Felt like I was misled. We acted like a couple but she's not looking for a relationship right now?

[Soho Fresco]

Damn iight, what do I do then?

I already said yes to her when she asked me. We made it official.

I just felt it would've defeated the purpose to say no. It's not like I begged or gave her ultimatums. I basically left her and was doing fine. She came back asking to be wifey.

 

[Copper]

Shawty got a thing for them killas and them murderers - Frenchmontana -

I mean if she´s that type just move on b.Just leave her alone.

word...and rejoice when u hear about her on the 6 o'clock news

 

[Soho Fresco]

@texasboi409

No doubt bro. How should I break it off then?

That's what i'm trying to say. She'll tell everybody that she opened up to me on why she was scared to commit and when she admitted her flaws while begging to be mines, I turned her down. The whole shit would end up making me look like a dick haha

 

[Cinco]

She wasn't thinkin about being wishy-washy when she was going back and forth w u. So if u wanna leave her alone, don't be considering her feelings. Shit. U gotta look out for u.

-if u think she being genuine, I'd see if she plays the gf role for real. Actions speak louder than words. But u shouldnt have to cuff that broad, women choose and cling to men they wanna be with. So make sure she really choose

 

[texas409]

I would tell her what does she bring to the table as far as a relationship goes and see if the pros outweigh the cons

 

[HarlemThumzUp]

#dead @ cotton candy pimpin

 

[Hendrix]

@texasboi409

No doubt bro. How should I break it off then?

That's what i'm trying to say. She'll tell everybody that she opened up to me on why she was scared to commit and when she admitted her flaws while begging to be mines, I turned her down. The whole shit would end up making me look like a dick haha

Whoa, slow down breh. Don't break up with her because some dudes on a message board told you to. You have to make the best decision for yourself based off what you want, not what other people think. You wanted a relationship with her, and you got it. She explained the situation, and yeah she seems indecisive/illogical/backwards, but that's how women are.

However, make sure you put yourself first and keep your guard up. She did act foul towards you before but it looks like she's trying to make up for it. She realizes she made a mistake, and you're getting what you want. If you can ensure that there isn't another dude then I don't see the problem with giving her one more chance. I can't tell you what to do, but it seems like you really like her. Just keep your guard up and be ready to drop her from your life if she acts out of line again. Make the decision based on what you want, broski. Just think it through before you act.

I hope it works out for you because I know how you're feeling.

 

[Hendrix]

Update us.

 

[Soho Fresco]

@ Hendrix, here it goes.

Here's a update for everybody, might as well keep ya'll posted with the details.

Cliffs: She came to my house, she decided she wanted to be my gf and then we had crazy sex after.

Thing felt weird after that night, she seemed distant. You guys were right. She made things official based on her emotions. She just missed me and wanted me to stay.

I told her we need to talk and held my ground. I told her I will be dating other women since she doesnt want a relationship. We had a mature conversation, things did not end on a messy note.

She (again) tried to convince me into keeping things they were before. Telling me I have to take risk in life and if I cared...I wouldn't be moving on to other women so fast. I would risk waiting for her instead.

Since things ended on a good note, I decided to keep her as a fuck buddy. Her'es how the text convo went from Wednesday night.

Me: Hey beautiful, hope you had a good day.

Her: (2 min. later) That just put a smile on my face, things went alright..how was your day?

Me: Cool, hows your schedule looking like this weekend? I'd love to meet you at the brew. (our hangout spot)

Her: Maybe on Friday or Saturday, i'll let you know. ( she used that line before and I didn't fall for it this time.

Me: Can't do Friday, I'm going to the movies that night. (I felt that this text caught her off guard and this is where I felt she started playing games.)

Her: Well, i'm supposed to be going on a boat ride on Saturday, i'll let you know. ( Boat ride? haha...my gut is telling me she made that up based on the movie text I sent her...women are crazy man.)

Me: Nevermind, don't worry. Enjoy the boat ride ( I decided to stay firm and held my ground)

She just now responded to that text last night (2 days later) with this:

Her: Hey, how was the movie? (what?...i'm confused here. After 2 days, she's asking me about a date I had?

