Dorm Room Etiquette...Should I be tripping?

[sniperk]

I had a situation where in my first year of university they put me and this musician dude in a room together in student residence. I mean it was literally just a big square with 2 beds and 2 desks and we had shared washrooms and a kitchen down the hall with other girls and guys on our dorm floor. My roommate had a Kurt Cobain thing going on and one day I woke up from taking a nap to a naked chick who looked like Ludivine Sagnier on top of him riding him in his bed. I could of pretended to be asleep but it was broad daylight and I was pissed at the nerve of this dude who I hardly knew yet. I looked over about to 'cockblock' my roommate by saying some shit about fucking when I'm in the room but this girl noticed me before he did. Instead of getting embarrassed or saying something to him about me being awake, she stared right at me and started moaning louder without breaking eye contact with me which caught me off guard. My roommate was kinda drunk so he was oblivious to the situation at hand but I took the 'L' and pretended to go back to sleep. She left shortly after that (I later found out she lived in the next residence over) and ended up being my roommate's steady girlfriend. She never mentioned it to him that I saw her naked having sex that day but she used to always flirt with me when we hung out... whispering shit in my ear like 'did you like what you saw?' and giving me those 'fuck-me' glances from across the table.

Did I ever smash? No. My homeboy was smitten with her and I was too busy sleeping with her friends and getting groupies who would show up and watch his band play (this dude was loyal as hell and as far as I know never cheated on her). I also played soccer and basketball so we started running in different circles after first year and I kind of lost touch with them. For the rest of my time in school, I always had my own place.

For reference, see 'The Swimming Pool' and Ludivine Sagnier in it to know what I passed up on...haha:

 

[Reina B]

i just moved into a campus apartment. Its one of those shared jawns where 2 people shared a 2 bedroom or 3 people share a 3 bedroom. Its for college students at my university. Instead of 3 people (including me) in my apartment, its between 6 or 7. Because the other 2 students are letting their friends (people who couldnt find housing i guess) live in their rooms.

should i be trippin or am i being a bitch about it?

hell yeah you should be trippin!!!!!

 

[coop9889]

I had a situation where in my first year of university they put me and this musician dude in a room together in student residence. I mean it was literally just a big square with 2 beds and 2 desks and we had shared washrooms and a kitchen down the hall with other girls and guys on our dorm floor. My roommate had a Kurt Cobain thing going on and one day I woke up from taking a nap to a naked chick who looked like Ludivine Sagnier on top of him riding him in his bed. I could of pretended to be asleep but it was broad daylight and I was pissed at the nerve of this dude who I hardly knew yet. I looked over about to 'cockblock' my roommate by saying some shit about fucking when I'm in the room but this girl noticed me before he did. Instead of getting embarrassed or saying something to him about me being awake, she stared right at me and started moaning louder without breaking eye contact with me which caught me off guard. My roommate was kinda drunk so he was oblivious to the situation at hand but I took the 'L' and pretended to go back to sleep. She left shortly after that (I later found out she lived in the next residence over) and ended up being my roommate's steady girlfriend. She never mentioned it to him that I saw her naked having sex that day but she used to always flirt with me when we hung out... whispering shit in my ear like 'did you like what you saw?' and giving me those 'fuck-me' glances from across the table.

Did I ever smash? No. My homeboy was smitten with her and I was too busy sleeping with her friends and getting groupies who would show up and watch his band play (this dude was loyal as hell and as far as I know never cheated on her). I also played soccer and basketball so we started running in different circles after first year and I kind of lost touch with them. For the rest of my time in school, I always had my own place.

For reference, see 'The Swimming Pool' and Ludivine Sagnier in it to know what I passed up on...haha:

LMAO

You prolly coulda beat that night they was fuckin

 

[1of1]

This cig smoking ass nose treating bitch just said juice is nasty.

 

[Im_Linx]

report it. i would

 

[coop9889]

report it. i would

Linx.

Get the fuck outta here.

If that is really you in your avi you are too fuckin fine to be in an internet forum u fuckin nerd.

Go model or something.

 

[Trollio]

snitches..........

 

[g evils]

Yeah. Cause if your RA finds out about that shit, you're gonna be held accountable for not saying shit. plus those capacity rules are enforced for a reason (fire hazards etc..). Bum ass people need to go find their own place.

 

[Idi Amin Dada]

Yo....I meant to update

Thanks alot for the peer pressure. Now I feel like a douchebag asshole. All of the niggas found housing today and all of their shit is out the spot. One of my roommates cooked and I kicked it with them, playing Fifa (smh). Cool ass dudes. That's why I don't like startin shit before assessing a situation, you act stank and then you find out shit wasn't that serious.

Nah nigga, you bitched out. Shit coulda easily been handled by saying something to them. Not on no asshole shit, but addressing the situation. Now them niggas think its cool to use ya shit so when they come chill they STILL gon' drink ya juice.

 

[ShencotheMC]

SMH@ y'all gassing him up and then them niggas just needed a spot to lay at for a couple days. Do you know if a dorm opened up for them or did they just find an apartment off campus or some shit? Either way these niggas had you about to get strolled on for some shit that wasn't even that big a deal. That's why I said I wouldn't have tripped until they fucked with my stuff

 

[Ishi]

Lol Shenco was right from the get go.

 

[Idi Amin Dada]

Lol Shenco was right from the get go.

No he wasn't, cuz she should have still found out what was going on. I dont' care if it's for 1 night, it's proper roommate etiquette to let me know why that many people are in my apartment.

