Does your S/O's income Matters?

[kevmic]

Let's say if you were making anywhere from 40k-100k, you think you could be with or fall in love with someone who's making less than 30k? I notice the chicks who don't drive or have a career are mostly the ones who want a relationship. Should a person's salary determine if they'll be a good partner or not?

No it shouldn't determine if they would make a good partner. When I met the woman who is now my wife, I had just quit my job about two weeks prior to meeting her, and she was working as a bill collector. Now we both have jobs making over 40k. So it's more of a question of the type of person you're dealing with. If they come across as someone with goals and who is ambitious, their position in life at the moment is always subject to change.

 

[simplyspeaking]

Of course. If she's not making at least 80% of what I'm making, she'd be irrelevant for anything other than fucking.

word. . . i think guys need to start putting a income requirement on some of these hoes. . .

 

[Chef_Taylor]

nope. i plan on having money so money from a mate ain't a requirement.

im more concerned with how you treat me, than what you can do for me.

The perfect answer to the thread question.

 

[TazManianRebel]

Same thing i thought...people who think like that end up getting let down in the end.

im not trying to promote women to be with broke niggaz but everybody in the world arent as fortunate to make alot of money.that's why theres a such thing as RICH or Poor.See women like mssouthern i stay away from cause her ass will dip out of you when the shit hits the fan i dont need a woman like that in my life.I like a woman who would stick by me when i dont have 2 pennies to rub together,but that's hard to find.theres alot of women right now got men with money but unhappy as fuck cause she thought things were greener on the other side.Just cause a person has money doesnt mean things will go good in your relationship.If a chick loved me when i was down,she will be there when Im up.you dont know whos with you for the right reasons.

 

[TazManianRebel]

simplyspeaking is a definition of a real woman...i like her answer

 

[DEE-LICIOUS]

The fact that I was born with a vagina and breasts automatically means that I'm not destined to be the breadwinner.

 

[blakfyahking]

I think people are presuming you are focused only on money just because you expect your significant other to make a certain amount

sometimes that can kill a relationship when one persons wants more out of life than the other

some people are content with worrying about if they can pay next month's bills, just as long as they have a s/o

IMO quality of life is more important than just sitting around being content being broke

ain't now way I'm bout to get with a female seriously that can't bring in a certain amount of income comparable to mine

 

[dj expanium]

nope. i plan on having money so money from a mate ain't a requirement.

im more concerned with how you treat me, than what you can do for me.

Great post!!!!

 

[TazManianRebel]

I think people are presuming you are focused only on money just because you expect your significant other to make a certain amount

sometimes that can kill a relationship when one persons wants more out of life than the other

some people are content with worrying about if they can pay next month's bills, just as long as they have a s/o

IMO quality of life is more important than just sitting around being content being broke

ain't now way I'm bout to get with a female seriously that can't bring in a certain amount of income comparable to mine

why you think relationships fail??cause one wants more that they dont deserve.it's a 50/50 thang not a 75/25

none of these females pussy is made out of Platinum and Gold

 

[blakfyahking]

Great post!!!!

@ DJ

who is that in your avi bruh?

every time I see it, I have to stare for a few seconds like "wow"

no disrespect if that's ya s/o

 

[blakfyahking]

why you think relationships fail??cause one wants more that they dont deserve.it's a 50/50 thang not a 75/25

none of these females pussy is made out of Platinum and Gold

not necessarily so............sometimes one person can be more ambitious than the other

some people are content with just looking like they got money

some people would rather actually have money and don't care if they look like they do

often times when you see two people aren't likeminded, then eventually friction is created

some people are cool with renting an apartment and working a steady job for the rest of their life to just pay their bills, and nothing is wrong with that

but me personally, I'm trying to retire at age 40 so I can do something else relevant with my life besides working for the next person :shrugs

 

[simplyspeaking]

simplyspeaking is a definition of a real woman...i like her answer

*daps*

 

[The BAPHOMET]

depends on the lifestyle she's accustomed too, if she wanna spend spend and not bring in ends then I'll have an issue with her, but in general it don't really matter, we need to focus on that bed game more

 

[MsSouthern]

Naww mSs...not you

So there is something wrong with wanting a successful mate? Someone that can be an equal to me ? Really?

I didn't say they had to make a 6 figure income or were a bad person... just not the one for me.

like mssouthernthang....she's the type of chick that wont find a good man,she will just have a man with money,no disrespect but it's truth

I have a good man and he has a nice career.

 

[TazManianRebel]

Because in our culture we have replaced God with Money....and only one type of love equals true love.

money is not a reason to be in a relationship with a person.
I guess what's wrong with dating (or marrying!) someone for their money is they might mistake it for a real human connection.

 

[MsSouthern]

im not trying to promote women to be with broke niggaz but everybody in the world arent as fortunate to make alot of money.that's why theres a such thing as RICH or Poor.See women like mssouthern i stay away from cause her ass will dip out of you when the shit hits the fan i dont need a woman like that in my life.I like a woman who would stick by me when i dont have 2 pennies to rub together,but that's hard to find.theres alot of women right now got men with money but unhappy as fuck cause she thought things were greener on the other side.Just cause a person has money doesnt mean things will go good in your relationship.If a chick loved me when i was down,she will be there when Im up.you dont know whos with you for the right reasons.

What are you talking about ?

You got all that off one post ????

For reals ????

 

[TazManianRebel]

*daps*

continue to have that mindset,and i promise Mrright will be there cause Lord knows how some women minds are...I see why so many are unhappy.Like this song i heard..you can have all the riches in the world but still cant find a reason to smile

 

[Bwoahmizzee]

a good income makes a better outcome

how come? A low paying job is like her being without one.

ohhhhhhh!

well not really but kinda sort of ya know so................yeah

 

[TazManianRebel]

a good income makes a better outcome

how come? A low paying job is like her being without one.

ohhhhhhh!

well not really but kinda sort of ya know so................yeah

are you sure about that??cause if that's the case then why are so many people getting divorces,but they have a decent income or some rich?QWhy are there so many unhappy relationships in this world?Money is security for your wants,not for your Needs.

 

[blakfyahking]

Because in our culture we have replaced God with Money....and only one type of love equals true love.

money is not a reason to be in a relationship with a person.
I guess what's wrong with dating (or marrying!) someone for their money is they might mistake it for a real human connection.

who is stupid enough to do the bolded? money doesn't determine anything really............it's just an indicator of other important qualities that determine whether or not you have a connection