Ever had to throw hands with an inlaw before?

[texasdaking88]

You niggas are foolish you don't wait to address things like this especially at a family function.

Her family is already on some ignorant shit.

Do it today and be done with it.

We don't live in fl.. We going to visit.. He coming up from Miami.. That's why we never met before

 

[_Lefty]

You niggas are foolish you don't wait to address things like this especially at a family function.

Her family is already on some ignorant shit.

Do it today and be done with it.

I'd argue it's the best place. Set the tone, he don't have to go lookin for it, but if it finds him and he hold his spot, then the understanding will be understood. It's not going to be some big dramatic scene, and I don't want niggas to think it will....But word will get around. In the end, it's better to be respected than loved.

 

[shit happens]

You niggas are foolish you don't wait to address things like this especially at a family function.

Her family is already on some ignorant shit.

Do it today and be done with it.

I'd argue it's the best place. Set the tone, he don't have to go lookin for it, but if it finds him and he hold his spot, then the understanding will be understood. It's not going to be some big dramatic scene, and I don't want niggas to think it will....But word will get around. In the end, it's better to be respected than loved.

Nope you're wrong some find courage in numbers and want to act out when they feel safe.

I speak from experience you address that shit one on one and help him understand that his approach was wrong.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i'd will say this....talk to your lady first

meet up with dude before the get together.

get there early to see if he brings backup..."yes like mike in the wire"

if he dont....try to talk to the nigga. but let him get out the first words.

diffuse his hostility with comfort and deflection but still be prepared for whatever.

let the nigga know if he bout family , you are too and thats why you trying to marry his sister.

he trynna protect her and you want to be her protector now, if she has any problems with any niggas or anybody, you will let him know and yall handle it together.

jedi mind trick this angry nigga.

if that dont work.... you tried and guess you knuckle up then if it comes to that..otherwise she gotta cut him off or keep him at a distance

 

[TayGettem]

I got to scrapping with my ex's cousin one time ended up having to punch my ex in her mouth to....the Kevin Gates came out of me that day

 

[Shizlansky]

If it do get physical. Just choke him out. That would instill the fear of God in a man.

 

[Dupac]

i just hope he wasn't liked up with 5grand's homeboys

 

[_Lefty]

You niggas are foolish you don't wait to address things like this especially at a family function.

Her family is already on some ignorant shit.

Do it today and be done with it.

I'd argue it's the best place. Set the tone, he don't have to go lookin for it, but if it finds him and he hold his spot, then the understanding will be understood. It's not going to be some big dramatic scene, and I don't want niggas to think it will....But word will get around. In the end, it's better to be respected than loved.

Nope you're wrong some find courage in numbers and want to act out when they feel safe.

I speak from experience you address that shit one on one and help him understand that his approach was wrong.

You can quell all that bullshit numbers and all by simply standing your ground.... i'm not pullin nobody to the side because that's movin out of weakness, nigga ain't bout to threaten me and I approach him like "can we talk" fuck that. Homie said what he felt, and i'm not responding to the facebook message so there ain't nothin else to talk about. I'll be in Tampa, if he really feelin like that, he'll come see me, if he actually do approach, stand your ground and articulate to him that you love his sister, you not gonna let no harm come to her from yourself, or any outside source, at the same time, I won't let no man harm me, for any reason, no matter what he feelin. And I ain't fearin no niggas threats either.

Look him dead in his face when you say it, and be ready for what comes with it. That's how you be a man bruh.

You don't have to run around being a tough guy, but you don't gotta wear flava flave's clock to let niggas know what time it is either.

 

[Trillfate]

If your girl telling all y'all business you might want to caution her to keep it in house.last thing you want is family in your business before y'all say I do.

Far as dude just let that mane know your intentions and y'all trying to build something great and suggest he find something else to do in his free time.

Nah. He dont owe that nigga shit.. that message was pure disrespeck..

At this point TS should be on offense, not defense

 

[shit happens]

You niggas are foolish you don't wait to address things like this especially at a family function.