 

[ShencotheMC]

No he wasn't, cuz she should have still found out what was going on. I dont' care if it's for 1 night, it's proper roommate etiquette to let me know why that many people are in my apartment.

Obviously they didn't have housing when he started this thread is why they were in the apartment. Had he snapped he woulda looked like a straight up douchebag kicking some cats out who didn't have a place to rest their heads and wasn't even bothering him in the first place.

 

[6ft5]

Nah nigga, you bitched out. Shit coulda easily been handled by saying something to them. Not on no asshole shit, but addressing the situation. Now them niggas think its cool to use ya shit so when they come chill they STILL gon' drink ya juice.

Some niggas just ain't built like that I would have questioned the situation the min I noticed all these people in my crib fuck worrying about a confrontation

 

[Idi Amin Dada]

Obviously they didn't have housing when he started this thread is why they were in the apartment. Had he snapped he woulda looked like a straight up douchebag kicking some cats out who didn't have a place to rest their heads and wasn't even bothering him in the first place.

Why does it have to be a snapping situation? Asking why 6 people are in my apartment for more than a couple hours is snapping? If we share a space, we have to be courteous and inform others. If all six were in the other roommate's rooms and didn't use the kitchen, living room, or bathrooms, fine. The bedroom is your personal area. But since that's not the case, it's not rude to ask what they're doing their and for how long. Instead of sitting around fuming about them drinking your juice and shit saying you're gonna "sit in the living room all day" That's passive aggressive shit. Say what you mean, ask the questions, and the issue would have been resolved.

If anything he probably woulda ended up being cool with a coupla them.

 

[XIII]

I had a situation where in my first year of university they put me and this musician dude in a room together in student residence. I mean it was literally just a big square with 2 beds and 2 desks and we had shared washrooms and a kitchen down the hall with other girls and guys on our dorm floor. My roommate had a Kurt Cobain thing going on and one day I woke up from taking a nap to a naked chick who looked like Ludivine Sagnier on top of him riding him in his bed. I could of pretended to be asleep but it was broad daylight and I was pissed at the nerve of this dude who I hardly knew yet. I looked over about to 'cockblock' my roommate by saying some shit about fucking when I'm in the room but this girl noticed me before he did. Instead of getting embarrassed or saying something to him about me being awake, she stared right at me and started moaning louder without breaking eye contact with me which caught me off guard. My roommate was kinda drunk so he was oblivious to the situation at hand but I took the 'L' and pretended to go back to sleep. She left shortly after that (I later found out she lived in the next residence over) and ended up being my roommate's steady girlfriend. She never mentioned it to him that I saw her naked having sex that day but she used to always flirt with me when we hung out... whispering shit in my ear like 'did you like what you saw?' and giving me those 'fuck-me' glances from across the table.

Did I ever smash? No. My homeboy was smitten with her and I was too busy sleeping with her friends and getting groupies who would show up and watch his band play (this dude was loyal as hell and as far as I know never cheated on her). I also played soccer and basketball so we started running in different circles after first year and I kind of lost touch with them. For the rest of my time in school, I always had my own place.

For reference, see 'The Swimming Pool' and Ludivine Sagnier in it to know what I passed up on...haha:

you can't make this shit up. slept on post ....

 

[WhoisDonG???]

Man bottomline niggas had shoes lined up drinking the dudes juice being antisocial. Shit he had to take a stand. I personally say with 99.9% confidence if he didn't say shit them niggas still be in there with they shit in the closet shoes lined up and half his minute maid gone. It's call respect. When I had my situation like that the rommate and the nigga ask me was I cool I okayed it, but the dude started taking advantage so he had to bounce.

 

[Truerap]

I agree, he didn't know how long this was going to last and his real room mates didn't even respect him enough to fill him in on the situation. He brought the problem to the IC for advice, people actually dedicated their time and gave a fuck about this dudes problem, then get's mad at us because the situation resolved itself....so ungrateful:/

God you are a Jew bitch .......................

 

[Rey Negro]

Man bottomline niggas had shoes lined up drinking the dudes juice being antisocial. Shit he had to take a stand. I personally say with 99.9% confidence if he didn't say shit them niggas still be in there with they shit in the closet shoes lined up and half his minute maid gone. It's call respect. When I had my situation like that the rommate and the nigga ask me was I cool I okayed it, but the dude started taking advantage so he had to bounce.

Obviously they didn't have housing when he started this thread is why they were in the apartment. Had he snapped he woulda looked like a straight up douchebag kicking some cats out who didn't have a place to rest their heads and wasn't even bothering him in the first place.

SMH@ y'all gassing him up and then them niggas just needed a spot to lay at for a couple days. Do you know if a dorm opened up for them or did they just find an apartment off campus or some shit? Either way these niggas had you about to get strolled on for some shit that wasn't even that big a deal. That's why I said I wouldn't have tripped until they fucked with my stuff

That's basically what happened. I already pulled dude aside yesterday. It wasn't no big confrontation but, it felt weird afterward. He did let me know from jump he was helping friends out, he just never specified how long and my dumb ass thought he meant one, not the whole tribe. So I come home from classes and the bathroom's cleaned out, the closet's cleaned out and he told me his people found other housing. Last night we all kicked it and I got to know them. Some of the coolest, chill dudes I met and.....................................I kind of feel like an asshole because I was buggin out over dumb shit when these dudes aren't like how I judged them.

All of the people on they "Rambo shit" need to know....I will be living here for the next 300 days.