80% of people who sign up never show up.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

and given that black men dont like to go to the doctor, I would say that number is way higher

black dudes are just as ridiculous

niggas be hiding behind a game of 21 thinking that's a real workout

I got no love for fat ppl with excuses.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

I come across enough black women of ideal shape/weight/proportion that I don't even worry about the elephant seals though.

I hate fat ugly ppl that got "I'm the shit" personalities

maybe its just me but I think all fat ppl should be permanently unhappy

 

[Pura~Diabla]

So we really gonna act like Black women aren't the most overweight racial/gender group in the US? It's rare to meet a black dude (no stereotype) under 30 who doesn't play basketball AT ALL. Shit, in a lot of black neighborhoods, the basketball court is where we meet to congregate. Even the fat dudes are ballers and will surprise you with speed. Most black chicks I know are more concerned with getting their hair done/looking fresh than actually trying to get/remain physically fit.

I always wonder two things when I hear people say this:

1) What gym do they go to?

2) Do they even go to the gym themselves?

Every gym I go to I see a shitload of FIT black women in there working out....including myself.

 

[1of1]

Lol @ getting off topic so as to try and match what you take as "insults." Women could weigh in on this topic as well w/o being offended. SMH.

 

[leftcoastkev]

If you single and out of shape then that sucks.

But for real though, a lot of times when you get you a good woman ya'll go out to eat, stay out, come back, sip a little, fuck, go to sleep wake up, go to work. A day or 2 later y'all stay in, she cook some good food, fuck around, repeat that shit enough times and both of y'all gaining weight. The key is to incorporate being in shape from the beginning and in my experience the man gotta take the lead and be her motivation. Typically if you look at men and women out together, they are usually a reflection of each other.....if he slightly overweight, she slightly overweight, if he sloppy fat, she borderline, etc.

Shit ain't always easy but you gotta dedicate time to make you the best you, you can be. If you dedicate yourself to being in shape, more sooner than later she probably will too. If she don't I'd be skeptical about it, cuz most women (that's down) wanna represent for they man. I'm sure she don't wanna be at the beach with you and you ripped up, got women staring, while she getting self conscience and feeling wierd........

 

[Bully_Pulpit]

I hate fat ugly ppl that got "I'm the shit" personalities

maybe its just me but I think all fat ppl should be permanently unhappy

That shit is real prevalent on the internet

 

[Bussy_Getta]

If you single and out of shape then that sucks.

But for real though, a lot of times when you get you a good woman ya'll go out to eat, stay out, come back, sip a little, fuck, go to sleep wake up, go to work. A day or 2 later y'all stay in, she cook some good food, fuck around, repeat that shit enough times and both of y'all gaining weight. The key is to incorporate being in shape from the beginning and in my experience the man gotta take the lead and be her motivation, typically if you look at men and women out together, they are usually a reflection of each other.....if he slightly overweight, she slightly overweight, if he sloppy fat, she borderline, etc.

If you dedicate yourself to being in shape, more sooner than later she probably will too. If she don't I'd be skeptical about it. I'm sure she don't wanna be at the beach with you and you ripped up, got women staring, while she getting self conscience and feeling wierd........

great post!!!!!!!
cause thats exactly how it is

 

[haute]

If you single and out of shape then that sucks.

But for real though, a lot of times when you get you a good woman ya'll go out to eat, stay out, come back, sip a little, fuck, go to sleep wake up, go to work. A day or 2 later y'all stay in, she cook some good food, fuck around, repeat that shit enough times and both of y'all gaining weight. The key is to incorporate being in shape from the beginning and in my experience the man gotta take the lead and be her motivation, typically if you look at men and women out together, they are usually a reflection of each other.....if he slightly overweight, she slightly overweight, if he sloppy fat, she borderline, etc.

If you dedicate yourself to being in shape, more sooner than later she probably will too. If she don't I'd be skeptical about it. I'm sure she don't wanna be at the beach with you and you ripped up, got women staring, while she getting self conscience and feeling wierd........

that's why you have to incorporate going to the gym together

you can still get QT while burning calories

 

[obnoxiouslyfresh]

My boyfriend uses tough love and refuses to take elevators with me out of concern for weight capacity. That lonely, sad walk up to the 9th floor always motivates me to do better

 

[J-GUTTA]

that's why you have to incorporate going to the gym together

you can still get QT while burning calories

seriously working out with a S/O is WOAT.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

That shit is real prevalent on the internet

dog....how is it ppl are fat and always be on the internet??? Like get a life my nigga! That time you spent playing video games and typing on message boards, you coulda worked out.

