Happy wife , Happy life... seriously? who the fukk made this up?

[deadeye]

making her mad because she said some shit aint productive in my book

what if she then said something else because she was joking an i got serious...then i would have to do the same in return...naw...ill pass on that an just handle the current situation

That's exactly what I'm saying though.

You don't realize it, but you actually agree with the happy wife/life theory because you didn't do something that you knew would make her upset.

 

[Da Roc]

If you just casually dating a girl, and you're living one day at a time w/o any worries, then yea, I can see why dudes wouldn't break their backs to keep their ladies happy. That's doing way too much for a girl that may not end up with you anyway. But when you for real and you got someone you intend on spending the rest of your life with.......then yea, that theory definitely applies.

Like other people already said, its really no different than you and her pleasing each other. I think you just tripping at the way she worded that shit. That real unconditional love in relationships people that people wanna hold onto.......that means putting the other person first before you and making them happy. And it does work BOTH ways, ladies btw. But fellas, if you ain't keeping up your end of the bargain, your woman ain't gonna be too motivated to do the same either. And if it feels like shit's always unbalanced, and you tired of it, time to chuck up the deuces and keep it moving.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

making her mad because she said some shit aint productive in my book

what if she then said something else because she was joking an i got serious...then i would have to do the same in return...naw...ill pass on that an just handle the current situation

That's exactly what I'm saying though.

You don't realize it, but you actually agree with the happy wife/life theory because you didn't do something that you knew would make her upset.

that has nothing to do with making her happy or mad.....thats tit for tat.

what would it prove?

i handled what was said and thats where it should stop. im trying to settle a matter not be vindictive like a lil girl

 

[Mr.Bocario]

Basically in only applies commited relationships, since thats where your only pussey supply comes from, If she's not happy no sex for you.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

Basically in only applies commited relationships, since thats where your only pussey supply comes from, If she's not happy no sex for you.

so now we gotta buy pussy? we gotta act right to get it?

i know a couple who says they have sex no matter what because you getting mad at the fact i forgot to pick up the chicken has nothing to do with sex. i am sure you know plenty of people who fukk mad.

yall need to stop making it just about the woman or whats the point in being in the relationship. i thought love is to be shared.

so your her only dikk supply, does that mean anything to you?

you putting her on a pedestal without requiring yourself to be up there too

cmon man

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

Basically in only applies commited relationships, since thats where your only pussey supply comes from, If she's not happy no sex for you.

so now we gotta buy pussy? we gotta act right to get it?

i know a couple who says they have sex no matter what because you getting mad at the fact i forgot to pick up the chicken has nothing to do with sex. i am sure you know plenty of people who fukk mad.

yall need to stop making it just about the woman or whats the point in being in the relationship. i thought love is to be shared.

so your her only dikk supply, does that mean anything to you?

you putting her on a pedestal without requiring yourself to be up there too

cmon man

Oh nigga don't get it twisted, I've cut my chick off for a few days also, she don't hold the upper hand in sex LOL

 

[Da Roc]

Basically in only applies commited relationships, since thats where your only pussey supply comes from, If she's not happy no sex for you.

so now we gotta buy pussy? we gotta act right to get it?

i know a couple who says they have sex no matter what because you getting mad at the fact i forgot to pick up the chicken has nothing to do with sex. i am sure you know plenty of people who fukk mad.

yall need to stop making it just about the woman or whats the point in being in the relationship. i thought love is to be shared.

so your her only dikk supply, does that mean anything to you?

you putting her on a pedestal without requiring yourself to be up there too

cmon man

Same thing. You supposed to treat your lady like she a queen just as she's supposed to treat you as king. "Happy wife, happy life" rubs people the wrong way cause of the way it sounds, but its the same thing as just satisfying your girl as she satisfies you. If not, time to find someone new. At the same time tho, somebody's always gonna be more satisfied in the relationship than the other, no matter what. As men, we don't have too many expectations or gonna complain about much. Women on the other hand............you get me. Women overall are more relationship oriented than us anyway. If they ain't happy, you ain't gonna be happy neither. Ain't nobody saying you gotta be a slave and only take breadcrumbs in return.