Her family is already on some ignorant shit.

Do it today and be done with it.

I'd argue it's the best place. Set the tone, he don't have to go lookin for it, but if it finds him and he hold his spot, then the understanding will be understood. It's not going to be some big dramatic scene, and I don't want niggas to think it will....But word will get around. In the end, it's better to be respected than loved.

Nope you're wrong some find courage in numbers and want to act out when they feel safe.

I speak from experience you address that shit one on one and help him understand that his approach was wrong.

You can quell all that bullshit numbers and all by simply standing your ground.... i'm not pullin nobody to the side because that's movin out of weakness, nigga ain't bout to threaten me and I approach him like "can we talk" fuck that. Homie said what he felt, and i'm not responding to the facebook message so there ain't nothin else to talk about. I'll be in Tampa, if he really feelin like that, he'll come see me, if he actually do approach, stand your ground and articulate to him that you love his sister, you not gonna let no harm come to her from yourself, or any outside source, at the same time, I won't let no man harm me, for any reason, no matter what he feelin. And I ain't fearin no niggas threats either.

Look him dead in his face when you say it, and be ready for what comes with it. That's how you be a man bruh.

You don't have to run around being a tough guy, but you don't gotta wear flava flave's clock to let niggas know what time it is either.

You're wrong you're speaking from a small mans prospective the things you're spewing smh you don't have a clue. You're pulling him to the side to communicate like an adult. As I stated these people are ignorant as fuck clearly the brother is trying to get a reaction out of him.

He's a small guy so he comes with the tough talk expecting violence from the larger man. A man he knows he can physically beat.

You have to think for yourself and others. You're there to support your woman if her family likes you that matters not fuck them.

Big baby you already know her mother doesn't like you because you're "broke". Stay away from those ignorant ass people

 

[xxCivicxx]

man only person you there for is your lady...

if the family turn on you bcuz their resident fuck up came at you reckless when you came in peace and you bring nothing but happiness to your lady....

fuck them...

and if she take their side... fuck her too.....

She already let me know what it is with her... I didn't pop the question til I knew without a shadow of doubt she was down for us no matter what... And I let her know what it is with him.. I don't even mind the big brother protector bs.. It's that last line that got me hot.. "u with this engaged shit, Im not on it" like who the fuck this nigga think he is?

Yup that line got me too

It came off like a direct challenge

 

[2stepz_ahead]

You niggas are foolish you don't wait to address things like this especially at a family function.

Her family is already on some ignorant shit.

Do it today and be done with it.

I'd argue it's the best place. Set the tone, he don't have to go lookin for it, but if it finds him and he hold his spot, then the understanding will be understood. It's not going to be some big dramatic scene, and I don't want niggas to think it will....But word will get around. In the end, it's better to be respected than loved.

Nope you're wrong some find courage in numbers and want to act out when they feel safe.

I speak from experience you address that shit one on one and help him understand that his approach was wrong.

You can quell all that bullshit numbers and all by simply standing your ground.... i'm not pullin nobody to the side because that's movin out of weakness, nigga ain't bout to threaten me and I approach him like "can we talk" fuck that. Homie said what he felt, and i'm not responding to the facebook message so there ain't nothin else to talk about. I'll be in Tampa, if he really feelin like that, he'll come see me, if he actually do approach, stand your ground and articulate to him that you love his sister, you not gonna let no harm come to her from yourself, or any outside source, at the same time, I won't let no man harm me, for any reason, no matter what he feelin. And I ain't fearin no niggas threats either.

Look him dead in his face when you say it, and be ready for what comes with it. That's how you be a man bruh.

You don't have to run around being a tough guy, but you don't gotta wear flava flave's clock to let niggas know what time it is either.

men dont always have to respond to dumb ass intimidation attempts.

dont let that shit pull you out of character.

some men try to hash it out with words first...at least i do...but you wont be close enough to steal me either.

yes, he said what he felt an he showed his weakness not strength.

dont feed his ego.. dont fall into HIS trap.

if he want to see talking as a weakness....like someone else said...choke the nigga.

niggas tend o listen when the oxygen supply is cut off.

then just finish what you was trying to say and let him know afterwards it didnt have to be like this,

it was his fault this happened, you got love for her family and it hurt you bringing a nigga close to death cuz you love his sister and your lady. any future disagreements can end different, like over drinks instead of his blood vessels in his eyes damn near popping.