It takes a MAXIMUM, MAXIMUM 10 mn to run a mile if you're out of shape.

You can knock out unlimited pushups/situps in 1 hr between commercial breaks.

There is no reason to ever be fat. Ever. Overweight yeah, that ain't shit. But to be fat nigga. With rolls nigga. Shits disgusting b.

 

[American Loo VII 3D]

son I have a part time gig at a 24 hr gym and I hear them all and no bullshit 80% of people who sign up never show up.

80% percent NEVER SHOW UP!!

so you saying they sign up and never come ONCE??!!

do yall call them like, "fuck you at??"

 

[tru_m.a.c]

seriously working out with a S/O is WOAT.

realtalk.net

for dudes that REALLY workout....incorporating a female into your routine kills everything

 

[haute]

seriously working out with a S/O is WOAT.

Really???

usually we just go to the gym

he hits the weights, I hit up yoga

or we run together

then have some shower/groping time

it's fun to me

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

If you single and out of shape then that sucks.

But for real though, a lot of times when you get you a good woman ya'll go out to eat, stay out, come back, sip a little, fuck, go to sleep wake up, go to work. A day or 2 later y'all stay in, she cook some good food, fuck around, repeat that shit enough times and both of y'all gaining weight. The key is to incorporate being in shape from the beginning and in my experience the man gotta take the lead and be her motivation. Typically if you look at men and women out together, they are usually a reflection of each other.....if he slightly overweight, she slightly overweight, if he sloppy fat, she borderline, etc.

Shit ain't always easy but you gotta dedicate time to make you the best you, you can be. If you dedicate yourself to being in shape, more sooner than later she probably will too. If she don't I'd be skeptical about it, cuz most women (that's down) wanna represent for they man. I'm sure she don't wanna be at the beach with you and you ripped up, got women staring, while she getting self conscience and feeling wierd........

Interesting considering I work out 7 days a week and am single therefore I do this by my own will and would prefer a man who already had that drive to stay fit and healthy in him. I of course would definitely work with a man and get a routine going where we could work out together. That's the best.

 

[MissLeading]

If you single and out of shape then that sucks.

But for real though, a lot of times when you get you a good woman ya'll go out to eat, stay out, come back, sip a little, fuck, go to sleep wake up, go to work. A day or 2 later y'all stay in, she cook some good food, fuck around, repeat that shit enough times and both of y'all gaining weight. The key is to incorporate being in shape from the beginning and in my experience the man gotta take the lead and be her motivation. Typically if you look at men and women out together, they are usually a reflection of each other.....if he slightly overweight, she slightly overweight, if he sloppy fat, she borderline, etc.

Shit ain't always easy but you gotta dedicate time to make you the best you, you can be. If you dedicate yourself to being in shape, more sooner than later she probably will too. If she don't I'd be skeptical about it, cuz most women (that's down) wanna represent for they man. I'm sure she don't wanna be at the beach with you and you ripped up, got women staring, while she getting self conscience and feeling wierd........

I knew this girl, could cook her ass off, was 5'10, 300lbs.. All she liked was muscular guys and they seemed to go for her too... She tried to lose weight, dropped 10lbs and stopped. Now she's bigger and not even trying but still maintains that preference and still pulls the same type of men.. She thinks she looks good. She knows she's fat but since a lot of it is in her ass, she doesn't particularly care.. The only reason she went on a diet before was because her doctor told her she was morbidly obese and needed to lose the weight fast.. That motivation lasted about 2 weeks..

Your theory would work if both parties started off at the same level, but if obese women are still pulling the men they like being obese then they really have no incentive to lose any weight. If they're at the beach and he's looking good, she's just going to feel good that she has him looking like she does..

 

[American Loo VII 3D]

My boyfriend uses tough love and refuses to take elevators with me out of concern for weight capacity. That lonely, sad walk up to the 9th floor always motivates me to do better

you over there gettin big ma?

yo cut that shit out

 

[1of1]

son I have a part time gig at a 24 hr gym and I hear them all and no bullshit 80% of people who sign up never show up.

Got damn 80%? People are acting like signing the paper loses them 25 pounds and gets the abs to break the surface.

I hate fat ugly ppl that got "I'm the shit" personalities

maybe its just me but I think all fat ppl should be permanently unhappy

Lol. They don't have to be unhappy, but it's not good to be content as a sloppy joe/ho.