For the fellow men who were raised without a father/male presence..

[Meta_Conscious]

Nh

 

[Chi Snow]

He throwing titangraphs @ us

He know that nigga's don't read

 

[tha bause]

GIFSoup

 

[Ghost Leopard]

I notice a lot of fatherless niggas act real reckless. They have the bodies and strength of a boy but the lack of discipline and have the stupid temper of their mothers. They never get taught to be accountable for their actions so they do stupid shit like shoot another lil nigga over some j's.

 

[taeboo]

No kid should be comfortable in a violent/super aggressive enviroment.

 

[SnuffDaddy]

No kid should be comfortable in a violent/super aggressive enviroment.

Right, but let's be honest with all the testosterone & and a society that tells us that a man is supposed to be "tough" or whatever it'll always be around and most males will have to face it, unfortunately. Females actually play a part in it as well whether they realize it or not.

But then again, it can also be argued is cuz some of them dont really know what a man is either so they go looking for some sort of protector/provider.

 

[SnuffDaddy]

I notice a lot of fatherless niggas act real reckless. They have the bodies and strength of a boy but the lack of discipline and have the stupid temper of their mothers. They never get taught to be accountable for their actions so they do stupid shit like shoot another lil nigga over some j's.

True. I would definitely say that im not like that. Im very logical and self acctountable tbh. The temper shit is definitely true about me tho. I get really sensitive/upset quick, almost always have to have the last word and all that.

 

[Ghost Leopard]

No kid should be comfortable in a violent/super aggressive enviroment.

Right on cue a bitch come in and say some bitch shit. Bitch go make some sandwiches. You don't even have a fool tryin to cuff so you need to practice if you want that ring.

 

[jono]

I notice a lot of fatherless niggas act real reckless. They have the bodies and strength of a boy but the lack of discipline and have the stupid temper of their mothers. They never get taught to be accountable for their actions so they do stupid shit like shoot another lil nigga over some j's.

No kid should be comfortable in a violent/super aggressive enviroment.

Right on cue a bitch come in and say some bitch shit. Bitch go make some sandwiches. You don't even have a fool tryin to cuff so you need to practice if you want that ring.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

I notice a lot of fatherless niggas act real reckless. They have the bodies and strength of a boy but the lack of discipline and have the stupid temper of their mothers. They never get taught to be accountable for their actions so they do stupid shit like shoot another lil nigga over some j's.

i know plenty of dudes who have both parents that act stupid tho too. Its just that the majority of boys who get in trouble dont have fathers. I think it's more of an issue of a lack of guidance and correction. raising a child is hard enough to do with a spouse, so for a single mother it is even more difficult. I think some mothers give up after a while. And even when they don't, most boys who act out do so because of environmental influences that they see as models of how they should be. Without good role models, its hard to become something you never have had exposure to.

 

[Ajackson17]

You live in a hyper masculine society and a lack of father figures help creates the personification that being super tough all the time is apart of manhood in which really means we you need to be a protector, provider, and a builder of society.

You need a balance of both female and male positive influences because in order for us to be whole we need to have both presence or we will lean far right or two left. Females are usually right brain and males are usually left brain, but to be a whole person or holistic you need both parts in unison.

 

[CracceR]

i grew up without a father i can relate to some shit u posted nh

would yall forgive your father when u get older and he wants to meet you and shit? im not really that forgiving atm he wrote me some letters iont even read that shit goes straight to the bin.

 

[StillFaggyAF]

*raised by my biological father and mother post

 

[mryounggun]

Dope thread.

I've asked myself this plenty of times and I can't really think of any.

 

[Arya Tsaddiq]

No kid should be comfortable in a violent/super aggressive enviroment.

true...

But what ends up happening is you have to learn how to survive within environments like that so u can live comfortably. And this doesn't necessarily mean you have to become a monster to do so. And that's most of the issues these kids have. I was raised in an environment like that, but I had parents who wouldn't let me be negatively impacted by it and instilled values in me that helped me through when they weren't around.

 

[SnuffDaddy]

You live in a hyper masculine society and a lack of father figures help creates the personification that being super tough all the time is apart of manhood in which really means we you need to be a protector, provider, and a builder of society.

You need a balance of both female and male positive influences because in order for us to be whole we need to have both presence or we will lean far right or two left. Females are usually right brain and males are usually left brain, but to be a whole person or holistic you need both parts in unison.

Exactly! Thank you.

Tbh cuz of shit like this i sometimes feel unsure of ever being with a woman feeling that i can satisfy those qualities..cuz i might not be appear to be super masculine or whatever, and maybe i aint. I do know that i would make a good father, affectionette and involved and things of that nature. But i might not look like im comfortable/paranoid in certain enviroments and might not look like a can knock niggas out left and right and all that or look procective, especially considering the enviromen i still live in. I would die for my child if i had one tho.

So it's real iffy..

On another level i think what happened also is that some of my frustrations in dealing with my mother, other females mixed with my temper made me very skeptic towards them and maybe even somewhat angry at them. So its a real weird thing.

I hear u as well @MansaMusa67

 

[LUClEN]

They rack disciprine

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Thank god my son has a daddy.

 

[Ajackson17]

You live in a hyper masculine society and a lack of father figures help creates the personification that being super tough all the time is apart of manhood in which really means we you need to be a protector, provider, and a builder of society.

You need a balance of both female and male positive influences because in order for us to be whole we need to have both presence or we will lean far right or two left. Females are usually right brain and males are usually left brain, but to be a whole person or holistic you need both parts in unison.

Exactly! Thank you.

Tbh cuz of shit like this i sometimes feel unsure of ever being with a woman feeling that i can satisfy those qualities..cuz i might not be appear to be super masculine or whatever, and maybe i aint. I do know that i would make a good father, affectionette and involved and things of that nature. But i might not look like im comfortable/paranoid in certain enviroments and might not look like a can knock niggas out left and right and all that or look procective, especially considering the enviromen i still live in. I would die for my child if i had one tho.

So it's real iffy..

On another level i think what happened also is that some of my frustrations in dealing with my mother, other females mixed with my temper made me very skeptic towards them and maybe even somewhat angry at them. So its a real weird thing.

I hear u as well @MansaMusa67

I would say learn about the different energies and become a whole person. Study up on the sciences and symbolism of Egypt. There are reasons they left that knowledge up on the wall. I learned a whole lot by studying them.

 

[CracceR]

i grew up without a father i can relate to some shit u posted nh

would yall forgive your father when u get older and he wants to meet you and shit? im not really that forgiving atm he wrote me some letters iont even read that shit goes straight to the bin.

@SnuffDaddy