Felt like I was misled. We acted like a couple but she's not looking for a relationship right now?

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You live and you learn. Thats why I always ask where is this going before you get to that point that you have to invest emotionally.
 
Soho Fresco;4328788 said:
I'm not gonna lie, I did dirt in the past. Before this girl, I talked to a woman that was 27 so she told me she was looking for a relationship. What did I do?...I left her hanging. Recently, I met this chubby woman, pretty but to big for my taste. She showed me all the interest in the world but I just ignored her. This girl though, it was something about her...she was a hip hop fiend like me. Knew about Wu Tang and recorded songs with me. She was independent (car, job, going to school)

that bitch Karma also wasn't having that..

 
Fuck did I just read? Man if you don't quit treating this j/o like she wifey material. I have never heard of a dude wine tasting and hand holding w/ a j/o or fwb. I'm disgusted at this cotton candy pimping...smdh. Ms Jones already told you what to do. Get yourself some new pannies bruh & let that bird free.
 
just learn from it young bruh .... chicks gone do what they do regardless ..but understand that this is what happens when you start lettin a chick control the direction of the situation ....you need to be guiding her to get on the same page as YOU ..not letting HER guide you into a episode of murray pimpin..
 
You share that girl... Good thing you're only 22... Go get another girl but still be "FWB"...lol... with her...

But tell her that it bothered you and chalk it up to miscommunications...
 
Soho Fresco;4329387 said:
Yeah, I got caught slippin. I'm alright though..just wanted the IC's take on it. Got tons of good advice from both threads.

Since you're so appreciative of the advice you've been given here, would you care to post pics of this young lady or provide us with a link to her facebook page?

 
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ms.jones;4328606 said:
She wants to keep you on the line in case shit doesn't work out with her abusive ex (whom is still in her life). The whole "its not you, its me" line is a cop out excuse, due to her inability to let him go, and move on completely with her life. You were just a fantasy for her...she knows that you are a good guy, and you mean well by her, however, she is still stuck on the nigga that whoops her ass, because he's got her mind.

Kick that chick square in her ass, and let the next chick in. She's no good for you.

Co-sign this!!!!
 
Cutty5000;4331538 said:
Soho Fresco;4329387 said:
Yeah, I got caught slippin. I'm alright though..just wanted the IC's take on it. Got tons of good advice from both threads.

Since you're so appreciative of the advice you've been given here, would you care to post pics of this young lady or provide us with a link to her facebook page?

I love beautiful dark skinned women man so it was crazy. A lot of people don't believe that she's Haitian.

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Soho Fresco;4331747 said:
Cutty5000;4331538 said:
Soho Fresco;4329387 said:
Yeah, I got caught slippin. I'm alright though..just wanted the IC's take on it. Got tons of good advice from both threads.

Since you're so appreciative of the advice you've been given here, would you care to post pics of this young lady or provide us with a link to her facebook page?

I love beautiful dark skinned women man so it was crazy. A lot of people don't believe that she's Haitian.

daphne3.jpg


daphne.jpg

You should've been able to look in her eyes and tell she was trouble....

Oh yeah and she ain't all that anyway bruh.

Just charge it to the game and keep it movin.
 
Getting some good advice in here player. @ms.jones dropped the science nicely and @blackcaesar told you something you need to heed to...

Important info...never let a woman completely take over your mind, body and soul. Because it helps when you get into situations like this.

Lets face it, women will malfunction bruh. They will be all up under you 5 days a week and on the sixth, have some sort of epiphany.

Either she's still into her abusive ex or you're in a power struggle

Power struggle happens when some women realized that the dude they're seeing is going gushy over them. Then they tend to act a little different when you're in this "vulnerable" state.

My father once told me this and holds true "Hold on tight to a woman and watch them fly." So let her loose. Put your emotions on lock. Force yourself to talk to other females. You need balance bruh.

You will come to find that in most cases that when you show no care in the world, when your actions exhibit an air that you could go on without her in the drop of hat-thats when they will stay.

