Greedy a@@ baby mothers!

[DrMindbender122]

Oh, and DO NOT give her no more money in the account or cash! Money orders/checks ONLY WITH the notation of "child support/care" however you chose to word it. That way if she starts a case you have a chance of not getting hit with arrears and if you do, you have proof that your taking care of your child.

............this. U gotta do it exactly like this; NEVER in cash, either. Otherwise, you're gonna get raped in court.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

the bolded is a fair point. but honestly it would depend on the mother herself. if he can provide a better environment (which we don't know, all we have is his side of the story), than the one she's currently in, it may be better for the overall welfare of the child for him to be granted custody.

Why are we even jumping the gun and assuming what may or may not be the case?
Of course there is a possibility, but we cannot possibly get that information from the little T/S has said.
Unreasonable? Yes. Ungrateful? Yes yes. Unfit parent? That cannot be determined.

 

[gorilla]

And he could ensure that just the same with joint custody. He is providing for the child, not the mothers luxurious lifestyle or what have you which is where documentation would come in handy.
I don't see the benefit for the child if daddy takes baby away from mommy like this is a game. Smh.

Just because the system doesn't necessarily take into consideration the feelings of the CHILD, doesn't mean you have to follow suit.

Agreed. Especially the last sentence!

However, given that her reasoning was "all my friends took their baby daddies to court and they get more", that should give a little insight her overall thinking. That statement has nothing to do with the child's best interest, but everything to with her's. That in itself doesn't make her an unfit parent, but could be a tell tale sign to the bigger picture.

 

[Conscious__Nkechi]

Agreed. Especially the last sentence!

However, given that her reasoning was "all my friends took their baby daddies to court and they get more", that should give a little insight her overall thinking. That statement has nothing to do with the child's best interest, but everything to with her's. That in itself doesn't make her an unfit parent, but could be a tell tale sign to the bigger picture.

I agree. The way the T/S has portrayed her and that comment alone in regards to her "friends" screams many things, one being juvenile.
She is worried about the next woman' business and she feels her choice to live a certain life is of her child's fathers concern. Lack of sense is like a disease and it seems to be spreading more rapidly than ever.

 

[gorilla]

Oh and get your parenting time SPECIFIED, spelled out to the T, in a court order....none of that "reasonable" time bs....literally have this week/that week this holiday/that holiday. If she even had the nerve to let her friends put that in her head you better beat her to the punch and get that court work goin.

 

[ptnutz]

Okay so me and my baby's mom been separated for some time now. Without going through the system I faithfully put $400.00 in her bank account every 2 weeks. Yesterday she called me and was like this money aint enough because her rent is high and her car notes.. yada yada.. She said all her friends took they baby dads to court and they getting more then that.. Basically now she throwing the court shit in my face.. Do yall think that court would grant her more then what I'm giving her?

This money should be for my daughter, not to pay ya rent and car notes and other expenses.

I'll tell you what I told a few of my friends. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. Keep track of EVERYTHING you buy your daughter, to the penny. I know it sounds fucked up and breaks what should be a relationship of pure love down to dollars and cents, but the courts only care about dollars and cents. Just make sure you do what's right by your daughter first and protect yourself second.

 

[thehonorable]

Man... Oreo chicks is winnin out chea...

They dont get preggers before 27/28. Becuase they don't work at the mall.

 

[gucci7383]

Okay so me and my baby's mom been separated for some time now. Without going through the system I faithfully put $400.00 in her bank account every 2 weeks. Yesterday she called me and was like this money aint enough because her rent is high and her car notes.. yada yada.. She said all her friends took they baby dads to court and they getting more then that.. Basically now she throwing the court shit in my face.. Do yall think that court would grant her more then what I'm giving her?

This money should be for my daughter, not to pay ya rent and car notes and other expenses.

trust me bruh you giving her 800 dollars a month..if you go to court you might not even have to pay half of that.. i got a friend that works at my job making 24$ an hour and only has to pay 75$ a wk to his b.m

 

[Sh0t]

I have a bad feeling for the OP. Without documentation, she might get shady and sue for back child support and whatever else she can get.

Good luck on it

 

[CJ]

Baby momma & kid free ftw

 

[BauceLadii]

She is full of shit! Unless u make a grip a month she isn't gonna get more than what you're giving her. Go ahead and let her fuck herself and take you to court.

 

[SoutCity]

This is just payback for punching the bitch in the eye!! Next keep you hands to yourself or eat the pussy out like jody did in baby boy

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

Yo!! Take her to court on some 50 Cent shit! OR Let her take u to court. U wont be paying no damn 800 a month, i'll tell ya that much. She MIGHT get 200 every 2 weeks if she's extremely lucky

 

[The BAPHOMET]

keep your documentation of your bank deposits and proof that she has acess to it, document everytime she brings up court, also keep a log of the time you spend with your child, shits sad but you gotta be prepared............look at your income, cuz my guy making 65k a year and the courts got him paying $750 a month

 

[Mdizzle9000]

lol@niggas trynna sound large sayin 200 a week aint enough thats more than enough for a baby, give that bitch less if you can lol.

but forreal though the full custody is sounding like the best option.

 

[DatNiggaB1]

$800 month = roughly £650 Uk money............Nah man..........I got 3 kids and I don't pay more that £300/$450 and my eldest is 14.

You need to get it where if ya kids need something, then you get it and just contribute money towards food and utility bills.

Babymamas will be going to the club wid ya money if ya don't keep it in check. Been through that before.

WOATEST is having her on the phone beggin for money and then catching her out later on that night.

 

[junegemini]

$800/mo is more than enough for one child...sheit, when my momma got child support for me she was only getting $300 every month...your baby momma winning for real

 

[MsSouthern]

you should put yourself of child support

that way there is no confusion on what and when you should pay. You can still give your child $800 per month thru the courts by doing an agreed order or just get the standard 20% of your bring home income and pay/buy extra stuff outside of the order. Just don't bind yourself to too high of a payment above the court ordered amount that way if your situation changes you aren't obligated to pay so much.

My son's father pays $750 per month... we have no issues cause he knows that his child is well taken care of.

 

[American.Loo]

you should put yourself of child support

that way there is no confusion on what and when you should pay. You can still give your child $800 per month thru the courts by doing an agreed order or just get the standard 20% of your bring home income and pay/buy extra stuff outside of the order. Just don't bind yourself to too high of a payment above the court ordered amount that way if your situation changes you aren't obligated to pay so much.

My son's father pays $750 per month... we have no issues cause he knows that his child is well taken care of.

750 a month damn

southern its time to change that sig ma..be considerate of the hedero males who aint tryna see that

 

[MsSouthern]

I like my sig

But I'll tell you like I've told everyone else who hates it.... give me something better to put in it and I might change it