Grown ass siblings still acting like kids....what do YOU do?

[hawk d]

Why u snitching on family to people u don't know?

It aint snitching y'all don't know this nigga name or what he look like. You just know Hawk D got a bummy ass brother

 

[CP203]

not sibling but my cousin I'm going through this now with him, bad enough i moved to another state and i let him stay at my house in ct for free and left a car for him to get around and this nigga still had the nerve to ask for my disability and army retirement so he can get right, but he got 2 more weeks till i get back and tell him he gotta go 3months and you ain't right yet I'm str8

He is probably smashing your open wife. It's all good though. Not that you would mind.

Some people that don't have a trade or an education are the hardest to deal with. Their employment is harder track or fill. Not easy helping people that look like they won't be able to get on their feet for a long time.

wife lives with me in texas so yea, and shit i didn't even want him to stay there but my mom guilt tripped with that family bullshit, but yea I'm back on my fuck family shit he gotta go

 

[hawk d]

These replies just confirming my initial thoughts of letting that nigga rot back at home....I aint nobody's daddy hell I should be the one bumming off his 30 year old ass

 

[jetlifebih]

Don't be the nigga outside lookin in when your bro bubble up and Fuck around and come into some money all cause you didn't want to help out, I ain't saying take care of the nigga but fam is all you got, im sure when you was young he looked out when you didnt even know

 

[zombie]

Why don't your parents force him to go to school so that he can get a job. And take care of himself

This nigga bout to be 30 bruh school days are over for him, and he and my dad don't really communicate, and we dont have the same mom.

the days of learning and education are never over he could be 32 or 23 it makes no difference had your father taught him that your family would not be having this problem now.

 

[zombie]

i would never hang one of my brothers out to dry i don't care how much of a fuck up he is i would make sure he makes something of himself i don't care how old he is or how hard it is his well being is an investment in family and those kind of investments usually have the greatest payoff

 

[VIBE]

Nothing wrong w all that.

Hater.

 

[hawk d]

Why don't your parents force him to go to school so that he can get a job. And take care of himself

This nigga bout to be 30 bruh school days are over for him, and he and my dad don't really communicate, and we dont have the same mom.

the days of learning and education are never over he could be 32 or 23 it makes no difference had your father taught him that your family would not be having this problem now.

....Man all jokes aside....My father not being in his life is most likely why he's so fucked up smh. My dad was just smashing his moms on the side and she got pregnant. All this happened when he was in a relationship with MY mom so I guess the nigga was embarassed which caused him to never have a relationship with my bro. Shit I didn't even know I had another brother until I was like 12 when my brother's OTHER siblings told me all of this at SCHOOL...I was pissed my Dad would keep that from me

 

[indyman87]

I need some opinions on this shit here. Here's the run down.....I have an older brother who is damn near 30 with NO car and NO job and NO money who was living with his GF for free who is on section 8 housing paying 25 a month for rent. Now he got a lil bread from income tax this year, but instead of saving that shit to buy himself a car he gets HER car fixed and spends all his tax money on "bills" while she lives like queen nefertiti and pays for nothing apparently. Now this was just in April when he told me he was saving his bread for a car and now he claims the money is all gone. Im like nigga how the FUCK you spend over a stack on "bills" when A. Your cell phone is never on so I know you didnt buy phone service...B. Nigga you on section 8! how the fuck do bills for ONE month equal over a thousand dollars living on section 8 in a small ass town of 90,000 people? They dont even have internet and basic cable is like 35 a month. Like c'mon son this shit aint adding up. Now to make things worse the girl he's living with is putting him out of her house, after all the things he's done for her like getting her car fixed like a dumbass, because her MAMA is moving from here in Houston to East Texas and is going to stay with her lol so basically her mama Debo'd this nigga out of a house that HE been paying bills in. Anyways here is where I need advice. This nigga hits me up the other day talking about COME GET ME I GOT NOWHERE TO STAY....This nigga want me to drive all the way to East TX from Houston which is 5 hours to pick him up so he can stay in Houston with me, but this nigga got NO car and NO money. I want him to come, but I can't be taking care of a grown ass man IDGAF if he's my brother or not he's bout to be 30 and I'm only 26. He talkin bout he dont mind struggling, but im thinking how this nigga gon eat with no money? Cause I'm not buying food or cooking for this nigga and he damn sho aint gon be eating up MY shit. How he gon search for a job with no car? Cause my whip takes premium gas only so I damn sho aint gon be buying extra gas driving around this big ass city taxi cabbing this nigga around to his preferred destinations. How can he catch the bus with no money?because I'm not paying for bus fare either lol. I just graduated college recently so I have my own life to take care of hell. I'm not financially stable so a nigga with no money or car would be a burden on me because I know that everything would lead back to me babysitting this big overgrown baby Hughey ass nigga.....Y'all think I'm wrong for feeling this way? Cause I'm bout to tell this nigga HELL NAW you gotta stay yo ass back home until you get some money or car

