Gotta learn to live with REGRETS..

[AZTG]

Not saying this to sound a certain way, but I dont feel regret, never really did.

I usually don't feel any negative emotion.

I probably got some things wrong with me but I never went to a therapist so I wouldn't know.

I did do a lot of dumb shit that I should regret. There is also a lot of things that I wish I did. But regret? Nothing.

 

[Kat]

Not saying this to sound a certain way, but I dont feel regret, never really did.

I usually don't feel any negative emotion.

I probably got some things wrong with me but I never went to a therapist so I wouldn't know.

I did do a lot of dumb shit that I should regret. There is also a lot of things that I wish I did. But regret? Nothing.

Don't go to therapy. It can be a bit much and have you on a inner journey you can't stop for a while.

So that's reason not to go? Maybe an "inner journey" is what's needed.

 

[King Erauno]

did a few good girls wrong now im stuck with these thots

 

[Kat]

That's one way to look at it and it may be the case for you, but some people need to make sense of their thoughts and life experiences, they need to bounce them off someone, and a professional at that..maybe not forever, but until they can make sense of things independently.

I would just be wary of the psychs that are quick to wanna push a pill down your throat.

 

[Desi_416]

I've got a lot of regrets, I've made a bunch of bad decisions and done some real bad shit that fucks with me every now and then, but I've learned that the best way to live with regrets is to use every regret as a lesson, learn from it and make sure it doesn't repeat. I have "in order to survive you have to learn to live with regrets" tatted on my arm, it's definitely a rule I live by, you can't let your regrets consume you otherwise you ain't never gonna move forward you gon be stuck with the "should haves" and the "wish I dids"

 

[AZTG]

Not saying this to sound a certain way, but I dont feel regret, never really did.

I usually don't feel any negative emotion.

I probably got some things wrong with me but I never went to a therapist so I wouldn't know.

I did do a lot of dumb shit that I should regret. There is also a lot of things that I wish I did. But regret? Nothing.

Don't go to therapy. It can be a bit much and have you on a inner journey you can't stop for a while.

This is true. I'm good where I'm at. I dont need therapy fucking me up.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

I dont regret any choices I made to get where I am today. They were necessary in my life to out me on the path in on today. If any choices I made hurt another person, I'm sorry for that, but I wouldn't be the man that I am today without going down that path.

 

[deadeye]

Had this bad bitch I met at tha club like 08. (She was black & Asian smh)

@blackamerica .

This young lady wasn't from DC was she?

If so, was her name Amanda?

 

[deadeye]

 

[Inglewood_Fatty]

I regret not taking care of my traffic tickets and skipping my court dates letting the fines pile up. Lost my license for 5 years, went to jail for a warrant and they tried to give me 10 extra days plus 2yrs probation but the prosecutor was some black lady that dropped all the charges because I didn't have any prior convictions on my record. I thank tf outta her kuz my bullshit public defender gave a nigga some bullshit options that would not have benefited me in anyway.

 

[Mr. Insignificant]

Should have humbled myself when I was hoop'n.....couldn't wait my turn.

 

[willywanker]

Not saying this to sound a certain way, but I dont feel regret, never really did.

I usually don't feel any negative emotion.

I probably got some things wrong with I never went to a therapist so I wouldn't know.

I did do a lot of dumb shit that I should regret. There is also a lot of things that I wish I did. But regret? Nothing.

Don't go to therapy. It can be a bit much and have you on a inner journey you can't stop for a while.

So that's reason not to go? Maybe an "inner journey" is what's needed.

That's cool, but it'll have you viewing the world outside in, instead of inside out.

Have you over analyzing things, being anxious for the next appointment. That's usually 2 weeks away. And you'll be in your own head too much till then.

The release of it can become addicting and you'll end up thinking to much of how the world affect you. How every little thing you do affects the world around.

It's really makes you pretty vain. Just the human nature of it. It's cool to look for inner peace. But therapy is to kin of a pusher addict relationship.

And in the end, the irony of it all is to learn to let go and not dwell to much in your own mind. Kinda a mind fuck if you ask me.

Exactly, I was working with a guy I just met this one time it was a charity that helped people and they did counselling there, he seemed like a happy chappy then he told me he would be back in 1 hour after his therapy, he came back looking all teary eyed then looked miserable for the rest of the day, he would have been happier if he gave that shit a miss, I understand it helps some people tho.

 

[Bully_Pulpit]

Going to therapy is paying for some shit that you should be doing yourself for free. Do yourself a favor cut the bullshit and start being real with yourself, that's when the game gets easier. I bet some of y'all had thoughts that popped off in your head when you found out what this thread was about, ask yourself why they came to you and how its effected the moves you make. When you do that the regrets are merely learning experiences that you ignored out of fear. Dig that shit up for a minute.