"he's like a gay best friend"

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damn son. u shoulda put her on blast the moment she turned her phone over

i dont condone looking through bitches phones.
plus she been accusing you of cheating on her for a while..? man that nigga been in her guts already...sending her home with cum stains n shit back to you

dont fall for it breh. get rid of that hoe
 
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King Erauno;3978627 said:
damn son. u shoulda put her on blast the moment she turned her phone over

Right? I know I would have.

It's possible he's just a friend. It's also possible that they're fucking, but a platonic friendship is a possibility.

Don't be too quick to jump to a reaction..take some time to assess the situation and work out a game plan if necessary.
 
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sniperk;3976576 said:
Back in the day, I've been in the position of the so-called 'friend' to girls before.

Not proud of it but girl would get in a fight with her man and, after crying on my shoulder, next thing you know she would be bouncing off my dick getting out all of her relationship frustrations. She would feel guilty afterwards but knew I wouldn't say shit because I had a girl too.

Eventually I grew up and realized living "foul" like that was going to backfire on me...

Listen to this nigga cos he's given you 1st hand insight to the so-called "friend"

King Drew;3977507 said:
Get the fuck off the illcommunity drake

lol that's the first thing I thought of when he said he went thru the fone.... I bet when O/P went thru the texts, he screamed in his head "LORD KNOWS!!!!"

Disciplined InSight;3976323 said:
You share that girl.

Flaboy954;3976623 said:
If you had to find out about this dude yourself without her telling you about him...............

Don't kiss her homie

Basically.....I mean how she goin tell you he's like a gay best friend but ain't gay? C'mon son!
When it's one of her girl "friends" calling, does she pick up when you're there? Do you know her girl "friends" names?

If that's the case, how comes you don't know anything about this dude (and wouldn't know if you didn't get ya Drake on) till now? That whole gay thing is basically her saying he's like one of girls who just happens to be male, except you know better (I hope).

Also the accusations of you cheating is just her "get outta jail free" card to rationalise her trifling behavior for when you catch her on more than some couple of texts.

Way I see it you got two options; cut her loose or call up "Cheaters" and let a nigga know when your show gonna be aired.
 
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Let's assess the facts here.

1.) He is"like" a gay best friend, but HE IS NOT GAY. ( female code for "He got next" or "He got now" )

2.) They communicate often via text/calling.

3.) They hang out together on some 1 on 1 shit.

4.) She never told you about dude, yet *Biz Markie voice* "she say he just a friend".

5.) Not only did she not answer the phone in your presence when he called, but she also turned the phone upside down so that you couldn't see who was calling. Not answering the phone isn't that big of a deal, but trying to conceal the identity of the caller should be a definite red flag.

6.) She's always accusing you of cheating which either means a) she is very insecure b) you have cheated before and she thinks you may be still cheating ( potential insentive for her to cheat ) c) she is cheating and redirecting her guilt at you d) you may not be cheating but give off that flirty, cheater vibe which may also be her excuse/insentive to cheat

I would definitely be putting her on blast until I got the truth. The whole situation sounds hella suspect. My instinct is telling me that "you share that girl homie".
 
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you're acting like a child, for not making a grown up decision once you confirmed your suspicion after looking thru her phone

Should've just took her home and remained silent, and then removed her from your life completely

You all are not married and have no kids together so no further contact between you two is no longer needed

Cuz its obvious you don't agree with her male interaction, so save urself from future stress and heartache
 
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how does that logic make sense when there are dude complaining about the friend zone? I believe her when she says she aint attracted
 
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kataklysm;3978721 said:
Right? I know I would have.

It's possible he's just a friend. It's also possible that they're fucking, but a platonic friendship is a possibility.

Don't be too quick to jump to a reaction..take some time to assess the situation and work out a game plan if necessary.

SMH @ this blatant hypocrisy

if the situation was reversed, kat would immediately say the dude is cheating :(

anyways t/s what did yo father say about this situation when you asked him about it?

seems the IC is giving away too much fatherly advice away for free....................we need to make these deadbeat ass niggaz out here do their own work LOL
 
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T/s probably at the crib reading these responses and it's slowly sinking in. He thinking back on the times his girl said she had to work late....the times she said she was going to hang out w/ some friends....the time she came home w/ that white substance on her lip and she convinced him that it was just a milk mustache. smdh @ shorty catching an unsuspecting hadouken courtesy of the IC.
 
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nex gin;3980842 said:
T/s probably at the crib reading these responses and it's slowly sinking in. He thinking back on the times his girl said she had to work late....the times she said she was going to hang out w/ some friends....the time she came home w/ that white substance on her lip and she convinced him that it was just a milk mustache. smdh @ shorty catching an unsuspecting hadouken courtesy of the IC.

LMAO @ this shit soaking in and warming his soul slowly

t/s go head and shake it off lil nigga..............start the new year off right haha
 
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blakfyahking;3980865 said:
LMAO @ this shit soaking in and warming his soul slowly

t/s go head and shake it off lil nigga..............start the new year off right haha

warm? nigga soul just caught ablaze after reading that shit.
 
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i been talkin about wit her. apparently my flirting really hurt her. im at the point now where i give her the benifit of the doubt but dont really trust her so if some shit ever do come to light i wont b all the way suprised. we been together almost 4 years so i kno she'll slip up again. i aint with living and worrying about the next nigga so she'll see she not my biggest priority for nex year. its a stupid game to play really but i aint gon let myself get caught up. basically i'll do her like she did me and make her delete all her male friends out her life and if she dont want to i'll leave. funny shit is she think im so caught up over this guy that she dont kno i saw her txt about liking some other nigga at her job lol. thats a card i wont let her see. always 2 steps ahead. funny shit is we in my bed and this nigga text her like wat u doin tonight. i ask her if he kno she aint workin tonight she gon tell me idk. LMAO i jus go back to mw3 and told her to handle hers. im not even beat. i jus got a new job and them spanish receptionists bad as hell so EFF IT
 
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