Felt like I was misled. We acted like a couple but she's not looking for a relationship right now?

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Soho Fresco;4436598 said:
"You were right, I misled you but I was scared from my past relationships. I had something great in front of me all along but I let my fear get in the way. I knew what direction we were heading into all along. I came over to say that I want to be your girlfriend and I am willing to meet you halfway. I am willing to take that chance for us."

Hope it works out for you...but it sounds like another nigga got in her ear, she thought he was gonna wife her, he didn't, she felt stupid and used...and now she decides to fall back on you.

 
Soho Fresco;4436952 said:
Damn iight, what do I do then?

She came back asking to be wifey.

Probably because she was mad that you were talking to other chics and doing better without her.

For some reason, when chicks break up with you...they wanna think that they're better off without you...and that you're gonna be miserable without them.

When they see that you're not miserable and are actually doing better without them, they can't handle it.

 
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Soho Fresco;4484365 said:
@ Hendrix, here it goes.

Her: Maybe on Friday or Saturday, i'll let you know. ( she used that line before and I didn't fall for it this time.

She's a bird.

Best thing to do is cut all ties with her.

 
Personality patterns don't match up but then again I just read one page, but this sounds like bull...no girl is short with words but then actually cares if you talking to her unless she is real controlling...and if she is then you shouldn't be texting her back or making a thread about it when it seems you have the advantage
 
The fact that your being decent, up right and cordial with this chick is whats making her go CRAZY!

trust me I know.

Most chicks assume that all men are pure assholes from the bottom of our souls. But you keep it honest like a gentleman she doesn't know how to react.. hence all the craziness.

Shes just waiting for you to do something or say something to her that will confirm to her that all men are straight up assholes.
 
Had a situation where I was talkin to this younger female and she ran off. I knew exactly what she was doin so it was over in my mind instantly but I was down to be cool. I stopped calling and figured we went our separate ways and ond day months later she texted me. I tried to call and explain its over romantically bu twe can still be cool and she refused to let it go down. I think she refused to accept she messed it up with me. Eventually I changed my number and we havent talked for years and theres no chance of talking in the future and its much better to not have to worry about her than to be.
 
deadeye said:
Hope it works out for you...but it sounds like another nigga got in her ear, she thought he was gonna wife her, he didn't, she felt stupid and used...and now she decides to fall back on you.

cosign, this happened last weekend with one of my jump offs. her ex got in her ear, sold her a dream, smashed then played her. Next you know she come to me talking about we need to be together and all this bull shit and how she fucked up. I smashed once after that and kept it moving. She keep calling and texting but she only gets a reply when I'm trying to fuck now.
 
yunn~sancob!m!t;4487108 said:
Personality patterns don't match up but then again I just read one page, but this sounds like bull...no girl is short with words but then actually cares if you talking to her unless she is real controlling...and if she is then you shouldn't be texting her back or making a thread about it when it seems you have the advantage

Yeah man, you have to read from page 1 to get it all. I have no reason to make this up. Been on the ic for a long time and this is my 1st thread about women problems. First time something like this happened to me. It's gone from chapter to chapter lol. She was short with words at first but it got worse after I went on a date with another woman

 
@Don_DreadHead_Hood

Yeah, to be honest. A lot of people told me how men would die to be in my situation. I feel it's bull though because she wants to act like a couple but doesn't want the responsibilities of a relationship. lol, fuck that...I might as well go and get a real girlfriend.
 
Once again, thanks for all the advice. Even though I already cut her off, i'll keep ya'll updated with details if anything else happens.

 
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pico rivera;4489440 said:
Uh you didn't cut her off if you still responding to texts but ok

Pico, I did cut her off but the thread is full of so many pages now...you probably missed the post where I ignored her last text, I haven't talked to her ever since.

 
What would you do if she texted you on some "come get this pussy and after I'll cook dinner" type text? You said she won't leave you alone but at one point it kinda sounded like you didn't really wanna be left alone.. I see that you said you stopped replying.. Hope that's true cause I've been in situations like this and the shit ALWAYS turns out badly.. I would say instead of ignoring her tell her flat out you don't wanna kick it and to stop contacting you..
 
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alvarez_313;4489468 said:
What would you do if she texted you on some "come get this pussy and after I'll cook dinner" type text? You said she won't leave you alone but at one point it kinda sounded like you didn't really wanna be left alone.. I see that you said you stopped replying.. Hope that's true cause I've been in situations like this and the shit ALWAYS turns out badly.. I would say instead of ignoring her tell her flat out you don't wanna kick it and to stop contacting you..

Yeah, this thread is full of a lot pages now but she tried that stunt already. She sent me a text asking can she come over. I agreed ( can't lie, I missed that pussy) because I already knew make up sex was going to happen. She came and agreed to be my girl but it was just to make me stay. I basically told her that sex isn't enough and that I stand by what I want.
 
I feel you but you gotta turn down the pussy next time cause you have become the prey and she's the predator.. Either that or cop a stun gun lol..
 

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