Does america have a proble with masculinity?

[LPast]

Yes, and it runs even deeper than you think.

 

[blackrain]

Yes it does...but there are certain things about the way we've been taught to be masculine that do need to be updated because they do more harm long term in the development of men than good

 

[Ajackson17]

Masculinity is a cultural trait.

 

[CapitalB]

of course...

what once was survival of the fittest turned to survival of the smartest..

which is now survival of the slickest..

but they say everything is cyclical and wit Trump's dumbass in the White House we may be going back to the days of dragging a bitch by the hair to the caves to do what we damn well please.. but in this modern day version we grab them by the pussy. lmmfao

 

[D. Morgan]

Yes but only from certain races of people

 

[TheNuttinProffessor]

Everybody tryna tell you not to punch niggas in the face and be about your shit. Action means less

 

[The_Jackal]

I honestly and earnestly believe that it is a kind of a conspiracy against blackman.

 

[MazterChef]

I honestly and earnestly believe that it is a kind of a conspiracy against blackman.

how does beta white men destroy black men

 

[The_Jackal]

I honestly and earnestly believe that it is a kind of a conspiracy against blackman.

how does beta white men destroy black men

When did I say beta white males? I mean the concept of masculinity being toxic. The idea that it should be stunned.

 

[D. Morgan]

I honestly and earnestly believe that it is a kind of a conspiracy against blackman.

how does beta white men destroy black men

Just by being part of the white male team. They participate and benefit just by being white men and going along with program

 

[Kwan Dai]

I think we do. America's wants consumers. Most men (at least those I associate with) are practical. The beta, effeminate males appear to be more about shopping, appearance, and being seen. It's cool right now to sell to that crowd.

 

[Kwan Dai]

Yes it does...but there are certain things about the way we've been taught to be masculine that do need to be updated because they do more harm long term in the development of men than good

I'm taking the bait. In what ways did your father teach you to be masculine that need updating?

 

[The_Jackal]

Yes it does...but there are certain things about the way we've been taught to be masculine that do need to be updated because they do more harm long term in the development of men than good

I'm taking the bate. It what ways did your father teach you to be masculine that need updating?

One thing that definitely does need to be updated in America society is the idea of a man being a stoic unmoving rock. Neglecting emotions stun a man, conquering them allows growth.

 

[CapitalB]

Yes it does...but there are certain things about the way we've been taught to be masculine that do need to be updated because they do more harm long term in the development of men than good

I'm taking the bate. It what ways did your father teach you to be masculine that need updating?

One thing that definitely does need to be updated in America society is the idea of a man being a stoic unmoving rock. Neglecting emotions stun a man, conquering them allows growtg.

thats the only thing i could come up wit..

cause ill be damned if they take my pussy grabbin away from me! lol

 

[kzzl]

I honestly and earnestly believe that it is a kind of a conspiracy against blackman.

White culture appears to instill a fear of black people, especially masculine black men. It's usually a white person that was actually raised around black folks that doesn't have that fear in them.

But black masculinity promotes characteristics that are productive to black people. Of course a racist society would be against that.

However, I think the elite want to pussify the lower classes all around. Makes it easier for the few to rule the many.

 

[TheNuttinProffessor]

On the cool look at the subway man eyes. Dude looked like he was on dirt whole time

 

[blackrain]

Yes it does...but there are certain things about the way we've been taught to be masculine that do need to be updated because they do more harm long term in the development of men than good

I'm taking the bait. In what ways did your father teach you to be masculine that need updating?

I wasn't talking my father I was talking masculinity in general...the majority of the idea of what being a man is is the same across the globe and somebody already pointed out one of the biggest

 

[Kwan Dai]

Yes it does...but there are certain things about the way we've been taught to be masculine that do need to be updated because they do more harm long term in the development of men than good

I'm taking the bate. It what ways did your father teach you to be masculine that need updating?

One thing that definitely does need to be updated in America society is the idea of a man being a stoic unmoving rock. Neglecting emotions stun a man, conquering them allows growtg.

I disagree. I think there's a time and place for every emotion. Sometimes we all have to be stoic and unmoving. I think the fact that many of us men and women stay flip flopping is, an issue. Flipping flopping causes confusion.

 

[Kwan Dai]

Yes it does...but there are certain things about the way we've been taught to be masculine that do need to be updated because they do more harm long term in the development of men than good

I'm taking the bait. In what ways did your father teach you to be masculine that need updating?

I wasn't talking my father I was talking masculinity in general...the majority of the idea of what being a man is is the same across the globe and somebody already pointed out one of the biggest

Gotcha. I'm cool with the world view of what being a man and woman should be. What I think both men and women suffer from is, the inability to balance who we are and perhaps what we should be.

 

[The_Jackal]

Yes it does...but there are certain things about the way we've been taught to be masculine that do need to be updated because they do more harm long term in the development of men than good

I'm taking the bate. It what ways did your father teach you to be masculine that need updating?

One thing that definitely does need to be updated in America society is the idea of a man being a stoic unmoving rock. Neglecting emotions stun a man, conquering them allows growtg.

I disagree. I think there's a time and place for every emotion. Sometimes we all have to be stoic and unmoving. I think the fact that many of us men and women stay flip flopping is, an issue. Flipping flopping causes confusion.

You are agreeing with me though. I never said you should be controlled by emotions or let them influence you irrationally, just that you shouldn't neglect them because people see men as stoic creatures.

Of course everyone has to be willing to put their foot down at some point. For instance you can tell your girlfriend or wife " I'm unwilling to accept cheaters because of the pain it will cause me andown the trust it will shatter. You are still stoic just you are using your emotions to reinforce your belief.