Felt like I was misled. We acted like a couple but she's not looking for a relationship right now?

[Bussy_Getta]

Rotfl @ fuckin the same dirty ass bitch for the past 10 years

 

[Rozetta5tone]

Ehh u say she dirty, i call it friendship and loyalty..

14 213 post lets me know where ur consistency lies..good job sweety..keep up the good work

 

[Bussy_Getta]

She's fuckin other niggas and fuckin you too... Cs real clean bro.

 

[Rozetta5tone]

Don't really care about that.. Protection is worn and feelings are kept in check..

It's not really about sex tho.. We're friends before anything.. It's a pretty good set up for me..

It's only dirty if you feel bad about what you do..

 

[black caesar]

@ Hendrix, here it goes.

Here's a update for everybody, might as well keep ya'll posted with the details.

Cliffs: She came to my house, she decided she wanted to be my gf and then we had crazy sex after.

Thing felt weird after that night, she seemed distant. You guys were right. She made things official based on her emotions. She just missed me and wanted me to stay.

I told her we need to talk and held my ground. I told her I will be dating other women since she doesnt want a relationship. We had a mature conversation, things did not end on a messy note.

She (again) tried to convince me into keeping things they were before. Telling me I have to take risk in life and if I cared...I wouldn't be moving on to other women so fast. I would risk waiting for her instead.

Since things ended on a good note, I decided to keep her as a fuck buddy. Her'es how the text convo went from Wednesday night.

Me: Hey beautiful, hope you had a good day.

Her: (2 min. later) That just put a smile on my face, things went alright..how was your day?

Me: Cool, hows your schedule looking like this weekend? I'd love to meet you at the brew. (our hangout spot)

Her: Maybe on Friday or Saturday, i'll let you know. ( she used that line before and I didn't fall for it this time.

Me: Can't do Friday, I'm going to the movies that night. (I felt that this text caught her off guard and this is where I felt she started playing games.)

Her: Well, i'm supposed to be going on a boat ride on Saturday, i'll let you know. ( Boat ride? haha...my gut is telling me she made that up based on the movie text I sent her...women are crazy man.)

Me: Nevermind, don't worry. Enjoy the boat ride ( I decided to stay firm and held my ground)

She just now responded to that text last night (2 days later) with this:

Her: Hey, how was the movie? (what?...i'm confused here. After 2 days, she's asking me about a date I had?

Me: Hey, what's up. I had a great time. ( I responded late since I was bbq hopping the whole day. left my phone home.)

Her: (responded today this afternoon) Hey, i'm glad you had a good time.

what? what is the purpose of that text?...why is she bothering me wit this small talk?

I've been doing good talking to other women and all but she's still clinging on to me.

Big mistake right here and here's why. You said you just put her on the D-List. D-List chicks are not supposed to get dates on the weekends. Only the A's and B's should get that. You need to have her earn that position again. (Which IMO is a waste of time.) That chicks needs to meet up with you on a weekday and your schedule. Not only that, make sure it's 50/50 and pay yourselves. There is no treating her out since she played those games. You don't reward a female for her bad behavior.

A mack has to accept when something isn't working. A mack shouldn't be in denial. What that being said, you're wasting your time with this chick. Just cut all ties with her ASAP. It's not going to end well. This chick got your nose wide open.

 

[Sage Wonder]

@ Hendrix, here it goes.

Here's a update for everybody, might as well keep ya'll posted with the details.

Cliffs: She came to my house, she decided she wanted to be my gf and then we had crazy sex after.

Thing felt weird after that night, she seemed distant. You guys were right. She made things official based on her emotions. She just missed me and wanted me to stay.

I told her we need to talk and held my ground. I told her I will be dating other women since she doesnt want a relationship. We had a mature conversation, things did not end on a messy note.

She (again) tried to convince me into keeping things they were before. Telling me I have to take risk in life and if I cared...I wouldn't be moving on to other women so fast. I would risk waiting for her instead.

Since things ended on a good note, I decided to keep her as a fuck buddy. Her'es how the text convo went from Wednesday night.

Me: Hey beautiful, hope you had a good day.