Me: Hey, what's up. I had a great time. ( I responded late since I was bbq hopping the whole day. left my phone home.)

Her: (responded today this afternoon) Hey, i'm glad you had a good time.

what? what is the purpose of that text?...why is she bothering me wit this small talk?

I've been doing good talking to other women and all but she's still clinging on to me.

 

[Bussy_Getta]

AWWWWEEE CUHHHH DAT BITCH SAWLTY YA FEELIN WHAT IM KICKIN NIGGA?!!?

 

[Bussy_Getta]

Anyways you a bitch T/S, stop lettin these hoes play you fam.

 

[longmeat]

Here is my last and final update on the situation ya'll. I figured not to leave ya'll hangin with the details since so many of ya'll provided good advice. So after a month of not talking to her, we had a conversation that she initiated.

I basically told her that casual relationships are not for me and that I will be dating other women. Instead of giving her a ultimatum, I told her I want to be her man but it's her choice to make, just know that my decisions are based on the choices she make. She then asked can she come to my house and talk to me, it was important.

I said alright and I had her come late at night , I can't believe how sexy she was looking haha. She was looking bad, she always looks beautiful to me but damn. She couldn't keep her hands off of me. I sat her down and asked her how she feels and all. She spoke her mind and outta nowhere said: "You were right, I misled you but I was scared from my past relationships. I had something great in front of me all along but I let my fear get in the way. I knew what direction we were heading into all along. I came over to say that I want to be your girlfriend and I am willing to meet you halfway. I am willing to take that chance for us."

She then asked if I could get her something to drink. I went and got her something, when I walked back in my room....her dress was off. She was sitting on my computer chair with her legs on the desk in nothing but a G String and bra. The kind of lights on my room made her G string and panties glow (which made it even sexier...damn). She then said "Now that it's official, come here and fuck your girlfriend real good"

The rest was history.....

I know I'm mad late but I foresee a MASSIVE L in your future breh

 

[longmeat]

@ Hendrix, here it goes.

Here's a update for everybody, might as well keep ya'll posted with the details.

Cliffs: She came to my house, she decided she wanted to be my gf and then we had crazy sex after.

Thing felt weird after that night, she seemed distant. You guys were right. She made things official based on her emotions. She just missed me and wanted me to stay.

I told her we need to talk and held my ground. I told her I will be dating other women since she doesnt want a relationship. We had a mature conversation, things did not end on a messy note.

She (again) tried to convince me into keeping things they were before. Telling me I have to take risk in life and if I cared...I wouldn't be moving on to other women so fast. I would risk waiting for her instead.

Since things ended on a good note, I decided to keep her as a fuck buddy. Her'es how the text convo went from Wednesday night.

Me: Hey beautiful, hope you had a good day.

Her: (2 min. later) That just put a smile on my face, things went alright..how was your day?

Me: Cool, hows your schedule looking like this weekend? I'd love to meet you at the brew. (our hangout spot)

Her: Maybe on Friday or Saturday, i'll let you know. ( she used that line before and I didn't fall for it this time.

Me: Can't do Friday, I'm going to the movies that night. (I felt that this text caught her off guard and this is where I felt she started playing games.)

Her: Well, i'm supposed to be going on a boat ride on Saturday, i'll let you know. ( Boat ride? haha...my gut is telling me she made that up based on the movie text I sent her...women are crazy man.)

Me: Nevermind, don't worry. Enjoy the boat ride ( I decided to stay firm and held my ground)

She just now responded to that text last night (2 days later) with this:

Her: Hey, how was the movie? (what?...i'm confused here. After 2 days, she's asking me about a date I had?

Me: Hey, what's up. I had a great time. ( I responded late since I was bbq hopping the whole day. left my phone home.)

Her: (responded today this afternoon) Hey, i'm glad you had a good time.

what? what is the purpose of that text?...why is she bothering me wit this small talk?

I've been doing good talking to other women and all but she's still clinging on to me.

In times like these, it's always best to seek advice from a man of god

 

[Soho Fresco]

Here is my last and final update on the situation ya'll. I figured not to leave ya'll hangin with the details since so many of ya'll provided good advice. So after a month of not talking to her, we had a conversation that she initiated.

