How can you tell the difference between someone flirting with you........

[kevmic]

or just being friendly?Cant you tell

You can usually tell by the nature of the conversation. If someone is just friendly, you'll know by simple small talk and a few cracked jokes. But if someone is flirting, you can tell by the type of questions they ask or the direction a conversation can go(personal or sexual) and how often they bring those certain topics up.

 

[The"FuckYou&quo]

If I am in a situation where I cannot tell if a lady is flirting with me or just being friendly I stop giving a shit and take the "She's being Friendly" approach. I have mistaken that before in the past and the end result was not desirable to say the least

 

[Hypernova]

With a habitual teaser, it's almost impossible to determine

 

[caddo man]

If I am in a situation where I cannot tell if a lady is flirting with me or just being friendly I stop giving a shit and take the "She's being Friendly" approach. I have mistaken that before in the past and the end result was not desirable to say the least

This.......I am niave as hell. So I stop trying to figure it out! But I have figure out why some chick try some dudes but not others.

Case in point: My homey works in maintenance and has this fine ass chick hug him all the time. She talk she to him like "You better be glad you we at work becuase if we wasnt....". Dude was like he is cool with her but the temptation is unbelieveable. But she only fuck with him like that because he is married and a shy dude. She know he wont approach her because he is happily married. But the single player dude gets no play. Cause she know he will palm that ass and ask for the pussy! LOL!

 

[Mr.Bocario]

If a girl gives me a look or a smile I'm goin in, sometimes it works, other times it doesn't but the more you shoot the more u score

 

[nex gin]

i'm super-friendly and it's often mistaken as flirting. being charming can also be mistaken for flirting. i just assume people are being nice unless they show direct interest

Oohhh...so you one of those types.... *side eyes*

 

[American.Loo]

I assume every bitch who speaks to me wants to have relations...

^^^^^^^^ this.

 

[kat2180]

So there is no such thing as innocent flirting? Cause I can flirt with someone I have no intention of actually doing anything with..

 

[Hypernova]

So there is no such thing as innocent flirting? Cause I can flirt with someone I have no intention of actually doing anything with..

My point exactly

 

[Jay Pee]

Im good looking so if any females talk to me I take it as flirting.

 

[kat2180]

Here we go..holier than thou dudes making appearances to act like men don't flirt.

He would be just as cool with it as I am..two grown people that don't trip on innocent flirting. Guess who's getting the pussy/dick at the end of the day? So why trip..its natural.

 

[MissLeading]

i'm super-friendly and it's often mistaken as flirting. being charming can also be mistaken for flirting. i just assume people are being nice unless they show direct interest

I'm the same way and I've been accused of trying to get with a friends boyfriend because I was nice to him.

 

[HafBayked]

most of the time i can tell in the eyes and body language...some of ya'll cant hold that shit in for nuthin lol...

 

[DRO]

I had a thick ass white girl that used 2 work in my building.. She was like nice 2 everybody, so i payed it no attention.. And the last day before i transfered, she told me that she liked me.. I was like "why u aint say nothing?!?!?".. I mean this white gul was like 5'11, 175 42 dd's, fat ass.. And i missed out.. All cause i didnt know....

 

[American.Loo]

So there is no such thing as innocent flirting? Cause I can flirt with someone I have no intention of actually doing anything with..

why flirt if youre in a relationship though

to me thats like sitting down at the restaraunt table, ordering water then leaving.

 

[HafBayked]

I had a thick ass white girl that used 2 work in my building.. She was like nice 2 everybody, so i payed it no attention.. And the last day before i transfered, she told me that she liked me.. I was like "why u aint say nothing?!?!?".. I mean this white gul was like 5'11, 175 42 dd's, fat ass.. And i missed out.. All cause i didnt know....

how did u miss out if she said she liked you?....u transfered to another planet?

 

[HafBayked]

You're such a bird

If you saw your Guy flirting with a woman... you would be okay with it?

lol why ya'll trippin...i really feel the same way but my girl dont...and she think if im cool with her flirting something is wrong....i dont give a damn what u talk about with somebody if u can keep it at just that...its healthy to keep that part alive

 

[6ft5]

So there is no such thing as innocent flirting? Cause I can flirt with someone I have no intention of actually doing anything with..

I do this all the time I think it's just my natural demeanor

 

[American.Loo]

Personally speaking, I don't think there's a such thing as 'innocent flirting'

 

[kat2180]

You're such a bird

If you saw your Guy flirting with a woman... you would be okay with it?

That's not innocent flirting, that's disrespect and I would never disrespect him like that and I expect the same from him.

Innocent flirting is him walking into a bar and engaging in flirty banter with the bartender. You know its not serious.

@ Loo -All those restrictions are why relationships don't work. I'm not going to give anybody else the pussy as long as I'm committed to him, so I just don't see it as a big deal.