Her: (2 min. later) That just put a smile on my face, things went alright..how was your day?

Me: Cool, hows your schedule looking like this weekend? I'd love to meet you at the brew. (our hangout spot)

Her: Maybe on Friday or Saturday, i'll let you know. ( she used that line before and I didn't fall for it this time.

Me: Can't do Friday, I'm going to the movies that night. (I felt that this text caught her off guard and this is where I felt she started playing games.)

Her: Well, i'm supposed to be going on a boat ride on Saturday, i'll let you know. ( Boat ride? haha...my gut is telling me she made that up based on the movie text I sent her...women are crazy man.)

Me: Nevermind, don't worry. Enjoy the boat ride ( I decided to stay firm and held my ground)

She just now responded to that text last night (2 days later) with this:

Her: Hey, how was the movie? (what?...i'm confused here. After 2 days, she's asking me about a date I had?

Me: Hey, what's up. I had a great time. ( I responded late since I was bbq hopping the whole day. left my phone home.)

Her: (responded today this afternoon) Hey, i'm glad you had a good time.

what? what is the purpose of that text?...why is she bothering me wit this small talk?

I've been doing good talking to other women and all but she's still clinging on to me.

Big mistake right here and here's why. You said you just put her on the D-List. D-List chicks are not supposed to get dates on the weekends. Only the A's and B's should get that. You need to have her earn that position again. (Which IMO is a waste of time.) That chicks needs to meet up with you on a weekday and your schedule. Not only that, make sure it's 50/50 and pay yourselves. There is no treating her out since she played those games. You don't reward a female for her bad behavior.

A mack has to accept when something isn't working. A mack shouldn't be in denial. What that being said, you're wasting your time with this chick. Just cut all ties with her ASAP. It's not going to end well. This chick got your nose wide open.

A gem was just dropped. Heed wisdom.

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

Yo you gon stop fucking her when you catch that herps b.Make her walk the plank b.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

I respect your answer... GoodDay

 

[Rozetta5tone]

Good day my dear

 

[Soho Fresco]

@ black caesar You're right man. I basically dropped her and I guess asking her on that date was just trying to show her that i'm not bitter about anything.

Thanks to everyone else that dropped their two cents. All i'm saying is I already did what you guys mentioned. I moved on yet she still sends me these little text like "How are you?" and "Glad you had a good time on your date". It's like she wants to know what I am doing but I ignore it.

I just wanted to know what should I do now that I moved on? she continues to hit me up even though she knows I'm dating other women now. She didn't text me this much when we talked, now all of a sudden....she's turning clingy asking me if I had a fun time on my date and all.

 

[_Goldie_]

DIs nigga practicing his play writtin skills in dis mf. U ol tyler perry days of our lives watchin ass nigga, fukk dat bitch and keep it movin.

 

[#YoungKings]

Dogg if all you were doing was fuckin and sendin her on her way, that's not friends with benefits. That's fuckin a hoe.

 

[Soho Fresco]

@YoungGoldie Yeah bro, I moved on (check my other post for the details) but she won't leave me alone though....that's the part I'm talking about. She's sending me text wanting to know how my dates went and other weird text that I consider small talk.

 

[Cabana_Da_Don]

@YoungGoldie Yeah bro, I moved on (check my other post for the details) but she won't leave me alone though....that's the part I'm talking about. She's sending me text wanting to know how my dates went and other weird text that I consider small talk.

No joke.You will stop when she give you a STD.

 

[Soho Fresco]

@YoungGoldie Yeah bro, I moved on (check my other post for the details) but she won't leave me alone though....that's the part I'm talking about. She's sending me text wanting to know how my dates went and other weird text that I consider small talk.

No joke.You will stop when she give you a STD.

We havn't had sex since that night. I left her alone but she still text me. That's what i'm getting at...here's what i'm talking about. This text convo between us just happened earlier in the day.

Her: Hi

30 minutes later....

Her: I hope you have a nice day commenting on peoples pics and not texting me back.

Me: lol calm down..its been a busy day

Her: lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol it's so lol

Her: Just don't bother

20 minutes later...

Her: Anthony?"my name"

That's what I mean, it's getting worse.