And since she's not looking for a relationship, tone down those relationship like outings. Watch her words change. Tell her, listen you right, we didn't come in this for a relationship. Be cool with her...keep her in your pocket. But slow down on the dates and dinner stuff. And when it comes up from her, don't be scornful. Be smooth and cool like a ice cube underneath a faucet when you explain why you doing so.

but since she wants to put things in its proper place...do so. Keep it G. But start eliminating those benefits. You can't be jump offs with relationship outings. She won't like that, but hey, don't play her game. Play yours pimping. And you don't even need to play games. It's all pyschological. Get on your grown man b.i. When they ready to fly, let em fly. You will find them coming back to you later on like boomerangs

Learn from this experience player.
 
Soho Fresco;4331747 said:
Cutty5000;4331538 said:
Soho Fresco;4329387 said:
Yeah, I got caught slippin. I'm alright though..just wanted the IC's take on it. Got tons of good advice from both threads.

Since you're so appreciative of the advice you've been given here, would you care to post pics of this young lady or provide us with a link to her facebook page?

I love beautiful dark skinned women man so it was crazy. A lot of people don't believe that she's Haitian.

daphne3.jpg


daphne.jpg

She nice looking bruh don't know what scale ^ that nigga using. But in all honesty bruh, just let that shit go. Don't be no rebound nigga for no bitch.

Imma write you a RX for some new pussy. Take that shit and you'll be just fine.
 
@DrChemix *Salute bruh*

@MsJones

@blackcaesar

All 3 of them pretty much told you what you need to do. They all shut down the thread in their respective responses.
 
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The Prodigalson;4331879 said:
Soho Fresco;4331747 said:
Cutty5000;4331538 said:
Soho Fresco;4329387 said:
Yeah, I got caught slippin. I'm alright though..just wanted the IC's take on it. Got tons of good advice from both threads.

Since you're so appreciative of the advice you've been given here, would you care to post pics of this young lady or provide us with a link to her facebook page?

I love beautiful dark skinned women man so it was crazy. A lot of people don't believe that she's Haitian.

daphne3.jpg


daphne.jpg

She nice looking bruh don't know what scale ^ that nigga using. But in all honesty bruh, just let that shit go. Don't be no rebound nigga for no bitch.

Imma write you a RX for some new pussy. Take that shit and you'll be just fine.

Lol I didn't say she was ugly by no means, she just not all that for youngin to be heartbroken over her.

It's definitely more fish in the sea.

Basically I was saying she's not all that in regard to the bolded.
 
^Basically the man is giving you a mindset. Go out and get better. Upgrade, no downgrade. That's how every man about his game will look at it. Then if she see you with that new jawn? Lol! You might get a text that night nigga! lol...but on the real though...dump that shit off like a QB giving up the pigskin for the HB
 
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Soho Fresco;4328618 said:
@black caesar

I'm not really learning about it. HB9 is from pua but it's just something I used as a abbreviation. I did the same with "FWB" because I didn't feel like typing it out. Alright though, in the beginning...we established that we were friends with benefits until she broke down crying one night. That night, she said that all we do is have sex and she see's me in more ways than just sex. She basically got emotional first (which is why I stop doing friends with benefits) After that night, she initiated actions of a girlfriend so I assumed we were dating.

Red Flags for hoes.

1. Abusive Relationships in the past. If a bitch tells you she was in an abusive relationship then that means this bitch was getting her ass whipped but still loved the nigga. She didn't say, " this nigga hit me and I called the police and moved out" so you already know something is wrong with her nut ass.

2. Bitches really aint shit famo. That bitch would have respected you waaaayyyyy more if you had've given her a cold response like, " we always have sex cuz that's what the fuck we do... stop cryin or ride out." She would have been on your dick! Why? Cuz Bitches would rather be disrespected than respected. Bitches don't grow up with daddies in the household...just mommas that's hoes and this is why they don't like to be respected. If what you wanted was a WOMAN you should have left this rat alone or just fucked when you felt like it.

It's sad that shit is like this but trust me young dude...this is really how shit is... if you find a woman then you'll know, but untill then all hoes is bitches. Church!

 


Thirdsupreme;4331988 said:
Red Flags for hoes.

1. Abusive Relationships in the past. If a bitch tells you she was in an abusive relationship then that means this bitch was getting her ass whipped but still loved the nigga. She didn't say, " this nigga hit me and I called the police and moved out" so you already know something is wrong with her nut ass.

co-sign the bolded

 
Its all a mentality. Sometimes it's not about what it really is, it's about what you make it. People don't understand that notion.

I'm givin the young boah some perspective that yo she ain't all that..go out there and do better.
 

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