Pick him up and then drop him off at Skid Row in Los Angeles. When I was there around 2007 you could rent a room for about $17.00 a week. # 2 apply for welfare get on food stamps. # 3 apply for a housing/job/ and savings program you can easily save $5-$10 Gs in a couple of years. # 4 Get a bus pass. los Angeles has one of the best public transportation in the Country. As I said before even if he just lounge around a don't get a job he can easily save atleast $5 Gs in a couple of years time if he enrolls in a jobs program.

 

[hawk d]

i would never hang one of my brothers out to dry i don't care how much of a fuck up he is i would make sure he makes something of himself i don't care how old he is or how hard it is his well being is an investment in family and those kind of investments usually have the greatest payoff

This nigga aint out to dry he got fam back home that he can stay with. He's staying with his sister now. If he was living on the street thats a different story. He has NO BODY here in Houston to fall back on but ME. Atleast back home in that small ass city he can go to his granny's house or another relative to eat or borrow money he wont have any security net to fall on if he moves with zero dollars in his pocket. The biggest thing is he doesn't have a car...You can't get your hustle on in Houston with no whip

 

[hawk d]

I need some opinions on this shit here. Here's the run down.....I have an older brother who is damn near 30 with NO car and NO job and NO money who was living with his GF for free who is on section 8 housing paying 25 a month for rent. Now he got a lil bread from income tax this year, but instead of saving that shit to buy himself a car he gets HER car fixed and spends all his tax money on "bills" while she lives like queen nefertiti and pays for nothing apparently. Now this was just in April when he told me he was saving his bread for a car and now he claims the money is all gone. Im like nigga how the FUCK you spend over a stack on "bills" when A. Your cell phone is never on so I know you didnt buy phone service...B. Nigga you on section 8! how the fuck do bills for ONE month equal over a thousand dollars living on section 8 in a small ass town of 90,000 people? They dont even have internet and basic cable is like 35 a month. Like c'mon son this shit aint adding up. Now to make things worse the girl he's living with is putting him out of her house, after all the things he's done for her like getting her car fixed like a dumbass, because her MAMA is moving from here in Houston to East Texas and is going to stay with her lol so basically her mama Debo'd this nigga out of a house that HE been paying bills in. Anyways here is where I need advice. This nigga hits me up the other day talking about COME GET ME I GOT NOWHERE TO STAY....This nigga want me to drive all the way to East TX from Houston which is 5 hours to pick him up so he can stay in Houston with me, but this nigga got NO car and NO money. I want him to come, but I can't be taking care of a grown ass man IDGAF if he's my brother or not he's bout to be 30 and I'm only 26. He talkin bout he dont mind struggling, but im thinking how this nigga gon eat with no money? Cause I'm not buying food or cooking for this nigga and he damn sho aint gon be eating up MY shit. How he gon search for a job with no car? Cause my whip takes premium gas only so I damn sho aint gon be buying extra gas driving around this big ass city taxi cabbing this nigga around to his preferred destinations. How can he catch the bus with no money?because I'm not paying for bus fare either lol. I just graduated college recently so I have my own life to take care of hell. I'm not financially stable so a nigga with no money or car would be a burden on me because I know that everything would lead back to me babysitting this big overgrown baby Hughey ass nigga.....Y'all think I'm wrong for feeling this way? Cause I'm bout to tell this nigga HELL NAW you gotta stay yo ass back home until you get some money or car

Pick him up and then drop him off at Skid Row in Los Angeles. When I was there around 2007 you could rent a room for about $17.00 a week. # 2 apply for welfare get on food stamps. # 3 apply for a housing/job/ and savings program you can easily save $5-$10 Gs in a couple of years. # 4 Get a bus pass. los Angeles has one of the best public transportation in the Country. As I said before even if he just lounge around a don't get a job he can easily save atleast $5 Gs in a couple of years time if he enrolls in a jobs program.

