Does the fact that women getting so excited when they get married

[Mindstarter]

love,

you take a giant lauce for this

according to the law,

smh

because according to the law,

your husband can beat your ass in some states,

as longs he does it no more than twice a month and he doesnt use a closed fist

which means that when you go shoppin for his ass,

make sure u pick a belt that wont hurt ,,,,,your ass

So which box ur babymom's would check on her tax returns & job applications? Let me guess the wifey box. lol.....

How do you guys introduce each other to other ppl at formal events???

If you were to get into a horrible accident right now, and needed permission by to the doctors to keep you on life support they aint gonna contact ur wifey or babymoms....and no it doesnt matter how many kids ya'll have together.

 

[GoodSiqMoney]

I knew someone was gonna jump to that. Of course there is more to security than money but I didn't think I would have to mention it.

lol
u didnt think u had to mention it?

but u did think that u had to mention money?

maybe because you THINK u need to get married to get his money?
but you dont.

u dont need to marry a person to receive the security of their heart, now do you?

but i guess them social security checks are a lil bit more important

 

[Mindstarter]

lol

u didnt think u had to mention it?

but u did think that u had to mention money?

maybe because you THINK u need to get married to get his money?

but you dont.

u dont need to marry a person to receive the security of their heart, now do you?

but i guess them social security checks are a lil bit more important

WTF? Of course not, I cant speak for other woman on matters of the heart. But love is a given when it comes to a strong relationship, regardless if ur married or not. Marriage to me solidifies a union...where love is ALREADY a factor.......the security checks are a bonus, that only idiotic women pass up.

 

[GoodSiqMoney]

So which box ur babymom's would check on her tax returns & job applications? Let me guess the wifey box. lol.....

How do you guys introduce each other to other ppl at formal events???

If you were to get into a horrible accident right now, and needed permission by to the doctors to keep you on life support they aint gonna contact ur wifey or babymoms....and no it doesnt matter how many kids ya'll have together.

I introduce my wife as my wife,lol

and if i was in HORRIBLE ACCIDENT, i wouldnt wanna be left on life support. everyone close in my life, my luved ones,they know that.
i think more than one person should know that type of info.

 

[GoodSiqMoney]

WTF? Of course not, I cant speak for other woman on matters of the heart. But love is a given when it comes to a strong relationship, regardless if ur married or not. Marriage to me solidifies a union...where love is ALREADY a factor.......the security checks are a bonus, that only idiotic women pass up.

wow
glad i found who i found and she doesnt share this same sentiment
that is some cold blooded thinkin and i feel sorry for the brothas who have to deal wit this type of rational

 

[Mindstarter]

wow

glad i found who i found and she doesnt share this same sentiment

that is some cold blooded thinkin and i feel sorry for the brothas who have to deal wit this type of rational

So are u married???? ...and if you are. My question to you is, would your wife still be with you, if you had not married her?? and if marriage is not important, then why did u marry her?

 

[GoodSiqMoney]

So are u married???? ...and if you are. My question to you is, would your wife still be with you, if you had not married her?? and if marriage is not important, then why did u marry her?

we had a ceremony and took vows
but
SHE said she didnt want to legalize it because SHE said it wasnt worth it.
SHE said she didnt need the state to certify her luv AND I WHOLEHEARTEDLY AGREED

like i said,
lol,
im glad i found someone who doesnt share these crazy ideals about the concept of marriage

 

[Mindstarter]

wow

glad i found who i found and she doesnt share this same sentiment

that is some cold blooded thinkin and i feel sorry for the brothas who have to deal wit this type of rational

lol... what, it's not like what I'm saying isn't true. Why do you think wealthy ppl get married more than poor people. They want to keep their wealth in the family, and getting married is one of the ways to insure that. Only basic chicks dealing with basic niggas accept all that wifey/babymoms bullshit.

