He's "TOO NICE" - Why Good Girls Like "Bad Boys!

[Idi Amin Dada]

No, I didn't. You are still missing the bottom line. That is still not a man who should be deemed as "too nice."
What is a pushover? Someone define this for me. That always seems like the more accurate description of who these females describe as "too nice."

A push over? If something upsets you, let it be known. No one's saying fly off the handle, but if a bitch stands me up accident or not I'm saying "That's not cool." or w/e depending on the situation. You attracted to them passive aggressive type niggas. I'll let a bitch know off top my time is just as valuable as hers.

 

[MissLeading]

A push over? If something upsets you, let it be known. No one's saying fly off the handle, but if a bitch stands me up accident or not I'm saying "That's not cool." or w/e depending on the situation. You attracted to them passive aggressive type niggas. I'll let a bitch know off top my time is just as valuable as hers.

This is not wrong, but to make it seem as though there are only two types of men out there, "too nice" guys and bad boys is where it becomes a problem. They make it sound like there's no such thing as nice guys who aren't pushovers and because they don't want a doormat, their only other option is to become another man's doormat.. It's dumb logic..

 

[makaveli03]

[video=youtube;Oc3MfEFqyJY]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oc3MfEFqyJY&feature=relmfu[/video]

I'd beat that pussy to shreds

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

i get you, but often times, "niceness" is just a mask for spineless guys. they're pushovers, don't have a backbone, they don't stand up to chicks, let women take advantage of them and use them, and then say oh they did it cuz i was nice. no they did it cuz you let yourself be a doormat. and like fabion said, they're putting on this act because they think it will get them the girl.

i'm married to the nicest guy in the world, but he's not a weakling or spineless by any stretch of the imagination. i really believe women do like kind, respectful men, not doormats tho

A message delivered incorrectly is just as bad as the message being "wrong" itself. I get everything you have said, it just goes back to labeling a particular kind of person that we've both described as being "too nice" when the word "nice" shouldn't be paired with anything that describes a pushover. They are not synonymous and the problem with many females is they do feel they are and so they seek that "bad boy", that "asshole with an edge." A man doesn't have to be a thugged out dickhead to be a strong man with a solid foundation and structure.

A push over? If something upsets you, let it be known. No one's saying fly off the handle, but if a bitch stands me up accident or not I'm saying "That's not cool." or w/e depending on the situation. You attracted to them passive aggressive type niggas. I'll let a bitch know off top my time is just as valuable as hers.

Who are you speaking to? Have you even been reading any of my posts?
All I stated is that every time someone describes their definition of "too nice" it just results in them defining what a pushover is. A spineless pushover with no backbone who is often easily manipulated. I don't know where you're getting the highlighted from. I am certainly not the one. I wouldn't even want a sugar coated existence let alone what you've described. I prefer my tea black, straight up, no sugar or cream added.

 

[American.Loo]

I don't play into the myth of the 'good girl' liking bad guys

What makes a girl good? She makes good grades in school? So F**kin what.

If she's dating a jail bound loser that makes her a dumb girl.

 

[Truerap]

LOL, at all the black chicks who say they don't want a doormat that why you will always be number 2 to white chicks.

You never hear them saying shit like that. If they like a man they won't try to push him over. You know why because THEY LIKE HIM AND THAT'S ALL TO IT.

 

[American.Loo]

alotta black chicks saw their momma being treated like sh**

so treating them nice doesn't equal being a 'real man' to them

 

[MissLeading]

LOL, at all the black chicks who say they don't want a doormat that why you will always be number 2 to white chicks.

You never hear them saying shit like that. If they like a man they won't try to push him over. You know why because THEY LIKE HIM AND THAT'S ALL TO IT.

I'll just post an example:

[video=youtube;j3wSn0oGows]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3wSn0oGows&feature=youtube_gdata_player[/video]

 

[JadaRoss]

to kill two birds with one stone,look at the black community,it's marriage percentage,the single black mothers percentage and see why black women cant catch a break.

they say one thing and condradict their own demise.they give badboys too much damn credit and good guys always end up getting the fucked up part of the deal.no man wants to date,marry or have kids by trash

dont wait until youre ready to stop being a Ho to appreciate me

dont wait until you have all your kids by the no good niggaz and say you dont want anymore kids

 

[Truerap]

And you know this how??? All white women are good women who are nothing but good to their men?

