Grown ass siblings still acting like kids....what do YOU do?

[JusDre313]

dont know if u trolling or not... but no way in hell im driving 5 hours to "rescue"my bum ass brother.. if anything this nigga trying to move in,.... he got to make his way TO ME... fuck that ...

 

[Billy_Poncho]

Bruh we got this new thing called an "Enter" key, you should try using it sometime

 

[OhMars]

For one your beginning of your story is a little contradictory, you said he lives there for free, but your mad at him for actually helping out when he gets a little money. Seems like the least he can do, and sorry to tell you but moms have priority of bum ass dudes.

Sounds like he's an aint shit nigga, but he's your bother so of the strength of that I'd give him 2 weeks to stay with me and get his shit together. After that, Fuck em

 

[JusDre313]

and naw you not wrong for that... aint nothing in life that's free and any adult whose ever worked and earned a hard days pay know that shit.. my 7 year old is the only person that can stay at my crib without having an income.. and the clock ticking on his ass too

 

[LPast]

Pick him up. Bring him in and explain how things are going to be done at your place.

 

[hawk d]

For one your beginning of your story is a little contradictory, you said he lives there for free, but your mad at him for actually helping out when he gets a little money. Seems like the least he can do, and sorry to tell you but moms have priority of bum ass dudes.

Sounds like he's an aint shit nigga, but he's your bother so of the strength of that I'd give him 2 weeks to stay with me and get his shit together. After that, Fuck em

Yeah I see what you mean, but I meant he not paying the 25 on rent my bad

 

[Vader_F_Kennedy]

didn't read.... but came to say tough love....my bro bout to be homeless in a month and no fucks given by me ..the nigga cant manage money and im tired of bailing him out

 

[hawk d]

dont know if u trolling or not... but no way in hell im driving 5 hours to "rescue"my bum ass brother.. if anything this nigga trying to move in,.... he got to make his way TO ME... fuck that ...

LMAO thats funny as hell, naw im not trolling at all bro this nigga life is just FUCKED

 

[hawk d]

Bruh we got this new thing called an "Enter" key, you should try using it sometime

Nigga I aint writing a college paper I wasn't thinking about that shit but I got u next time

 

[Kat]

Depends on their history.

At some point you gotta stop being the enabler. Sometimes it takes not having anywhere to turn to finally get your shit together.

 

[CP203]

not sibling but my cousin I'm going through this now with him, bad enough i moved to another state and i let him stay at my house in ct for free and left a car for him to get around and this nigga still had the nerve to ask for my disability and army retirement so he can get right, but he got 2 more weeks till i get back and tell him he gotta go 3months and you ain't right yet I'm str8

 

[twatgetta]

T/S askin' IC niggas for advice? You must want things to go from bad to worse.

 

[hawk d]

Also, I should've added that this is not his first time in this predicament. He got put out by some chick a few years ago and had to go stay with his other brother. He hasn't had his OWN place in about 9 years....so this is a recurring thing.

 

[zombie]

Why don't your parents force him to go to school so that he can get a job. And take care of himself

 

[hawk d]

Why don't your parents force him to go to school so that he can get a job. And take care of himself

This nigga bout to be 30 bruh school days are over for him, and he and my dad don't really communicate, and we dont have the same mom.

 

[Shizlansky]

Who is this new nigga?

 

[optimistic]

go pick him up, bring him home and drop his ass off at the nearest farthest shelter so he can get his shit together

 

[LPast]

not sibling but my cousin I'm going through this now with him, bad enough i moved to another state and i let him stay at my house in ct for free and left a car for him to get around and this nigga still had the nerve to ask for my disability and army retirement so he can get right, but he got 2 more weeks till i get back and tell him he gotta go 3months and you ain't right yet I'm str8

He is probably smashing your open wife. It's all good though. Not that you would mind.

Some people that don't have a trade or an education are the hardest to deal with. Their employment is harder track or fill. Not easy helping people that look like they won't be able to get on their feet for a long time.

 

[hawk d]

Im not new NIGGA, I been on here since like 08 or somethin I just barely post

 

[Busta Carmichael]

Why u snitching on family to people u don't know?