Does a woman's past really matter ??

[2stepz_ahead]

i think it matter because of a few reasons

1. women can always have sex...all they have to do is ask for it and if they are fine they are constantly approached for it. with that being said, a woman thats sleep with alof of men show that she has no restraint. why do it just because.

2. every woman goes thru a hoe stage....EVERY WOMAN!!! but that has to be just a phase...find out what you like and then keep it moving. to keep it going too long aint no way around being a hoe and again why keep it going?

3. usually a woman with too many sex partners, its a deeper problem with them. now dont get me wrong....ladies can have fun....but again it all depends. most hoes i know either mad at they daddy or has been scarred by a dominate male figure in there life or molested.

 

[bmoreeast]

It only matters if you let it.

As long as she wasnt involved in any hood gangbangs and i can walk down the street wit her and niggas wont be laughing in pointing at me, then im good. I think 90% of women have some type of past. If she in her 20's best believe she then sucked somebodies dick, and has fucked somebody in a strange place. If you think about that type of shit you'll drive yourself crazy.

 

[bmoreeast]

42 dudes is a lot

maybe it's only cause i can count the number of girls i've fucked on one hand

but 42 is a big ass number

Damn!! Yeah that is alot. I didnt even see nothing about 42, i was just answering the Thread Title. I personally dont even know the # of dudes any of the girls iv messed wit has fucked. Thats including both my Bm's. Its only one girl that i knew how many dudes she fucked and i was her 3rd.

Well actually i did know 2 other girls that had only had sex wit their Bf's. I do notice that the least experienced women arent as sexually open as the ones that has had a good amount of dif partners.

 

[politicalthug202]

Naw I think the double standard is ok in our society woman can get sex on way more convient terms and average looking chick can have 2 or 3

above average looking dudes on rotation freind/fuck buddy at all times. not too many aqverage dudes with regular money is gonna be able

fuck dimes on rotation,so most dudes just take what they can get at anytime. there is no excuse for a chick if she average looking

to have over 20 partners.. I understand you can have a few wild days in college with being drunk and shit,but at some

point you should settle down or find some consitant fuck buddies.

plus its hard to be special with you if you have been with everybody

and woman have more options so they should have higher standards

and thus less partner. men have less options thus lower standards.

thats why we make fun of rappers for sleeping with whore

like katt stacks and carmen,because these dudes have the option

of fucking with video models,but they messing with hoodrats so theu get clowned.

plus promiscuity or sleeping with alot of ppl is usually

coping mechanism for low self esteem and I dont want that

potential problem in my relationship.

 

[Maalik]

Stop trying to excuse gender roles....there here & they'll never change.

Niggas is suppose to be warriors, soldiers, aggressive....it's in our nature.

Females is suppose to virtuous, pure, feminine....and they choose a nigga who gets to have her.

It's been that way since 11,000 BC. The phenomenon of women being sexually aggressive is a 30 year old concept. Getting the woman of your dreams was an incentive for niggas to work for her affection or to get their shit together in life. What incentive a nigga got if they getting a chick 30 niggas done soiled? Now....I'm sure 20 posters gonna come in here with disagreements but, to see where this concept has got us in 2011, look at the current state of marriage/relationships. Shit is fucked & that's one of the reasons among many. People only have issues with gender roles when that shit opresses what they want. Any other time we abide by it. Nobody has a problem with gender roles when it says men should pay for everything or women should be wined & dined. Nobody sees issues with gender roles when they see grown men on the street in dresses & lipstick & are disgusted by it. Nobody sees issues with gender roles when it says women can be stay at home mothers but, fathers can't. Nobody sees gender roles as bad when it says men shouldn't hit on women but, a chick can punch her boyfriend on a reality show & everything's cool. Miss me on that shit. It's a reason why men can fuck alot of chicks & chicks look weird fucking alot of dudes. That's always been our MO.

 

[VulcanRaven]

Well I expect a bitch to be an under cover hoe.It's not our fault that women hub up male whores.Women really have no standards,though they pretend they do.Most of these smuts are jump offs anyway and they encourage promiscuity by fucking men who are not single.The girl of my dreams -which does not exist- would not be a loose hoe.I have no problem with dick fiends.My problem lies when they front on giving up the pussy or all of a sudden decide that they are worth more than being a quick nut.they need to keep it real and give up the pussy at all times because that's the type of women they are.Man it's like you got a junkie,but you don't hold it against him.Then the junkie try to act like he is a normal human being.Now would you trust that junkie to be in your house around your possessions? Not if you got any sense.So why trust a dick fiend around other men?

 

[lighthearted25]

i never understood why a dude who was a gangbanger, been in jail, but turns his life around and everyone, including other men, congratulates and respects him. but lets say a prostitute or just a girl who slept around does the exact same thing, turns her life around, but she is damaged goods and can never be seen in a different light. no one will congratulate her and will say a hoe is hoe or whatever. explain the difference.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

i never understood why a dude who was a gangbanger, been in jail, but turns his life around and everyone, including other men, congratulates and respects him. but lets say a prostitute or just a girl who slept around does the exact same thing, turns her life around, but she is damaged goods and can never be seen in a different light. no one will congratulate her and will say a hoe is hoe or whatever. explain the difference.

bcuz the gangbanger didnt let someone dik him down and cum on his face(nh).....hopefully....lol

 

[b@squ1@t redux]

yall cant handle whores

just let me take care of that

 

[lighthearted25]

bcuz the gangbanger didnt let someone dik him down and cum on his face(nh).....hopefully....lol

yes hurting and stealing from people speaks to a much better character that getting dicked down and sprayed in the face. okay i understand now.

