Stop trying to excuse gender roles....there here & they'll never change.
Niggas is suppose to be warriors, soldiers, aggressive....it's in our nature.
Females is suppose to virtuous, pure, feminine....and they choose a nigga who gets to have her.
It's been that way since 11,000 BC. The phenomenon of women being sexually aggressive is a 30 year old concept. Getting the woman of your dreams was an incentive for niggas to work for her affection or to get their shit together in life. What incentive a nigga got if they getting a chick 30 niggas done soiled? Now....I'm sure 20 posters gonna come in here with disagreements but, to see where this concept has got us in 2011, look at the current state of marriage/relationships. Shit is fucked & that's one of the reasons among many. People only have issues with gender roles when that shit opresses what they want. Any other time we abide by it. Nobody has a problem with gender roles when it says men should pay for everything or women should be wined & dined. Nobody sees issues with gender roles when they see grown men on the street in dresses & lipstick & are disgusted by it. Nobody sees issues with gender roles when it says women can be stay at home mothers but, fathers can't. Nobody sees gender roles as bad when it says men shouldn't hit on women but, a chick can punch her boyfriend on a reality show & everything's cool. Miss me on that shit. It's a reason why men can fuck alot of chicks & chicks look weird fucking alot of dudes. That's always been our MO.