Felt like I was misled. We acted like a couple but she's not looking for a relationship right now?

[Recaptimus_Prime360]

Take the L, keep it moving. You're young man. It happens.

 

[Beta]

I couldnt breathe after reading the OP

 

[Cutty5000]

Since you're so appreciative of the advice you've been given here, would you care to post pics of this young lady or provide us with a link to her facebook page?

I love beautiful dark skinned women man so it was crazy. A lot of people don't believe that she's Haitian.

Not bad.

Props.

 

[Dr.Chemix]

@frostyicy salute bruh

you know da business

 

[Gooner]

she gives of a crazy vibe...bitch look unstable

 

[frostyicy]

she gives of a crazy vibe...bitch look unstable

Like I said its all in the eyes.

 

[fuc_i_look_like]

Lol @ this nigga taking the broad wine tasting. the fuck?

 

[Tommy_Milfhitta]

Yo!! Folks be dropping good science up in here. Timeless advice. 1 day Imma pass these gems to my son too. IC got seasoned vets droppin mad knowledge

 

[black caesar]

Good drop Dr. Chemix. Props.

 

[DNB1]

Combined with the music currently playing through my earbuds.......this gif was hilarious.

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[Soho Fresco]

Thanks for the advice everybody. I basically moved on and told her that I respect her honesty but this situation is not for me. I told that I will be dating others, she didn't take it well. Here's a update after that discussion I had with her.

She sent me a text at 4 in the morning last night saying this:

Her: Although I wasn't so pleased with some things you said to me last, i'm thinking about you and I honestly do miss you.

I haven't responded, the bolded part is weird because all I did was tell her i'm keeping my options open and I have no hard feeling towards her.

 

[Idiopathic Joker]

Lol @ me thinkin this was a hitta thread

 

[Loo.Loo]

Thanks for the advice everybody. I basically moved on and told her that I respect her honesty but this situation is not for me. I told that I will be dating others, she didn't take it well. Here's a update after that discussion I had with her.

She sent me a text at 4 in the morning last night saying this:

Her: Although I wasn't so pleased with some things you said to me last, i'm thinking about you and I honestly do miss you.

I haven't responded, the bolded part is weird because all I did was tell her i'm keeping my options open and I have no hard feeling towards her.

Damn bruh, she basically is making moves like a dude and you responding like how a girl normally would. No diss.

I say that because I've used that "I do really miss you" text on chicks before. Usually they got tired of not being the only one, and I started missing the sex. Still didnt want the relationship though.

You gonna have to give her an ultimatum: Either we together or we aint. That's the only way to know what she really wants.

Seems like she doesnt want you to start, but needs you on the bench.

 

[Soho Fresco]

Thanks for the advice everybody. I basically moved on and told her that I respect her honesty but this situation is not for me. I told that I will be dating others, she didn't take it well. Here's a update after that discussion I had with her.

She sent me a text at 4 in the morning last night saying this:

Her: Although I wasn't so pleased with some things you said to me last, i'm thinking about you and I honestly do miss you.

I haven't responded, the bolded part is weird because all I did was tell her i'm keeping my options open and I have no hard feeling towards her.

Damn bruh, she basically is making moves like a dude and you responding like how a girl normally would. No diss.

I say that because I've used that "I do really miss you" text on chicks before. Usually they got tired of not being the only one, and I started missing the sex. Still didnt want the relationship though.

You gonna have to give her an ultimatum: Either we together or we aint. That's the only way to know what she really wants.

Seems like she doesnt want you to start, but needs you on the bench.

Appreciate the 2 cents. I understand where you're coming from, that's why I didn't jump back with a response. She's probably planning to get me to open up just to hear her say " I want things to stay the same but without expectations" Her mind will never change based on me ignoring her, it will only change based on what she truly wants. That's why I've been doing fine talking to other women lately, that late night text caught me off guard though.

 

[Loo.Loo]

@soho: Yep, you right.

Tough break man, but it happens from time to time. I tried to pull that "miss you" crap on a girl a while back and shorty actually was like, unless we together we cant hang.

I had to respect her gangsta on that, she peeped what I was tryna do.

 

[Leah_Bonita]

to be real she did mislead ya cause if she wasnt ready why was she bringing up kids and calling what yall have a "us" or "we" thing its clear that something happened to her between new yrs eve and now that made her think twice maybe she meet someone else or maybe she is just worried abt something either way i doubt she'll tell u what happened to make her change her mind the best thing u can do is either cut her off or keep fucking&acting like yall together but if i was u i'd cut her off believe me i've been in your postion and decided to hold on and play her game smh shit did not end well

 

[No Competition]

What was the conversation on the night she broke down? Because I think that was the moment for y'all to decide where things would go from there. Sounds like you just assumed that she wanted to be in a real relationship with you because she said "all we do is fuck."

Yeah man, you guys made me realize that part. That is where I fucked up at. I should have manned up and put her on the spot at that moment.

The conversation went as her telling me about us having a future. She said she likes where it is going between us and she loves the feelings that I give her and how we look good together. Mind you, I didnt get all emotional like this...she did and after that night, she started acting like my main. Getting jealous when other woman showed me attention etc.

niggas are just tryin to play you and sound cool if they sayin you was the one who caught feelings and played it like a bitch

those are clearly signs that she wanted to be more then friends w/ benefits which means she was talking relationship shit...she probably changed up cuz she had another nigga in mind or w/e or she could have just been playin you but either way you couldnt hav known if you took what she said at face value

and like everyone already said just drop her. and if u start talkin to her again do it strictly to hit then send her on her way

 

[Soho Fresco]

@Trill 5015

Damn, sorry to hear that. If you mind me asking...how did things end between ya'll?

 

[Leah_Bonita]

@Trill 5015

Damn, sorry to hear that. If you mind me asking...how did things end between ya'll?

well i took what shawty said at face value about how she loved me but wasnt ready for a relationship i thought i was the only one she was fucking with so i wasnt using a condom and then like two days later my piss start burning im like wtf turns out this bitch done gave me syphilis smh i wanted to kill that hoe we no longer on speaking terms bicth stayd texting my phone talking bout she sorry and didnt know ion buy that b.s hoe been fucking around

 

[Dupac]

damn......

i blame steve harvey, drake, nick canon, tyler perry, and omar from the wire