 

[2stepz_ahead]

yes hurting and stealing from people speaks to a much better character that getting dicked down and sprayed in the face. okay i understand now.

why would i want a woman that get dikked down and sprayed in the face by multiple guys.....its bad enough you have to deal with your ladies ex's ...now you gotta find out she was doing it for money becuz she couldnt do any better?

thats ok with you

 

[dwade206]

First off whats good to everybody on da IC...EscoHovNyGo thanks 4 doin dis thread...i was thinkin bout doin one just like it. But yah i hate da whole double standard thing wit a passion my G! Im wit a chick now (and have been) and we been togetha for a minute and she kept it real from jump and told me she been wit 42 dudes...shes 30 years old. Now when she told me she was cryin cuz she neva told a dude da truth and she thought id stop fuckin wit her. But I know for a fact dat most girls her age are at da number or higher...trill talk! Im 28 and ive reached da century mark...so how can i be a hypocrite like most guys and shit on her for havin a ("supposed") high number when ive mo den doubled her amount. If shes a ho den im a ho, strait up. Its 2011 and dat double standard shit need to die out...and for u suckas who believe da chick ur wit is in da single digits...drink a bleach martini. No lol.

Ya girl been with 42 dudes? If that works for you so be it. I can't tolerate shit like that. I went through a situation in college, where the girl I was with was considered as "communal property". I found out about it after we made things official, and the shit made me sick to my stomach, b. Long story short, after a few months I broke up with her, and ended up dating someone else who turned out to be my future wife.

 

[dwade206]

First off whats good to everybody on da IC...EscoHovNyGo thanks 4 doin dis thread...i was thinkin bout doin one just like it. But yah i hate da whole double standard thing wit a passion my G! Im wit a chick now (and have been) and we been togetha for a minute and she kept it real from jump and told me she been wit 42 dudes...shes 30 years old. Now when she told me she was cryin cuz she neva told a dude da truth and she thought id stop fuckin wit her. But I know for a fact dat most girls her age are at da number or higher...trill talk! Im 28 and ive reached da century mark...so how can i be a hypocrite like most guys and shit on her for havin a ("supposed") high number when ive mo den doubled her amount. If shes a ho den im a ho, strait up. Its 2011 and dat double standard shit need to die out...and for u suckas who believe da chick ur wit is in da single digits...drink a bleach martini. No lol.[/QUOTE]

...also dawg, just because your girl fucked 42 niggas, doesn't mean there are no women in the single digits. I speak from personal experience.

 

[VulcanRaven]

I"ve been thinking about this too. Do people really change? Some say once a hoe always a hoe. I dunno.

People don't change man.Your teen hood and early adult hood makes you the person you are for the rest of your life.

 

[dwade206]

Stop trying to excuse gender roles....there here & they'll never change.

Niggas is suppose to be warriors, soldiers, aggressive....it's in our nature.

Females is suppose to virtuous, pure, feminine....and they choose a nigga who gets to have her.

It's been that way since 11,000 BC. The phenomenon of women being sexually aggressive is a 30 year old concept. Getting the woman of your dreams was an incentive for niggas to work for her affection or to get their shit together in life. What incentive a nigga got if they getting a chick 30 niggas done soiled? Now....I'm sure 20 posters gonna come in here with disagreements but, to see where this concept has got us in 2011, look at the current state of marriage/relationships. Shit is fucked & that's one of the reasons among many. People only have issues with gender roles when that shit opresses what they want. Any other time we abide by it. Nobody has a problem with gender roles when it says men should pay for everything or women should be wined & dined. Nobody sees issues with gender roles when they see grown men on the street in dresses & lipstick & are disgusted by it. Nobody sees issues with gender roles when it says women can be stay at home mothers but, fathers can't. Nobody sees gender roles as bad when it says men shouldn't hit on women but, a chick can punch her boyfriend on a reality show & everything's cool. Miss me on that shit. It's a reason why men can fuck alot of chicks & chicks look weird fucking alot of dudes. That's always been our MO.

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Ok, this nigga just shitted on ya'll duck ass niggas that wife up hoes

ether

 

[VulcanRaven]

Damn...I aint dissing you or her pimpin' but if a chick made it to the 40/40 club at 30 years old, then I need her to not tell me that shit til she gets dirt over the casket...I don't wanna know a chicks past in the sex department (as far as numbers) and I leave it at that..and I woulda stopped fucking wit her if she dropped a life sentence number like that on me, but you a real dude for holding it down

ROFL,that chick done fucked the a pro bowl of niggas.That chick got more experience fucking than both Cal Ripken and Bret Favre has sports experience combined.Chick pussy probably collapsed like the Vikings dome.

 

[dwade206]

if only I knew how to be embed on this site

 

[lighthearted25]

why would i want a woman that get dikked down and sprayed in the face by multiple guys.....its bad enough you have to deal with your ladies ex's ...now you gotta find out she was doing it for money becuz she couldnt do any better?

thats ok with you

it just seems excessive sexual activity by a woman is viewed and judged more harshly than things that are much worse. thats all im sayin, an the word hoe is thrown around and used in cases that don't justify it.

 

[VulcanRaven]

ROFL.I'm still dying @ 42.This chick got a throw back jersey with the #42 and dick fiend on the back.Damn.They gone retire her jersey in the hoe-o-fame.

 

[dwade206]

ROFL.I'm still dying @ 42.This chick got a throw back jersey with the #42 and dick fiend on the back.Damn.They gone retire her jersey in the hoe-o-fame.

though I disagree with most of the shit you post, I gotta co-sign this shit