 

[_Lefty]

You niggas are foolish you don't wait to address things like this especially at a family function.

Her family is already on some ignorant shit.

Do it today and be done with it.

I'd argue it's the best place. Set the tone, he don't have to go lookin for it, but if it finds him and he hold his spot, then the understanding will be understood. It's not going to be some big dramatic scene, and I don't want niggas to think it will....But word will get around. In the end, it's better to be respected than loved.

Nope you're wrong some find courage in numbers and want to act out when they feel safe.

I speak from experience you address that shit one on one and help him understand that his approach was wrong.

You can quell all that bullshit numbers and all by simply standing your ground.... i'm not pullin nobody to the side because that's movin out of weakness, nigga ain't bout to threaten me and I approach him like "can we talk" fuck that. Homie said what he felt, and i'm not responding to the facebook message so there ain't nothin else to talk about. I'll be in Tampa, if he really feelin like that, he'll come see me, if he actually do approach, stand your ground and articulate to him that you love his sister, you not gonna let no harm come to her from yourself, or any outside source, at the same time, I won't let no man harm me, for any reason, no matter what he feelin. And I ain't fearin no niggas threats either.

Look him dead in his face when you say it, and be ready for what comes with it. That's how you be a man bruh.

You don't have to run around being a tough guy, but you don't gotta wear flava flave's clock to let niggas know what time it is either.

You're wrong you're speaking from a small mans prospective the things you're spewing smh you don't have a clue. You're pulling him to the side to communicate like an adult. As I stated these people are ignorant as fuck clearly the brother is trying to get a reaction out of him.

He's a small guy so he comes with the tough talk expecting violence from the larger man. A man he knows he can physically beat.

You have to think for yourself and others. You're there to support your woman if her family likes you that matters not fuck them.

Big baby you already know her mother doesn't like you because you're "broke". Stay away from those ignorant ass people

My nigga. That man threatened me.....There's no pulling anyone to the side. He ended that when he hit send on that message. He gets nothing else from me at that point because he already let me know where he stood. Now he's going to know where I stand, I won't acknowledge this man until he come at me like a man.

I'm thinking for myself and my woman. I wish the fuck I would let somebody check me in front of my wife. He might be trying to get a reaction, but maybe he should be more careful who he play with. I'm not doin nothin violent in that situation unless I feel like violence is imminent(Don't get stole on, ever). Niggas don't have to like me, but they're going to respect me. If the whole family see his conduct, and see my reaction. I'll never have to address issues of this matter again unless her brother get on some real bullshit.

There's a time for Martin, and there's a time for Malcolm. You be Martin with the mother because there's no win in that. You be Malcolm with her brother because well.....You're a man of respect i'd assume.

 

[TayGettem]

Question what makes y'all think

T/S will beat the brother he might get his ass whooped. Her bro was in prison ain't shit to do In there but workout and eat

 

[_Lefty]

If anybody is pulling anyone anywhere it's goin to be him, he better address me with some respect, then i'd be open to rap with him about the situation, but until then. Fuck that hoe ass nigga. I'm layin in the cut eatin my plate, playin my position. I'm not worried about no nigga, and i ain't playin wit NO-BODY.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

You niggas are foolish you don't wait to address things like this especially at a family function.

Her family is already on some ignorant shit.

Do it today and be done with it.

I'd argue it's the best place. Set the tone, he don't have to go lookin for it, but if it finds him and he hold his spot, then the understanding will be understood. It's not going to be some big dramatic scene, and I don't want niggas to think it will....But word will get around. In the end, it's better to be respected than loved.

Nope you're wrong some find courage in numbers and want to act out when they feel safe.

