G&S Folks: HOW MANY TIMES IN YOUR ADULT LIFE, HAVE YOU ACTUALLY BEEN IN LOVE...

[Louis Cipher]

Connex does have a point.

Being in love is a gift & curse. When things are going well, it's a lovely thing. But when things go south, that crap feels terrible.

*presses feelings button on myself*

agree with this also...but as long as you realize that relationships are work...and you care enough about that person to put in effort...then youre ok

trouble comes when you start questioning why you are with them when they make you mad...the beginning of the end

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

@ Louis...and that's why things didn't work out wit me and my ex. She wanna take credit for pushin the relationship forward. But the hefa barely put in the work or effort to make it work. Soon as we had issues, the bitch hauled azzz. Scared to face the problems, and help resolve it...*presses feelings button again*

But I can't front tho, after things finally ended, crap was like a BIG weight lifted off. I felt drained as hell. That's why I've been taking my time, b4 I even consider thinking about being in love like that again.

 

[Mood Indigo]

@CB lol right.

I don't play around with the "L" word.

 

[bignorm]

3x

 

[Dr.Chemix]

It is what it is...when you love someone you will lie to yourself or overlook things

Love is blind faith...no matter who you with...once you commit yourself to the emotion, its a wrap

No learning from past mistakes or bettering yourself can prevent that

Thats just the way it is yo

if that's how you feel

i feel differently tho

overlooking small things is like he leaves the toilet seat up, or doesn't take the trash out. lying to yourself about someone's abusive nature or their philandering is a totally different matter

we can learn from our mistakes in every other aspect of life, why not relationships?

lol women..."if that's how you feel"

you may proceed to have the last word and tell yourself anything

i thought we were having a discussion didn't realize it was an argument and there had to be a right and wrong

anyway, you can be right and have the last word if it's that serious to you

lol whoa, I'm not beefing at all ma

My humor involves many aspects...I just displayed some of the sexist humor in my post

To answer your question, love is an energy that none of us can deny and its empowering effect on our entire being is worth giving it another try, whether we learned from mistakes or not. Love is alot deeper, IMO, than just correcting mistakes. I used to think correcting mistakes create better love...but no...love is beyond my wisdom and travels deeper than I could ever imagine.

 

[Louis Cipher]

@ Louis...and that's why things didn't work out wit me and my ex. She wanna take credit for pushin the relationship forward. But the hefa barely put in the work or effort to make it work. Soon as we had issues, the bitch hauled azzz. Scared to face the problems, and help resolve it...*presses feelings button again*

But I can't front tho, after things finally ended, crap was like a BIG weight lifted off. I felt drained as hell. That's why I've been taking my time, b4 I even consider thinking about being in love like that again.

been there man...after a while you get tired of having to fight about every damned thing...it seems like some people love stress and strife...i dont get it...life doesnt have to be like that...ima laid back...go with the flow kinda person...but i seem to attract people who make things more difficult than they have to be...

 

[CMac]

As of now I gotta say once, I in love with my current girl. Love is a strong thing, no point in loving someone who isn't worth being loved. I can't understand why people keep throwing out that word like it's the same as liking someone SMH.

 

[Bookworm]

TWICE

 

[Bookworm]

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So no more strip clubs for the "hubby"?[/quote] This is the

2nd reference to kai, her hubby and a strip club/stripper. What is that about?

 

[Plap Sun]

maybe you never been in love like i been in love

and maybe you never felt the things that i felt

 

[Louis Cipher]

maybe you never been in love like i been in love

and maybe you never felt the things that i felt

i wonder how many of these youngns caught these 'lenny williams' verses

 

[Black Boy King]

bout 7 or 8 times man i be catchin feelingssss smh

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Lol! I knew that was Lenny after the first 4 words. Nigga droppin old school verses.

 

[HarlemThumzUp]

bout 7 or 8 times man i be catchin feelingssss smh

 

[will grimey]

None...Never found a woman worthy...the ones that prolly was worthy I didn't find them attractive...whatsoever...

 

[Mood Indigo]

7 or 8 times? That's crazy. I don't know how anyone can truly say they've been in love that much.

 

[King_Kane]

Never...i admit i thought i was in love at times but you ever break up with a girl&then realize the only moments you can remember with her or ya best moments with her is when yall was fucking cause thats how i am i think im in love as long as im fucking but as soon as we break up&she wont let me hit no moe i just move on dk why im like that

 

[deelight]

Twice..the 2nd time I truly knew what being IN love felt like. It took a minute to realize that what I was feeling was truly being in loved..sometimes feelings can make it seem like you are in love ..but truly u may just care for them deeply. You don't want to make that mistake too often for yourself and the other person.

 

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Deelight dropping knowledge fo yo azzz.

 

[Ioniz3dSPIRITZ]

4 before I knew what love was