 

[wmj710]

I don't know what is but when the wifey mad or unhappy You can feel it in the house

 

[Mr.Audigier216]

I don't know what is but when the wifey mad or unhappy You can feel it in the house

Had to c/s this...nigga i can be half sleep n feel when my girl had a bad nights sleep lol

 

[sweetheart93]

i agree....but is the woman or wife the only person that can create a home without peace?

so when your upset or angry your lady just walks by you like she doesnt even realize or acknowledge your having a bad day?

The only reason why the saying uses wife is because nothing rhymes with husband. lol

It goes both ways.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I don't know what is but when the wifey mad or unhappy You can feel it in the house

Had to c/s this...nigga i can be half sleep n feel when my girl had a bad nights sleep lol

honestly ....if my wife cant sleep or having a bad night she will get outta the bed an go into another room to watch tv.

why wake me up....why keep tossing an turning to wake me up cuz you cant sleep....and i will do the same if i cant sleep

there is a level of respect there..

now if its important an she wants to talk then thats different

 

[Dupac]

i agree....but is the woman or wife the only person that can create a home without peace?

so when your upset or angry your lady just walks by you like she doesnt even realize or acknowledge your having a bad day?

The only reason why the saying uses wife is because nothing rhymes with husband. lol

It goes both ways.

lmao...cosign this too

 

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[The Prodigalson]

I don't know what is but when the wifey mad or unhappy You can feel it in the house

Had to c/s this...nigga i can be half sleep n feel when my girl had a bad nights sleep lol

honestly ....if my wife cant sleep or having a bad night she will get outta the bed an go into another room to watch tv.

why wake me up....why keep tossing an turning to wake me up cuz you cant sleep....and i will do the same if i cant sleep

there is a level of respect there..

now if its important an she wants to talk then thats different

You don't ask if there is a problem? She has to tell you?

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I don't know what is but when the wifey mad or unhappy You can feel it in the house

Had to c/s this...nigga i can be half sleep n feel when my girl had a bad nights sleep lol

honestly ....if my wife cant sleep or having a bad night she will get outta the bed an go into another room to watch tv.

why wake me up....why keep tossing an turning to wake me up cuz you cant sleep....and i will do the same if i cant sleep

there is a level of respect there..

now if its important an she wants to talk then thats different

You don't ask if there is a problem? She has to tell you?

if im sleep i dont know she got up.....now in the morning if i see shes not in the bed ...yea i will ask if everything cool...see thing is she knows i dont get alot of sleep so when i do sleep she doesnt want to bother me unless its really important to her...she wont wake me over a stomach ache or headache or insomnia... i dont see the problem she respects that i need rest and she knows what is important enough to wake me...

shes just not clingy and in need of alot of attention

 

[death187sin]

LOL this whole thread/

 

[DreadsRIGHT]

Its not a joke that shit is real and it goes both ways.

If you with someone and that person is unhappy you will be unhappy too if you continue the relationship.

Better keep her/him (nh) happy.

 

[HarlemThumzUp]

Put it like this if she ain't happy homie u have been brushing your teeth wit the same toothbrush she scrub the toilet with.

 

[Louis Cipher]

Fellas.. Honestly... Its like the Holy Trinity.. Just accept it as fact and move on.. You will going crazy trying to figure this one out..

When a woman is unhappy everyone around her will feel it.. Conversely when she is happy everyone around her will feel it.. When a woman is in a relationship the person with the most effect on her happiness is her significant other.. If you make her happy she will turn around and make you happy.. Its pretty simple... Not to mention women are very emotional beings... If they are unhappy doubt can creep in and thats when another person can influence some of their decisions.. Hence making your life a living hell... But dont take my word for it.. Be my guest and find out for yourself..

well said...and the truth...

but young cats wont understand this....or care...they'll learn tho