 

[GoodSiqMoney]

lol... what, it's not like what I'm saying isn't true. Why do you think wealthy ppl get married more than poor people. They want to keep their wealth in the family, and getting married is one of the ways to insure that. Only basic chicks dealing with basic niggas accept all that wifey/babymoms bullshit.

completely agree

people should not let themselves be stuck in a babymama/babydaddy role

they must plan ahead to ensure that they are more

 

[tommy_jules]

I dunno if this is what you mean TS but the thing that gets me is that damn near every woman you meet WANTS to get married at some point in life. Period. Not "If a man comes along that makes me want to be with him for life I will consider it" but "I want to get married" or worse "I know I will get married"

I think I speak for a lot of men when I say we want to make sure that you love ME for ME, not just that you love the idea of having SOMEBODY to call a husband. I don't want to just be part of your agenda. Women have this idea of marriage engrained in them from the time they are little girls, and want to use that as a reason to do something when they reach adulthood. I for one don't understand this.

I dreamed about playing in the NBA when I was a kid. That's not going to happen. If I can accept that, why can't most women accept that getting married and living happily ever after is not a guarantee, and they should feel lucky to find someone who they love and want to commit to and who loves and wants to commit to them.

But it's like some of these chicks got the church, the house, the ring picked out, the dress, the wedding planner, the bridesmaids, even the tuxedo all ready to go, they're just looking for a man to make it a perfect picture. That is putting the horse before the carriage as the old saying goes. Husltin backwards.

Marriage is not something everyone should set out to do, imo. It should be something you do ONLY under the right circumstances. People who are desperate and impatient to settle down kill me. It's like they don't even care as long they have someone to call a husband/wife, then wake up 5 years later and wonder why they're miserable.

I mean let's be real. In the vast majority of dating scenarios, if someone's pushing for marriage, it's the woman, yet women also file the majority of divorces. Riddle me that ladies.

 

[CirocObama]

Shit most women would take being married and unhappy before being single and living free and happy. Trust me.

Marriage is just like "i'm a strong woman", "i'm independent" etc it's a fashion statement and it sounds good but doesn't really mean shit for most women when you really peep through it.

 

[Just2C]

women are usually happy about the wedding not the marriage.

..............................

they like the pagentry of it. Ive seen quite a few chicks have a big ass wedding with all the bells and whistles and get divorced in less then a year.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

I dunno if this is what you mean TS but the thing that gets me is that damn near every woman you meet WANTS to get married at some point in life. Period. Not "If a man comes along that makes me want to be with him for life I will consider it" but "I want to get married" or worse "I know I will get married"

I think I speak for a lot of men when I say we want to make sure that you love ME for ME, not just that you love the idea of having SOMEBODY to call a husband. I don't want to just be part of your agenda. Women have this idea of marriage engrained in them from the time they are little girls, and want to use that as a reason to do something when they reach adulthood. I for one don't understand this.

I dreamed about playing in the NBA when I was a kid. That's not going to happen. If I can accept that, why can't most women accept that getting married and living happily ever after is not a guarantee, and they should feel lucky to find someone who they love and want to commit to and who loves and wants to commit to them.

But it's like some of these chicks got the church, the house, the ring picked out, the dress, the wedding planner, the bridesmaids, even the tuxedo all ready to go, they're just looking for a man to make it a perfect picture. That is putting the horse before the carriage as the old saying goes. Husltin backwards.

Marriage is not something everyone should set out to do, imo. It should be something you do ONLY under the right circumstances. People who are desperate and impatient to settle down kill me. It's like they don't even care as long they have someone to call a husband/wife, then wake up 5 years later and wonder why they're miserable.

I mean let's be real. In the vast majority of dating scenarios, if someone's pushing for marriage, it's the woman, yet women also file the majority of divorces. Riddle me that ladies.

c/s all of it...but the bolded will be ignored

 

[tommy_jules]

c/s all of it...but the bolded will be ignored

lol looks like you were right. I still have yet yo hear any woman even acknowledge or accept that this is because most women are so marriage crazy and don't really think it through further than that. I've also have yet to hear an argument against what I stated either. If women like marriage so much, why do the file the majority of divorces? *Katt Williams voice* Don't worry, I'll wait