I been with a few and most are real good to there men.

Unlike what the media shows in a black men and black women relationship the black chick will cheat on the man 6 time out of 10.

In the white man and white female the white man will cheat on the partner 8 time out of ten.

These are fact I will never marry a white chick because it would make me look like a coon but dating one is real nice.

Fact is most white chicks love there man and won't cheat on them for anything.

 

[MissLeading]

I been with a few and most are real good to there men.

Unlike what the media shows in a black men and black women relationship the black chick will cheat on the man 6 time out of 10.

In the white man and white female the white man will cheat on the partner 8 time out of ten.

These are fact I will never marry a white chick because it would make me look like a coon but dating one is real nice.

Fact is most white chicks love there man and won't cheat on them for anything.

Lol... That's not a fact honey... That's just what you choose to believe..

Your point of reference is the media.. Lol.. That says enough..

 

[Huruma]

Nobody owes you their attraction and if you have a problem with the kind of women who like "bad boys" or dislike "nice" (however defined) ones, then you lack the same basic values and wouldn't be interested in dating them anyways.

 

[704Hustla]

I don't play into the myth of the 'good girl' liking bad guys

What makes a girl good? She makes good grades in school? So F**kin what.

If she's dating a jail bound loser that makes her a dumb girl.

truth...too many chick with good grades in high school still managed to let themselves get knocked up

 

[Truerap]

Lol... That's not a fact honey... That's just what you choose to believe..

Your point of reference is the media.. Lol.. That says enough..

You post a video of two hoes they are just hoes.

Post a video of a regular white girl and you will see what i mean. And what did you type in white girls and pushovers on youtube to find that that's sad.



Missleading you use to be real nice.

 

[704Hustla]

Why be bewildered? - there's organizations et al out there that help them folks to realize it's NOT their fault. FYI Uncle Sugar is one of the biggest entities that perpetuates that mindset. I'm really curious about this? Y is it that black women can continue to DO the same things over and over again each and every generation and the cycle just never ends....just keep on keeping on having all them babies YOU CAN'T or will never take care of?

government assistance and income tax?

 

[MissLeading]

You post a video of two hoes they are just hoes.

Post a video of a regular white girl and you will see what i mean. And what did you type in white girls and pushovers on youtube to find that that's sad.

Missleading you use to be real nice.

How are they hoes?

No I had that video from another thread made on this same subject and another poster with your mindset acting like it's just black women who think like this.. The phrase "why good girls like bad boys" wasn't introduced becuase of black womens love for thugs. It's universal. You can find many women of all races who like bad boys and that includes white women..

I'm still nice. Lol.. Maybe you should try being nice and realistic.

 

[Truerap]

How are they hoes?

No I had that video from another thread made on this same subject and another poster with your mindset acting like it's just black women who think like this.. The phrase "why good girls like bad boys" wasn't introduced becuase of black womens love for thugs. It's universal. You can find many women of all races who like bad boys and that includes white women..

I'm still nice. Lol.. Maybe you should try being nice and realistic.

They are hoes look when i say a black chick or any chick of any race and she a hoes she has no Color in my eyes.

She is in her own race call the the hoe race. She just a hoe that's it nothing more.

 

[texas409]

"He's too nice" only applies to young (young minded) females.

After those same females have been beaten, disrespected, stuck on section 8, stuck in the ghetto with 3-4 kids, 3 baby daddy's, little education, still riding public transportation, they WISH that they had got with that "he's too nice" guy.

What puzzles me is the cycle that black females go through, generation after generation!.. it's like they're competing to be the "Dumbest" female on the block!

Damn dro you just shut this thread down!

 

[Westie]

LOL, at all the black chicks who say they don't want a doormat that why you will always be number 2 to white chicks.

You never hear them saying shit like that. If they like a man they won't try to push him over. You know why because THEY LIKE HIM AND THAT'S ALL TO IT.

You must not know any white women. This is the dumbest shit I've read all day and that's saying A LOT.

 

[DRO]

Damn dro you just shut this thread down!

Thanks...ya know I try to drop knowledge er once in a while