LoL I dont even think he has the 17.00 to get that room bruh...It will take this nigga like 20 years to save 5Gs man y'all just dont know.....this guy is real life "Cant get right" when it comes to money

 

[shit happens]

do section 8 shawty got dat ass?

if so post her pics

 

[hawk d]

do section 8 shawty got dat ass?

if so post her pics

LoL I aint posting shit cause you niggas would google image search her and find her on FB and somehow all this would get back to my bro lol....but nah bruh just imagine shrek busting nuts in La Chat from 3-6 Mafia and you would get her...she got gold teeth and ratchet ass tatts smh

 

[WinterHeat]

You let that nigga in and he won't leave. I'd have to love him from a distance no homo.

 

[deadeye]

Why don't your parents force him to go to school so that he can get a job. And take care of himself

This nigga bout to be 30 bruh school days are over for him, and he and my dad don't really communicate, and we dont have the same mom.

Niggas a half-brother?????

How did he become your responsibility to begin with?

lol

Your pops probably made sure y'all knew each other so that he wouldn't have to deal with your brother himself.

That's not your brother, that's your burden.

 

[texas409]

sounds like something with my brother. if yall remember i made a thread a few years back about him getting a settlement of almost 300k while i was a broke struggling college student and that nigga never once helped me out or showed me any love when he got broke off which he wasnt entitled too but the way he did it was foul....well he.blew that in 8 months now hes 36 living with my granny no job cant afford to get his car out the shop and asked me to pay his cell phone bill yesterday. I always knew karma would come back on him but like a real man and a God fearing man ive been blessed 10xs over so i paid his bill and didnt even trip. But thats the last thing ill ever pay for next time he asks imma hit him with a no quick

 

[deadeye]

i would never hang one of my brothers out to dry i don't care how much of a fuck up he is i would make sure he makes something of himself i don't care how old he is or how hard it is his well being is an investment in family and those kind of investments usually have the greatest payoff

This nigga aint out to dry he got fam back home that he can stay with. He's staying with his sister now. If he was living on the street thats a different story. He has NO BODY here in Houston to fall back on but ME. Atleast back home in that small ass city he can go to his granny's house or another relative

If he's staying with his sister and has family back home now, then why does he wanna move to Houston?

 

[SneakDZA]

can you throw in a few line breaks, please?

 

[hawk d]

sounds like something with my brother. if yall remember i made a thread a few years back about him getting a settlement of almost 300k while i was a broke struggling college student and that nigga never once helped me out or showed me any love when he got broke off which he wasnt entitled too but the way he did it was foul....well he.blew that in 8 months now hes 36 living with my granny no job cant afford to get his car out the shop and asked me to pay his cell phone bill yesterday. I always knew karma would come back on him but like a real man and a God fearing man ive been blessed 10xs over so i paid his bill and didnt even trip. But thats the last thing ill ever pay for next time he asks imma hit him with a no quick

Damn 300k in 8months wtf he do? have a tyrone biggums crack party?

 

[hawk d]

i would never hang one of my brothers out to dry i don't care how much of a fuck up he is i would make sure he makes something of himself i don't care how old he is or how hard it is his well being is an investment in family and those kind of investments usually have the greatest payoff

This nigga aint out to dry he got fam back home that he can stay with. He's staying with his sister now. If he was living on the street thats a different story. He has NO BODY here in Houston to fall back on but ME. Atleast back home in that small ass city he can go to his granny's house or another relative

If he's staying with his sister and has family back home now, then why does he wanna move to Houston?

His sister has two bad ass kids and I mean extra bad....But, latest news is he and his ugly ass girlfriend are not breaking up so I guess he's gonna simp harder now. Im glad because I dont have to tell him no