 

[Copper]

@ pico rivera

Yeah, in my last post. The post that I just wanted to keep ya'll updated with. I said that I moved on and sent her back down to the d league. Ever since I officially ended things, she won't stop hitting me up with small talk. Ignoring her makes things worse.

ignoring her is making her feel like u moving on with more important shit and that makes u more appealing hoes is funny like that....

 

[Hendrix]

@ Hendrix, here it goes.

Here's a update for everybody, might as well keep ya'll posted with the details.

Cliffs: She came to my house, she decided she wanted to be my gf and then we had crazy sex after.

Thing felt weird after that night, she seemed distant. You guys were right. She made things official based on her emotions. She just missed me and wanted me to stay.

I told her we need to talk and held my ground. I told her I will be dating other women since she doesnt want a relationship. We had a mature conversation, things did not end on a messy note.

She (again) tried to convince me into keeping things they were before. Telling me I have to take risk in life and if I cared...I wouldn't be moving on to other women so fast. I would risk waiting for her instead.

Since things ended on a good note, I decided to keep her as a fuck buddy. Her'es how the text convo went from Wednesday night.

Me: Hey beautiful, hope you had a good day.

Her: (2 min. later) That just put a smile on my face, things went alright..how was your day?

Me: Cool, hows your schedule looking like this weekend? I'd love to meet you at the brew. (our hangout spot)

Her: Maybe on Friday or Saturday, i'll let you know. ( she used that line before and I didn't fall for it this time.

Me: Can't do Friday, I'm going to the movies that night. (I felt that this text caught her off guard and this is where I felt she started playing games.)

Her: Well, i'm supposed to be going on a boat ride on Saturday, i'll let you know. ( Boat ride? haha...my gut is telling me she made that up based on the movie text I sent her...women are crazy man.)

Me: Nevermind, don't worry. Enjoy the boat ride ( I decided to stay firm and held my ground)

She just now responded to that text last night (2 days later) with this:

Her: Hey, how was the movie? (what?...i'm confused here. After 2 days, she's asking me about a date I had?

Me: Hey, what's up. I had a great time. ( I responded late since I was bbq hopping the whole day. left my phone home.)

Her: (responded today this afternoon) Hey, i'm glad you had a good time.

what? what is the purpose of that text?...why is she bothering me wit this small talk?

I've been doing good talking to other women and all but she's still clinging on to me.

You know what, I was wrong before. Ignore my advice. It sounds like you made the right decision to keep it moving and find other girls. I have a problem with getting caught up in fantasies and giving women multiple chances, and its something I need to work on.

 

[Hendrix]

We havn't had sex since that night. I left her alone but she still text me. That's what i'm getting at...here's what i'm talking about. This text convo between us just happened earlier in the day.

Her: Hi

30 minutes later....

Her: I hope you have a nice day commenting on peoples pics and not texting me back.

Me: lol calm down..its been a busy day

Her: lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol it's so lol

Her: Just don't bother

20 minutes later...

Her: Anthony?"my name"

That's what I mean, it's getting worse.

That shit right there is pure craziness. If I ever got a text with that many lol's I would be afraid to respond.

 

[Soho Fresco]

@Hendrix

It's alright man, I found your advice helpful in my situation too. I remained cool and handled things as mature as I could. In the end, she could never say I was a jerk, she'll have to live with the fact that she lost a good man because she don't deserve me. She'll get her sex from other dudes and all but that doesn't concern me. I just have to stay positive and focused like I always do.

And lol...you should see the other text she sent me, never thought i'd see her act like that.

 

[Hendrix]

@Hendrix

It's alright man, I found your advice helpful in my situation too. I remained cool and handled things as mature as I could. In the end, she could never say I was a jerk, she'll have to live with the fact that she lost a good man because she don't deserve me. She'll get her sex from other dudes and all but that doesn't concern me. I just have to stay positive and focused like I always do.

And lol...you should see the other text she sent me, never thought i'd see her act like that.

Well it sounds like you're handling it well and I'm glad that you moved on. She will definitely end up regretting this shit down the road. Women go crazy when you make it clear that you're moving on and not tolerating their ridiculousness.