I speak from experience you address that shit one on one and help him understand that his approach was wrong.

You can quell all that bullshit numbers and all by simply standing your ground.... i'm not pullin nobody to the side because that's movin out of weakness, nigga ain't bout to threaten me and I approach him like "can we talk" fuck that. Homie said what he felt, and i'm not responding to the facebook message so there ain't nothin else to talk about. I'll be in Tampa, if he really feelin like that, he'll come see me, if he actually do approach, stand your ground and articulate to him that you love his sister, you not gonna let no harm come to her from yourself, or any outside source, at the same time, I won't let no man harm me, for any reason, no matter what he feelin. And I ain't fearin no niggas threats either.

Look him dead in his face when you say it, and be ready for what comes with it. That's how you be a man bruh.

You don't have to run around being a tough guy, but you don't gotta wear flava flave's clock to let niggas know what time it is either.

You're wrong you're speaking from a small mans prospective the things you're spewing smh you don't have a clue. You're pulling him to the side to communicate like an adult. As I stated these people are ignorant as fuck clearly the brother is trying to get a reaction out of him.

He's a small guy so he comes with the tough talk expecting violence from the larger man. A man he knows he can physically beat.

You have to think for yourself and others. You're there to support your woman if her family likes you that matters not fuck them.

Big baby you already know her mother doesn't like you because you're "broke". Stay away from those ignorant ass people

My nigga. That man threatened me.....There's no pulling anyone to the side. He ended that when he hit send on that message. He gets nothing else from me at that point because he already let me know where he stood. Now he's going to know where I stand, I won't acknowledge this man until he come at me like a man.

I'm thinking for myself and my woman. I wish the fuck I would let somebody check me in front of my wife. He might be trying to get a reaction, but maybe he should be more careful who he play with. I'm not doin nothin violent in that situation unless I feel like violence is imminent(Don't get stole on, ever). Niggas don't have to like me, but they're going to respect me. If the whole family see his conduct, and see my reaction. I'll never have to address issues of this matter again unless her brother get on some real bullshit.

if the whole or rest of them are on some fukk shit then they will test you from time to time or just try to jump your ass.

i see where your coming from... in front of your lady is one thing...a FB message is the nigga trynna shine for lots of people. those niggas typically run into someone with nothing to lose and someone ends up dead.

maybe even ignoring the nigga until he approach you is another option ...

 

[gns]

yea we got into a few scraps....

i think everyone understands me at this point, no one is immune from catching the fade..... no one...

i've told my stories on here before....but it's gotten real quite a few times with my wife's family....they go hard, but i go hard too, so everybody knows what time it is with me...so we all just respect each other mutually.....

the few times it had to go there.....it went there....and after the dust settled we all kept it moving as family should....

i get along with all of them for the most part......it's just nobody gets passes from me with dumb shit, don't matter who you are...disrespect on any level will always be addressed as and treated as disrespect....

i woulda flat responded to the message like

"bruh, me and your sister good, we go for eachother, and ain't nobody playing no games over here, i don't know what you got going on over there, but whenever we see eachother make sure you make it known."

Com on now du souljah your wifes relatives look like the splash brothers

Just how real could shit have really gotten for u? Foh

 

[Ol Jay's]

most of the time the shit just die out with time, especially if they see your girl is happy, they don't wanna fuck that up

I mentioned my story here before, but long story short, I let her brother hold some good, few zips nothing major, nigga played me but I wasn't tripping tho until his mom's called my girl and put her in our business, so she called him out in a text, & the nigga had the nerve to come at her sideways

So i had to pull up on him with the thang at his babymama house and at his homeboys trap, nigga realized shit was capable of going there so he apologized to her, i was satisfied with that because like I said the money wasn't an issue

 

[Shizlansky]

Question what makes y'all think

T/S will beat the brother he might get his ass whooped. Her bro was in prison ain't shit to do In there but workout and eat

All T/S do is work out too. He said he played football

 

[Trillfate]

@texas what did your lady say about that message? Was she shook? did she laugh it off? Indifferent?