junegemini
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as long as he can help take care of home, im cool with whatever he's making
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inlovewithe
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kai_valya;1604013 said:i really don't think it matters as long as we aren't struggling. i'm very unmaterialistic tho. i think it's more important career-wise to do what you love instead of going for the biggest paycheck. it would be silly to overlook someone that could possible be the absolute best match for you just cuz you deem he's not making "enough money". what the hell is enough money? money is all relative and what you make it imo. as long as we aren't worried about the basic necessities, i'm good.
What she said
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It class and mindset depends on money a lot of times...not ALL the time but a lot of times...it is often hard to find someone in sub 30k that understands the mindset of someone progressive and and driven and why they dont think and act the way a lot of people that they are used to...you know if i am making 100k + and I worked to get there i'm pretty sure 9/10 the things I value and my ideals would be different than someone who is used to inner city life. Thats where the disconnect would happen.
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The LouisiAnimal
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iAMNOVA;1604055 said:It class and mindset depends on money a lot of times...not ALL the time but a lot of times...it is often hard to find someone in sub 30k that understands the mindset of someone progressive and and driven and why they dont think and act the way a lot of people that they are used to...you know if i am making 100k + and I worked to get there i'm pretty sure 9/10 the things I value and my ideals would be different than someone who is used to inner city life. Thats where the disconnect would happen.
Co-sign this, I've tried to date less ambitious females, but they can never understand why I'm always talking about going to get my doctorate or talking about relocating to pursue jobs with 6 figure salaries. They're normally content with being in a relationship and just want a guy whose ready to settle down and start a family, which I'm not. I'm driven by success. I just had to be real with myself, I'm not the normal guy and probably don't have much in common with the "average" female
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ceothachosen1
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just gotta be self sufficient
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Fundz O' Plenty
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dusouljah;1604014 said:my lady has a college degreee, and has a job as a HR coordinator at a major coorporation... she's making quite a bit more than me right now
smh....
Get it together fam....... Get it together.
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FieldTripsToTheHood
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I make good money....let's say I'm comfortable. My girl makes more than me. I love it. Splitting everything 50/50 right down the middle makes things A LOT easier. Less animosity creeps in due to someone being the "supporting figure"
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yungmoola912
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If she likes what she does, but just so happen that it doesn't pay that much I'm cool with it. For example teacher, counselor, etc.
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dj expanium
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As long as what's going out isn't greater than what's coming in, I have no problem at all.
I can see that this thread shows the character of the people in here.
I can see that this thread shows the character of the people in here.
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DEE-LICIOUS
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iAMNOVA;1604055 said:It class and mindset depends on money a lot of times...not ALL the time but a lot of times...it is often hard to find someone in sub 30k that understands the mindset of someone progressive and and driven and why they dont think and act the way a lot of people that they are used to...you know if i am making 100k + and I worked to get there i'm pretty sure 9/10 the things I value and my ideals would be different than someone who is used to inner city life. Thats where the disconnect would happen.
nicely put
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MsSouthern
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it matters to me
I'm not saying it makes him a bad person to be in a relationship with
He's just probably not the one for me
I'm not saying it makes him a bad person to be in a relationship with
He's just probably not the one for me
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PLASTIC RULES
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if my girl makin more than me best believe i'm gon ski mask up at night and make niggaz respecc the juxx nh.
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Chef_Taylor
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dusouljah;1604014 said:my lady has a college degreee, and has a job as a HR coordinator at a major coorporation... she's making quite a bit more than me right now
This chick im currently in a relationship with is in law school....so i guess when her career takes off ill really see if she truly loves me or if she'll leave.
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Chef_Taylor
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mssouthernthang;1605294 said:it matters to me
I'm not saying it makes him a bad person to be in a relationship with
He's just probably not the one for me
Naww mSs...not you
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TazManianRebel
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it shouldnt matter but people make Money the reason they will stick around with somebody...but the bigger question will you be there when it all falls down?
money is the demise of all people cause people are so quick to do anything or sacrifice so much for it
if you truly love someone it shouldnt matter
money is the demise of all people cause people are so quick to do anything or sacrifice so much for it
if you truly love someone it shouldnt matter
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TazManianRebel
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like mssouthernthang....she's the type of chick that wont find a good man,she will just have a man with money,no disrespect but it's truth
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Chef_Taylor
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TazManianRebel;1605328 said:like mssouthernthang....she's the type of chick that wont find a good man,she will just have a man with money,no disrespect but it's truth
Same thing i thought...people who think like that end up getting let down in the end.
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fiat_money
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Of course. If she's not making at least 80% of what I'm making, she'd be irrelevant for anything other than fucking.
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simplyspeaking
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nope. i plan on having money so money from a mate ain't a requirement.
im more concerned with how you treat me, than what you can do for me.
im more concerned with how you treat me, than what you can do for me.
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