I basically told her that casual relationships are not for me and that I will be dating other women. Instead of giving her a ultimatum, I told her I want to be her man but it's her choice to make, just know that my decisions are based on the choices she make. She then asked can she come to my house and talk to me, it was important.

I said alright and I had her come late at night , I can't believe how sexy she was looking haha. She was looking bad, she always looks beautiful to me but damn. She couldn't keep her hands off of me. I sat her down and asked her how she feels and all. She spoke her mind and outta nowhere said: "You were right, I misled you but I was scared from my past relationships. I had something great in front of me all along but I let my fear get in the way. I knew what direction we were heading into all along. I came over to say that I want to be your girlfriend and I am willing to meet you halfway. I am willing to take that chance for us."

She then asked if I could get her something to drink. I went and got her something, when I walked back in my room....her dress was off. She was sitting on my computer chair with her legs on the desk in nothing but a G String and bra. The kind of lights on my room made her G string and panties glow (which made it even sexier...damn). She then said "Now that it's official, come here and fuck your girlfriend real good"

The rest was history.....

I know I'm mad late but I foresee a MASSIVE L in your future breh

Yeah, that was a while ago. Since then. I left her for good but now she keeps on hitting me up.

I moved on already, just wanted to keep ya'll updated.

 

[Soho Fresco]

@ pico rivera

Yeah, in my last post. The post that I just wanted to keep ya'll updated with. I said that I moved on and sent her back down to the d league. Ever since I officially ended things, she won't stop hitting me up with small talk. Ignoring her makes things worse.

 

[Sage Wonder]

Here is my last and final update on the situation ya'll. I figured not to leave ya'll hangin with the details since so many of ya'll provided good advice. So after a month of not talking to her, we had a conversation that she initiated.

I basically told her that casual relationships are not for me and that I will be dating other women. Instead of giving her a ultimatum, I told her I want to be her man but it's her choice to make, just know that my decisions are based on the choices she make. She then asked can she come to my house and talk to me, it was important.

I said alright and I had her come late at night , I can't believe how sexy she was looking haha. She was looking bad, she always looks beautiful to me but damn. She couldn't keep her hands off of me. I sat her down and asked her how she feels and all. She spoke her mind and outta nowhere said: "You were right, I misled you but I was scared from my past relationships. I had something great in front of me all along but I let my fear get in the way. I knew what direction we were heading into all along. I came over to say that I want to be your girlfriend and I am willing to meet you halfway. I am willing to take that chance for us."

She then asked if I could get her something to drink. I went and got her something, when I walked back in my room....her dress was off. She was sitting on my computer chair with her legs on the desk in nothing but a G String and bra. The kind of lights on my room made her G string and panties glow (which made it even sexier...damn). She then said "Now that it's official, come here and fuck your girlfriend real good"

The rest was history.....

I know I'm mad late but I foresee a MASSIVE L in your future breh

This.. Dude got too much emotion riding on this, she playing games with you and you think something going to change, crossing fingers and hoping for the best possible outcome. She manipulating you bruh, she's not going to change up her act in the foreseeable future. Analyzing her every text smh.. move on.

 

[Sour-Cream]

HAHA, fuck ya feelings nigga.

 

[DOPEdweebz]

post her number on here at least so we can troll her at the very least.

better yet post her picture so we can see why you crying over.

 

[Rozetta5tone]

i just spent three days with a bitch that has a boyfriend..didnt spend a dime the whole time..

He took her out yesterday..spent good bread on their date, was a gentleman and did what a nigga in love does and she sent him home with blue balls..

How do i know? Bcuz ive been fucking her consistently and thoroughly for the past 10 years and she tells me everything..when he left, i was summoned by her to close the deal..

Point is..unless you know for sho that u got her cuffed, save the extra shit for the chick that really deserves it..dont invest in a bitch before doing you research..

Like biggie sed "soon as he buy that wine i jus creep up from behind"

Play the game smarter not harder youngin

 

[Sour-Cream]

Real Shit.
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